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How many dates until you become exclusive? (Page 2)

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  • William_Davidson_Jr
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    Xper 4 Age: 33
    +1 y

    I say 5 because at 3 your still just trying to get a feel for one another. At 5 you should know if you got something going on or are just friends

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  • YoungNDFree
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    Xper 4 Age: 28
    +1 y

    Everyone has a different speed, but 5 is usually the lowest amount of dates needed before anything is considered exclusive

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  • BCRanger10 u
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    Master Age: 38 , mho 34%
    +1 y
    1.3K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    I would usually say after about three or four dates.

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  • dragonfly6516
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    Guru Age: 43 , mho 56%
    +1 y
    917 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    There is no magical preset date. It's whenever you decide that's what you want.

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    • dragonfly6516
      dragonfly6516
      +1 y

      *you both

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  • Hurlyburly
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    +1 y

    Well since I don't really date it would be 1 "date" 😅

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  • Aynsof
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    Yoda Age: 48
    +1 y
    374 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Don't think you can put a set number of that
    It would vary with circumstances think
    You are exclusive when you agree that you are

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    • coachTanthony
      coachTanthony
      +1 y

      So you go on like 40 dates over the span of 7 months but she still isn't sure.. you just going to wait until she is? How many dates for you is too many?

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    • Aynsof
      Aynsof
      +1 y

      I don't know it would depend a lot on how much I like the person
      40 dates sounds like a lot... I would think something would be decided one way or another before then
      But I can't set a number for it

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  • Lance1965
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    +1 y
    3.7K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    You are never exclusive. You can be with someone for 10 years and they could be cheating on you. That is the risk you take with any relationship.

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    • coachTanthony
      coachTanthony
      +1 y

      Booooo... and Booooooo

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  • loveslongnails
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    Master Age: 40
    +1 y
    4K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    It becomes exclusive when you both SAY it's exclusive. If you just assume it is after 3, or 5, or even 10 dates, you're headed for trouble.

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  • Fuentes
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    +1 y
    3.7K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Hmmm I don't know i like to take things slow i need to make sure i can get along with her snd she respects me & she knows she can expect the same from me

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  • happyhippo
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    Yoda Age: 28
    +1 y

    it could take 2, it could take 20. It depends more on the feeling, than the count of dates.

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  • Nik1hil
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    +1 y
    2.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    It doesn't depends on the dates.. It depends on how great they went and how do we both feel

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  • CandacePerry
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    Yoda Age: 27 , mho 30%
    +1 y

    Aroud about the 3rd end date.

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  • apple24
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    Master Age: 30
    +1 y
    5.6K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Hmmm... sorry mate butttt... people my age don’t date

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  • jacquesvol
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    Master Age: 79
    +1 y
    3.9K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    The better you know each other, the more successful the relationship will be.

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  • DDeathlonger
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    Xper 4 Age: 28
    +1 y

    None. Dating is a waste, you build friendships, and if you are happy together, then propose and marry.
    Dating is taken as too much of a game by too many people.

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  • venelopeduck
    venelopeduck Follow
    Xper 4 Age: 33
    +1 y

    Depends on the person and what feels right. You can tell when it's serious.

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  • pizzalovershouse
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    Master Age: 37
    +1 y
    1.9K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    for every 1 its diffrent me its useky 2 weeks by then i know a bit about their personality

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  • sinastyle
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    Xper 7 Age: 28
    +1 y

    If he is attractive it can happen right away. If not, 10 or more will not help either

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  • Defboy69
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    Xper 6 Age: 56
    +1 y

    I'll be exclusive after the first date if we end up making love.

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  • JohnFrost
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    Xper 5 Age: 34
    +1 y

    Until you said so with her there is no number it depends on the situation

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  • CuriousMufuxka
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    Guru Age: 47
    +1 y

    That depends on the connection felt between the lady and the gentleman:)

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  • smt133
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    Xper 4 Age: 27
    +1 y

    Thats a conversation, not an assumption. You talk and agree.

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  • SioanDaniel
    SioanDaniel Follow
    Xper 4 Age: 39
    +1 y

    Yea may be we have sex but not frome the first timd but when we have sex we should be faithful and stay together all our life

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  • Quetzalcoatl42
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    Xper 4 Age: 37
    +1 y

    I only date exclusively... not that I hold a woman to the same standard at first, though. But it should be mutual pretty quickly.

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  • Somefoo
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    Xper 2 Age: 45
    +1 y

    That's pretty arbitrary. Depends what they want and if there is chemistry. A strin dlindicatory is spending time with you.

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  • Anonymous
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    (36-45)
    +1 y

    It's not like eating a cookie..."How many bites does it take?" People and circumstances are different...

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  • JosyJosy
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    Master Age: 33
    +1 y
    4.1K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    I don't know how they do it, after 3 dates

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  • askmegetzero
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    Xper 4 Age: 56
    +1 y

    It was the lowest number personally I don't go in just to find a way out

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  • rj694u
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    Xper 4 Age: 57
    +1 y

    If the two of you agree on a third date, then there's reason

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  • Anonymous
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    (45 Plus)
    +1 y

    I feel it’s probably exclusive after 4 dates and start having sex I think would make it exclusive

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  • motownplayer2000
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    +1 y
    1.1K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    However many you want

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  • Zion666
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    Xper 5 Age: 45
    +1 y

    10 because there's no greater number

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  • Kiing_geno
    Kiing_geno Follow
    Xper 5 Age: 27
    +1 y

    Shouldn't be to many if truly interested

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  • Jesslin412
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    Yoda Age: 31
    +1 y
    309 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Exclusive? 🤔 I don’t date multiple people...

    1
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  • Sienna-Rose
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    Yoda Age: 40 , mho 42%
    +1 y

    I tend to know after 3 dates

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    • Sienna-Rose
      Sienna-Rose
      +1 y

      As to when exclusivity occurs, that between each couple to individually determine so it varies

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  • pixie_xoxo
    pixie_xoxo Follow
    Xper 5 Age: 31 , mho 49%
    +1 y

    Depends on the person

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    0 Reply
  • JimRSmith
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    Master Age: 43 , mho 36%
    +1 y
    712 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Down towards the lower end for sure.

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    0 Reply
  • lostlife
    lostlife Follow
    Xper 2 Age: 37
    +1 y

    i had a guy ask to me official on the second date.

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  • fflomackk
    fflomackk Follow
    Xper 4 Age: 33
    +1 y

    Depends on how you define date

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  • bubble_tea
    bubble_tea Follow
    Guru Age: 41
    +1 y
    1.1K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    When you have the "talk".

    0
    0 Reply
  • savalisk
    savalisk Follow
    Explorer Age: 33
    +1 y
    322 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Depends on the person.

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    0 Reply
  • YouCantTouchThis
    YouCantTouchThis Follow
    Xper 5 Age: 25
    +1 y

    Zero. No one can touch me.

    1
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    • coachTanthony
      coachTanthony
      +1 y

      LmAO

      Reply
  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (25-29)
    +1 y

    1.3 and the u propose

    1
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    • coachTanthony
      coachTanthony
      +1 y

      I can totally see that in the 7th grade LOL

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    • Synttacks
      Synttacks
      +1 y

      @Anon Do you mean Propose or propose being exclusive? These are two very different things. I'd also assum you meant 1 to 3 and not a third of the way through your second date.

      Reply
    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      @Synttacks I'm joking. I've never even had a date!

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    • Synttacks
      Synttacks
      +1 y

      Lol Ok. You have lots of time. Enjoy life @Anon 😀

      Reply
  • dornery14fun
    dornery14fun Follow
    Xper 4 Age: 39
    +1 y

    Depends on our common interests and if we click.

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (25-29)
    +1 y

    Depends. I've been exclusive with no dates.

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  • torwulf
    torwulf Follow
    Xper 6 Age: 27
    +1 y

    Whatever you two agree upon

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  • cupidkisses
    cupidkisses Follow
    Master Age: 31
    +1 y

    it is not about the number

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  • zagor
    zagor Follow
    Master Age: 40
    +1 y
    10.9K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    No particular number. Depends on the situation.

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  • ItsMeDoodles
    ItsMeDoodles Follow
    Xper 4 Age: 25
    +1 y

    Just adding opinion for the Xper.

    0
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    • coachTanthony
      coachTanthony
      +1 y

      Sweet... so what is your opinion?

      Reply
  • COCOCHANEL
    COCOCHANEL Follow
    Master Age: 40
    +1 y
    2.4K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    sometimes one!

    1
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    • SoCk3t_PoCk3tZ
      SoCk3t_PoCk3tZ
      +1 y

      You can't tell much with one date. People wearing their masks/personas still

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    • COCOCHANEL
      COCOCHANEL
      +1 y

      @SoCk3t_PoCk3tZ true, i'm a sucker

      Reply
    • COCOCHANEL
      COCOCHANEL
      +1 y

      @SoCk3t_PoCk3tZ but only if they're really hot !!

      Reply
    • SoCk3t_PoCk3tZ
      SoCk3t_PoCk3tZ
      +1 y

      Lol true but even then I'd be looking for more depth 😂

      Reply
  • CarlosF
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    Xper 6 Age: 36
    +1 y

    One.

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  • france1
    france1 Follow
    Xper 3 Age: 35
    +1 y

    what the heck does that even mean

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  • Girolamo
    Girolamo Follow
    Xper 5 Age: 41
    +1 y

    Everyone is different...

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    0 Reply
  • legalboxers
    legalboxers Follow
    Master Age: 49
    +1 y

    3.. I know its right after 3

    0
    0 Reply
  • jerseyboy75
    jerseyboy75 Follow
    Xper 4 Age: 51
    +1 y

    I believe this is true facts

    0
    1 Reply
    • coachTanthony
      coachTanthony
      +1 y

      HUH?

      Reply
  • Bédis
    Bédis Follow
    Xper 4 Age: 35
    +1 y

    Seven dates...

    1
    0 Reply
  • jesse1997
    jesse1997 Follow
    Xper 6 Age: 28
    +1 y

    3 will do

    1
    0 Reply
  • BOUNTYGUY9
    BOUNTYGUY9 Follow
    Yoda Age: 65
    +1 y

    one or two for me

    1
    1 Reply
    • BOUNTYGUY9
      BOUNTYGUY9
      +1 y

      so hot l want that girl lol

      Reply
  • Smegskull
    Smegskull Follow
    Yoda Age: 36
    +1 y
    1.1K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    No set rule.

    1
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  • Nice222
    Nice222 Follow
    Guru Age: 55
    +1 y
    1.1K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    I would say five.

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