He won't commit in our long distance relationship is this a bad sign?

melodychas
I’ve been dating a guy long distance for a year, (we lived about 3 hrs apart) and we’ve only seen each other 4 times. I love his town and I have thought about moving there because of how much I liked it and to also be closer. He really wants me to move closer to him and keeps asking how probable it could be. I brought up exclusivity recently and told him I wanted to have sex with him and brought up being exclusive because I said I think it’s a good idea to be exclusive if we do that. He respected my decision but said that he is seeing someone else at the moment but that he would break it off to be with me exclusively. I took his word for it but two weeks have passed now and I saw online that they were together last night. Tonight while we were texting I asked how long it will be until we can be real and he said he hasn’t set a timeline for it and I asked him if it would be any different if we lived close and he said that he thinks it would. I believe in us being together and feel very strongly about it but am frustrated with the situation. Part of me feels like if he really wanted to be with me he would commit to me but then I also think that maybe long distance just won’t work for us and it’s not a sign he doesn’t care about me. I really don’t know though?
He won't commit in our long distance relationship is this a bad sign?
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