Girls kiss all the time without it being gay. Honestly, you super over reacted.
Maybe your friend was just listening to Katy Perry.
Would it be so wrong to receive a same sex kiss? Honestly age 22, that's when most people experiment, not that I am saying your friend even wanted that.
I had a lot of lesbian teammates in softball, and even though they know I'm straight, a few of them really wanted to "bring me into the fold." I was disturbed, but I admit I was also a little flattered. A few tried to do more than ask.
I've even had other straight girls tell me that they'd go lesbian for me, that if I was ever up for it, to let them know. One of them was a little drunk one night and she was kind of insistent.
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Yes. It was awkward, but before my friend came out as bi, she would casually bring up the topic of wanting to go down on me just to see if she was any good at it or wanting us to make out for fun. Always responded with a no and let her know if she pressed any further on the issue I wasn’t sure if we could stay friends because I’m only interested in men.
Yes, a friend once dragged me into the loo she was touching me so I told her to stop and laughed it off (I was drunk).
I've been kissed on the mouth by a few friends (close) but that's just because I love them and care about them but not in a lesbian kinder way. As there was no attraction just loved them as they were a big part of my life. I
Yes, my best friend from school... He asked me out when we were in middle school and when we went on a field trip, we shared the same bed and he made a move on me there... It was quite funny actually but later, we both agreed that it was a bad idea and I think he got over it after that...
Omg yes, I went to her house for the first time and she said "If you wanna fuck then I'm down for it" lmaoo, I was so sure she was joking because she always said that to everyone but she wasn't, then when our friendship ended she told me she loved me.
Yes Guy friend try to kiss me He push me to the wall , came near for kiss and his erect crotch was touching me as when he came really near I push him away I didn't speak about that incident nor did he to anyone but Since then we are not friends It's was when I was in 10 standard about 15 years old and in my own house And as it's slightly big house standing 4 floor and 25 bedroom no one knew about it as well as he was never invited again to my place
It was old days' story when I was living with a girl in an apartment during studies. Once after shower I came out of bathroom naked, as usual. She was there watching TV. While talking, she touched my boobs. I felt exciting and soon nipples were hard. It was the beginning that she also took off her clothes, I reciprocated by massaging her boobs. And then we continued...
I'm actually surprised other men haven't been hitted on. I mean it doesn't help that I used to go to gay bars often. Dude gay bars make me feel like the hottest dude alive. Plus free drinks lol. Im in a new city and my goal is to find a new set of gay guy friends. Being the token straight dude is the best.
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My friend just recently told me she is bi. I then realized she had given me slight hints she would be interested in me for some months already. She never made a move though. Those hints would have been almost too clear if I would have known she likes women too. We haven't talked about it and I don't know what I should think about it. I'm not interested in women, and I don't want to loose her as a friend.
Yah lol I took it like a boss and told him I appreciated the compliment but don’t “play for that team”
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Yes, a friend/coworker of mine who stayed after his shift to catch a buzz (I used to work in a bar/restaurant in college) had a few too many and asked if i wanted to stay the night. I had/have a longtime girlfriend and laughed it off, and never brought it up later (not sure if he remembers saying it tbh). He is happily engaged now and i have no problem/awkwardness going to his wedding when it happens.
Yes. Some had no control of their behavior as they were drunk while trying to throw themself ar me and her handsy, and one girl I met from university thought that I was open minded to experiment my sexuality.
No, thankfully I live in a very small town with very Chatolic beliefs in regard. NOT THAT THERE IS ANYTHING WRONG WITH BEING GAY, but since I'm not, receiving that kind of attention from a friend would be uncomfortable. It has happened in bigger cities pubs, but except for a couple of rude ones, they were all gracious when rejected, so that's fine.
You misspelled Catholic, sorry! I tend to correct people a lot. Also I agree with you but I'm not really homophobic. I personally prefer guys flirting with me, but my self esteem gets a bit higher when other girls do it as well.
@elegantprincess Thank you for the correction and yeah yeah, I mean specifically when it's your friend to do that. At least here, women tend to be touchy a lot to each other when they are friends. If I discover that a friend of mine is gay, I start to think that her hugs and such might not be as innocent as I thought.
I made the move and changed our relationship for about 6 months we went with each other then she found a new girlfriend and we dont even talk anymore. Llesson learned, let her make the first move
For my bf's b-day years ago, I brought a woman home for him but I got lured onto the bed instead of just watching & directing them. I'd say that's the official start for me being a bi-sexual woman.
Of course. I am in this profession where I never know if it s going to be a guy or a girl. haha Seriously, in real life, yes, made passes to and even once I was told I love you by a best friend.
I have friends who are lez or Bi and they've tried to get me to kiss them or told me they found me attractive. I just told them it wasn't a good idea. If you are straight, we forget sometimes gay people are seeing things a different way.
Nope never and I am so happy about that since if they made a pass on me it would mostly drive me away since it weirds me out. The few times a guy makes a pass at me I feel really uncomfortable I usually look for the nearest exit.
Yes. I knew he was gay, but made it a point that I just was looking for a friend. Yet constantly batted his eyes and even asked if it'd be okay to kiss me which I said no in as friendly as possible way lol
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Girls kiss all the time without it being gay. Honestly, you super over reacted.
Maybe your friend was just listening to Katy Perry.
Would it be so wrong to receive a same sex kiss? Honestly age 22, that's when most people experiment, not that I am saying your friend even wanted that.
Yeah, more than once.
I had a lot of lesbian teammates in softball, and even though they know I'm straight, a few of them really wanted to "bring me into the fold." I was disturbed, but I admit I was also a little flattered. A few tried to do more than ask.
I've even had other straight girls tell me that they'd go lesbian for me, that if I was ever up for it, to let them know. One of them was a little drunk one night and she was kind of insistent.
Yes. It was awkward, but before my friend came out as bi, she would casually bring up the topic of wanting to go down on me just to see if she was any good at it or wanting us to make out for fun. Always responded with a no and let her know if she pressed any further on the issue I wasn’t sure if we could stay friends because I’m only interested in men.
Yes, a friend once dragged me into the loo she was touching me so I told her to stop and laughed it off (I was drunk).
I've been kissed on the mouth by a few friends (close) but that's just because I love them and care about them but not in a lesbian kinder way. As there was no attraction just loved them as they were a big part of my life. I
Yes, my best friend from school... He asked me out when we were in middle school and when we went on a field trip, we shared the same bed and he made a move on me there... It was quite funny actually but later, we both agreed that it was a bad idea and I think he got over it after that...
Omg yes, I went to her house for the first time and she said "If you wanna fuck then I'm down for it" lmaoo, I was so sure she was joking because she always said that to everyone but she wasn't, then when our friendship ended she told me she loved me.
Yes
Guy friend try to kiss me
He push me to the wall , came near for kiss and his erect crotch was touching me as when he came really near I push him away
I didn't speak about that incident nor did he to anyone but
Since then we are not friends
It's was when I was in 10 standard about 15 years old and in my own house
And as it's slightly big house standing 4 floor and 25 bedroom no one knew about it as well as he was never invited again to my place
What a turn on. haha
He is guy
It didn't turn me on it scared me
It was old days' story when I was living with a girl in an apartment during studies. Once after shower I came out of bathroom naked, as usual. She was there watching TV. While talking, she touched my boobs. I felt exciting and soon nipples were hard. It was the beginning that she also took off her clothes, I reciprocated by massaging her boobs. And then we continued...
I'm actually surprised other men haven't been hitted on. I mean it doesn't help that I used to go to gay bars often. Dude gay bars make me feel like the hottest dude alive. Plus free drinks lol. Im in a new city and my goal is to find a new set of gay guy friends. Being the token straight dude is the best.
My friend just recently told me she is bi. I then realized she had given me slight hints she would be interested in me for some months already. She never made a move though. Those hints would have been almost too clear if I would have known she likes women too. We haven't talked about it and I don't know what I should think about it. I'm not interested in women, and I don't want to loose her as a friend.
Yah lol I took it like a boss and told him I appreciated the compliment but don’t “play for that team”
Yes, a friend/coworker of mine who stayed after his shift to catch a buzz (I used to work in a bar/restaurant in college) had a few too many and asked if i wanted to stay the night. I had/have a longtime girlfriend and laughed it off, and never brought it up later (not sure if he remembers saying it tbh). He is happily engaged now and i have no problem/awkwardness going to his wedding when it happens.
Yes. Some had no control of their behavior as they were drunk while trying to throw themself ar me and her handsy, and one girl I met from university thought that I was open minded to experiment my sexuality.
No, thankfully I live in a very small town with very Chatolic beliefs in regard. NOT THAT THERE IS ANYTHING WRONG WITH BEING GAY, but since I'm not, receiving that kind of attention from a friend would be uncomfortable.
It has happened in bigger cities pubs, but except for a couple of rude ones, they were all gracious when rejected, so that's fine.
You misspelled Catholic, sorry! I tend to correct people a lot. Also I agree with you but I'm not really homophobic. I personally prefer guys flirting with me, but my self esteem gets a bit higher when other girls do it as well.
@elegantprincess Thank you for the correction and yeah yeah, I mean specifically when it's your friend to do that. At least here, women tend to be touchy a lot to each other when they are friends. If I discover that a friend of mine is gay, I start to think that her hugs and such might not be as innocent as I thought.
No its chatolic because they chat so much
I made the move and changed our relationship for about 6 months we went with each other then she found a new girlfriend and we dont even talk anymore. Llesson learned, let her make the first move
For my bf's b-day years ago, I brought a woman home for him but I got lured onto the bed instead of just watching & directing them. I'd say that's the official start for me being a bi-sexual woman.
Of course. I am in this profession where I never know if it s going to be a guy or a girl. haha
Seriously, in real life, yes, made passes to and even once I was told I love you by a best friend.
If you were around me my dick eould always be hard and Id keep tryimg!!
@thomasans2 haha That is rude.
What profession?
What profession?
I have friends who are lez or Bi and they've tried to get me to kiss them or told me they found me attractive. I just told them it wasn't a good idea. If you are straight, we forget sometimes gay people are seeing things a different way.
Nope never and I am so happy about that since if they made a pass on me it would mostly drive me away since it weirds me out. The few times a guy makes a pass at me I feel really uncomfortable I usually look for the nearest exit.
Yes. I knew he was gay, but made it a point that I just was looking for a friend. Yet constantly batted his eyes and even asked if it'd be okay to kiss me which I said no in as friendly as possible way lol