My boyfriend follows random girls on Instagram, should I be worried? (Page 3)
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As a guy my girlfriend always gets mad at me for following or liking a photo, personally my mind set is I'll just be bored and scroll and like numerous photos thinking nothing of it bc there's no seriius thought going into it. I believe you shouldn't be worried if you are indeed significantly worried just talk to him about it in an adult way.
I don't like it. Men DO use social media to chase other women. You are NOT out of bounds to call him out on it. I mean, unless he wants YOU to start posting hot pics to get other men's attention? lol
If its one of them "instagram models" i wouldn't worry, like a celebrity crush kinda deal. Everyone has one of those. If its someone that he may know personally that isn't someone generally seen as his friend, then there may be something, but I would take it with a grain of salt.
Be more worried that you're presumably pushing 30 boyfriend has nothing better to do than be on instagram. He should be forging his first empire at this point in his life not "liking" shots of sideboob on rando's digital ego stroker.
He’s obviously not satisfied with you and he wishes that he could be with those girls instead of you, but he has to just lower his standards and settle for someone he really doesn’t like. All men settle & lower their standards unless they’re able to get a stripper
This gets asked 2-3 time sa day. NO. NEver ever worry about people following people on Instagram, especially random people.
It means nothnig. It always means nothing. Instagram subscriptions are not meaningful.
He is exploring but as long as he is not touching or talking, it seems okay. I have to admit it is a little disrespectful. Tell him to stop or you will contemplate something 'random' yourself with this relationship.
My question to you would be, do you follow random guys on Instagram?
In general, no nothing to worry about. It's natural to find people attractive or to interact with others. We are social creatures naturally but if it proceeds past talk and looking at pictures, then I'd be worried.
I don't Find it Fair to you that He does this, I would be Pissed. It is Disrespectful and if He is Doing it, Who knows if he May one day Be... Screwing it.
Say something to him. Call his Bluff. xx
If they're just models then you shouldn't be worried. Guy's will always want to look at boobs, butts, and girls they find attractive. It says nothing about how he feel ls towards you. If they're random then it's just that. Even if he knows them. You should be worried if he starts becoming distant. If he isn't distant then he's just looking at boobs.
Not a huge deal. It just means he finds those girls hot. And as we all know a LOT of Instagram models are INCREDIBLY hot. But also remember, it's not as though he has the choice to be with any of them. Even if he wanted to, he most likely couldn't. So it's not really a risk for you.
I don't know if actually following them is a bad sign but if him and the girl he is following are both liking each others pictures, Id be worried because something is up between them.
I would definitely bring up your concerns to your boyfriend. That way hopefully if he's not up to anything sketchy and is honest with you he can squash your concerns right there. But yeah that looks a little fishy to me.
HAHA!.. It doesn't means shit!.. Following influencer or random girls is all okay. if they are content creators and he is consuming the content.
however, if he is talking in DM, then prosecute him!..
If he is really into you then random encounters on the internet with other women, suggest to me that he is not as interested in you as he might have been in the past.
Satisfied men are happy with their relationship and don't go elsewhere.
This is different than when passing an exquisite woman on the street and noticing inconspicously.
As long as he's still giving you sex and a condom full of cum, you've nothing to worry about.
It's when you're getting no sex, that you need to start thinking he's getting it elsewhere.
I'm guessing either you are jealous or you got reasons to worry. Otherwise you would be with him.
Talk to him about it. Pray on it. Things will get better. Dont make a fuss about it just talk to him nicely and if he reacts badly dont let it get to u, just be real. You'll be okay☺☺
As long as he doesn't talk to them, it's probly harmless.
Social media is cancer to relationships. It is really disrespectful but it doesn't mean he'll cheat on you.
I agree with this