Would you wait until marriage for sex?

[Nxtawm]

In modern times, the idea of sex is looser than in the past and sex before marriage is more accepted than before. But since I'm Asian, my family is more traditional and so I'm not the type to have sex before marriage. (not saying only Asians are like this, some Asians do have sex before marriage) This makes me really curious, would you guys be willing to wait until marriage? Since I noticed a lot of guys valuing sex, I'm not sure if there are even guys who would wait.
Though it's not like I value my first time like something holy, it's just how a more traditional family environment effected me.

You would wait for the girl

You would find another girl

[NeighbouringGoat]

I'm Asian too, and I would only want sex after marriage.
Reasons:

-If you get pregnant, he can't NOT take care of you (Unless you get a divorce)
-My parents would beat me with a frying pan if I had sex before marriage, or a boyfriend before marriage (Yes, it's a thing with very conservative parents where ages 0-20 you're not allowed to date, but are expected to be married by 21. God dammit, Ma and Ba.)
-It's easier to ask your husband for a STDs check in my opinion
-You know you're not just a fling and your boyfriend isn't just trying to get in your pants

[Nxtawm]

😂 my parents aren't that strict but the frying pan is probably something my mom would do along with calling me stupid lol. My parents don't mind me dating though.

[JulieXO]

I would definitely not wait until marriage. I need intimacy and good sex in the relationship for it to function. I don't wanna risk marrying someone only to find out that we wan't completely different things in the bedroom.
Also, I know people who wanted to wait until marriage, and all it's lead to is that they got married super early, just so they could finally have sex. I find that kind of ridiculous, but each to their own.

[Harsh_Ch]

Depends on when you'll marry tho
If you're ok with being married at 18~20 years then I can wait
But if you plan on marrying later then bye!

[Nxtawm]

Lol 18 is way young

[Harsh_Ch]

@Nxtawm Why is it too young?
You will become legal right?

[Nxtawm]

True but it's not really about being legal or not. I think at 18, you still haven't fully grasped the world yet, even though you've matured, you're still a bit naive. At 18 most are planning to go to college or get a job not get married.

[Harsh_Ch]

@Nxtawm Well you can still pursue college or have a career despite being married and you'll even have your S/O 's support when pursuing them

[Nxtawm]

Good point, I dunno just really never a thought to get married at 18 for most girls

[Harsh_Ch]

Well there are tons of rich and handsome dudes looking for a teen wife 😘

[Nxtawm]

😂😂 I doubt it

[Harsh_Ch]

@Nxtawm I'm not kidding tho
In fact once I turn 35, I will try to amass as much wealth as I can and then look for a teen wife... if I get lucky that is
And I know many guys who have the same mindset as me

[Nxtawm]

I think it's a nice goal but be careful cause you might attract bad girls or that's who just want money. Some might even be impatient for you to die soooo just be careful. Anyways you're older so you should already know this. Good luck on your goal.

[Harsh_Ch]

@Nxtawm I don't mind gold diggers really, cuz filtering any further would only affect my chances of actually getting a teen wife
And if they are waiting for me to die so they can enjoy my money, then they'll be in for a rude awakening when they find out that I will have bequeathed all of my fortune to my children by then

[Nxtawm]

Wow lol 😂

[Harsh_Ch]

@Nxtawm But then I would be worried about it becoming another soap opera where the step mom would hate her daughter and try to trick her into giving her all of the assets/ blackmail her / use her fiance to sign pre-nups etc

But if it were a son, then I would be worried about her trying to seduce him lol

[Nxtawm]

XD then just go full soap opera like the child can't access the money until a certain age when they're more mature

[Harsh_Ch]

Lol, I'll have to keep that in mind 😉

[djmzes]

Yea I am and wil

[InTimoreDei]

I don't believe in sex before marriage. Call me old fashioned but there are plenty of people that believe in that and I have much respect for them.

[WeirdoWerdo]

Depends on how long we'd have to wait and how long we already have been togheter. But usually no because these years might be a fucking waste of shit and it comes up that she can't have children...

[genericname85]

absolutely freaking not. i'm not gonna pay like 10k just to have sex with some girl. marriages aren't cheap. and if she turns out to be a dud in bed... well then i dun goofed... not gonna happen.

[zagor]

Hey, some guys pay that much to have sex with some girl... once.

[genericname85]

@zagor those guys are either morons or have way too much money to spend in my opinion. heck if i had unlimited money i'd probably do that too xD

[zagor]

Well, you're 15. Post again in ten years and tell us where you're at.

Though I sure hope I'm not still on GaG then...

[Nxtawm]

😂😂😂

[Jegvitikke]

If i found the one and they wanted to wait till mairrage, i would be willing to do that.

[BrianMerritt]

I'm planning on it. I agree that it's the best idea.

[Matts18]

I don't know man. What if she turns out to be a prude about it or just turns out to be a dishrag in bed?

[BrianMerritt]

@Matts18 I didn't say I wouldn't TALK about sex before marriage.

[Matts18]

Ya just wanting a good sex life for you man with your wifey. :)

[BrianMerritt]

@Matts18 I'm sure my sex life will be great. I'm not worried.

[Anonymous]

I think sex is overrated and hyped. I've never had sex nor ever have a desire lol. I'd be 100% content if a girl never wanted it.

[partydelights]

Waited, married as a virgin to a virgin Bride.

[SweetGuy7]

Sex isn't everything lol

[ToughChick]

Already lost my virginity

[Nxtawm]

O. O even though I know there are people who lose their virginity young but I can't ever imagine it, something crazy for me

[Omar5881]

I am waiting until marriage

[Iron_Man]

Yes I would wait

[fauchelevent]

I wouldn't, no.

[desidoll]

What? Sorry no.

[TheNephilim]

Yeah

[reptocarl]

Fuck no

[Anonymous]

I waited but the result is not so good

[achhero]

yes i would

[NaughtySarah]

I have sex often

[RebeccaSJ]

I didn't.