Would you wait until marriage 👩‍❤️‍👨?

[faye_girl]

Say you are dating someone and they want to wait until marriage (for sex in case that wasn't obvious).. you down for that? 😃😃😃

YESS😇

heck no

[btbc92]

Marriage is something that you decide to have together if you have a desire to have sex. You never wait until you are involved in a relationship without knowing who you involved with damn it I always tell people right off the bat where I stand when they say they want to date me. I make it very clear that I don't just say anybody who I don't know. These people who say they not going to wait don't even realize that making marriages only for them to commit adultery what they have sex with different people. It's whoredoms.

As I said prior, sex is a marriage in marriage is all about having sex. The question is to anybody be having sex at all question most people shouldn't. And yes they do. People end up hurt using the bills because they do what they do they have no idea all the things they've done. There are consequences when you choose to abusing you sex for your own personal pleasure and using people regardless if they can send it to it or not. Sex is more than just pleasure, it's about becoming one with the individual, this is why you not only do you create a new creation, which is by having a child, but you create other things too. And it can be either a good thing or a bad thing. The answer is obviously yes I believe in waiting. But the question is who are you going to wait for. You save yourself because you need to save yourself sexually. But you don't want to just have sex and then you have regrets about the scissors you made because once you are not a virgin anymore you can't turn back. We need to start teaching our children correct about sex, and when we need to tell people the truth. More people are suffering because of these decisions. If a man ain't looking to wait, as I have experienced since I was a child, I cannot force somebody to want and desire something they do not want. As I told another user, I know men personally who made those decisions after they thought they can try to ask me out and did not share the same values and beliefs about sex, and then years later they find me and they want to know if I'm still a virgin. It is now no one's personal business regarding my personal sexual status other between me God, and those who it applies. People have their own choices to make. But at the end of the day, I'm not going to hurt myself because other people choose to to take advantage of others and don't even understand what sex really is about what marriage is about, and what it means to share that communion with another individual.

[Laciandmaci]

Yes of course and not for religious reasons. Just personal value about waiting until marriage! I always though marriage before sex was a no no and again not for religious reasons. I want to give my virginity to a guy only when married. I believe my virginity should be lost only after marriage.

[faye_girl]

Cute! Would you date a non virgin guy? Or do you want him to be one too? 😄

[Laciandmaci]

Not trying to sound one sided (this may come off this way) but I would only date a virgin, hence since I am a virgin!

[faye_girl]

No, that makes sense! Thank you for your response! 🥰

[Laciandmaci]

Thanks for understanding, and you are very welcome!! Would you wait until marriage?

[faye_girl]

Oh absolutely! But I'm not gonna hold out for a virgin guy cause... I've met maybe one since I've started dating 😆 and it doesn't help I normally go for older guys. I'm sure they're out there, I just can't find them!

[Laciandmaci]

I can't seem to find them either lol I am still looking, if not I will need to settle for a none virgin just so he didn't have many partners.

[Battooot]

Yes I prefer it. I personally been saving for marriage for a looooooooong time. Im 28 now. And this has been the most difficult thing i ever did in my life. It's extremely difficult to stay virgin with my raging hormones at this age :((. Sadly i fucked a bit 10 months ago. But i decided il keep on my path until i find that special girl. I truly want it only with my wife and its something i been dreaming about since i was 16 >.<.

[Battooot]

Fucked up a bit****

[faye_girl]

OH ok hahaha I was gonna ask what fucked a bit meant 🤣🤣

[Battooot]

Hahaha i HAD to fix it. But yes i pretty much kinda lost my virginity to a girl who asked me to come over to her house. I say "kinda" cause really i barely did anything before i decided to leave. I vouched after it to never do anything like that until i meet a truly special girl that i love and have passion for.
That girl messaged me after 1 week saying she wants sex again, and i had to tell her i got Corona so she can leave me alone >.<

[Battooot]

Aww thanks for MHO!

[Battooot]

<3<3<3

[faye_girl]

😁😁😁

[razelove]

If it was a polygamous marriage, sure, I'll keep having sex with my wife, and bride to be can wait until marriage. We'll date and flirt in the mean-time. It isn't like you can get legally married twice in the US anyway, so it would be in ceremony and name only.

[faye_girl]

You're poly?

[razelove]

Yes, though unfortunately the most serious one has gotten to the point where one girlfriend was getting ready to move in with us. Then she got cold feet and broke up. Even with the feels most people view poly as something for fun more so than anything serious.

Reality is something we all have to live with, but having a LTR that's poly is still a goal I think is worth pursuing. I just don't put as much effort into it as I did when I was younger lol

[faye_girl]

Oh interesting 🤔 thank you for sharing! 🥰

[razelove]

No problem, is that an issue you're struggling with right now? You want to wait, but find guys won't and are thinking of compromise?

[faye_girl]

A lot of guys who... aren't my age are willing to wait!!! 😆
But a lot of guys immediate reaction is "well there's other things we can do to get off" and... im never a fan of that answer hahahaha

[Anonymous]

Yeah Mt wife wanted to wait for marriage until we started doing it. It was a long 18 months waiting for her to turn 16 for her to be finally be the legal age for marriage but traditional courting gave us the chance to get to know each other. I swear on our wedding night when we tried consummate it I was so horny I prematurely ejaculated all over her bridal lingerie just kissing her before I could even take her panties of and go to town on her wet pussy. Been a great 3 years though, she's expecting our first child.

[faye_girl]

Awww congratulations 🤱❤

[TheUniqueOne96]

As a virgin, I don't mind waiting for sex, because it's not exactly crazy high on the priority list, although I do think it would happen if you're living with a partner long enough.

That being said, I'm not religious, so I don't want to marry, as I don't think it's necessary for commitment, but for a long term relationship, I think I'd be willing to wait.

[Leavesbound]

If marriage is a likely outcome I'd wait though I might attempt to talk her into sexual activities not involving intercourse that might result in an orgasm (mostly hers as I adore seeing someone I love have orgasms).

[slatyb]

Why do they want to wait? That made sense when women married in their teens. It doesn't make any sense for people planning to marry at 25. If a woman was willing to wait ten years for sex, I would assume she doesn't have much desire.

[Kaneki05]

Yes but depends on reasoning. If for religious reasons, no thanks and considering that's what most people reason for it is when doing this, it's highly likley it will be a no most of the time.

[TommyMountainFigure]

No chance. I have a high sex drive and I also believe dating is a way of making sure you find the right sexual partner so that when you get married you are compatible.

[btbc92]

That's not how that works. You people have been sold a lie about sex so that way when you thinking you're going to get married that's how divorce happens. The moment you have sex with different people you can't uphold a marriage. Because the moment you have sex you already created a marriage in God's eyes. Sex is a marriage and marriage is about having sex. If you have a high sex drive then you find a wife and you stay with that one person. You don't go around helping from partner to partner and then you want to know why you can't keep not one person. That's what you call whoredoms and adultery. If you want to be a captain over then you stay single. Do not screw up somebody else's chance at happiness because you want to screw yourself up dating is not about that. Dating is about ensuring whether or not if you are romantically compatible as a couple. If you cannot wait for marriage to have sex and you are not compatible. Find somebody who wants to sleep with you without commitment.

[TommyMountainFigure]

@btbc92 "You people?" I take it by 'you people' you mean people from the West? Here is what I read only yesterday about a couple who was due to get married in India. The bride literality died during the ceremony and you know what? instead of the family being so distraught at the lose of their daughter any normal race of people would put the wedding off. but no, they put one of the sisters forward to get married instead so there was a ceremony.
How bleedin' SICK can you get?

[btbc92]

I don't care if you're from Asia, I don't care if you're from Australia, I don't care if you're from Iceland, I don't care if you're from India. You do not understand the importance of sex. You do not understand the importance of your body. You people refers to anybody who choose to do anything that goes against God's design for human beings.

I don't know what's going on over there. But a lot of them worship a different God, they worshipped many gods, and then their culture, a lot of them don't care about the welfare of their own people. But at the end of the day God made it very clear, if you have a desire for these things you get married. But you don't just get married to anybody. Is very clear that this young woman died, at the hands of somebody who wanted to take advantage of her used her, and killed her. That's not love. That's not sex, that's not a marriage, that's somebody who committed murder. Before you want to talk about how sick can a person get, you need to look at these people. I'm pretty sure God would never condone something like this. It's all about the intent. And it's very clear the her parents basically sold her off simply just because she's a woman. You're forgetting that women get treated like cattle and have at some point. that is against God's design. He called for us to come together in love. He did not say for us to use and abuse each other.

[TommyMountainFigure]

@btbc92 Where is the proof that god exists?

[btbc92]

You created in His image. Isn't that not proof enough?

What you're saying is no different when you choose to have your penis in the Virgin girl and you caused her to bleed do you not know that you two are committing Murder by doing what you doing whenever you enter into a woman whom you are not legally married to? When she could say that for somebody who can truly be her husband, you murder a person for the sake of your own pleasure. Just because you may not spill physical blood, as this person sadly have done to his bride. That doesn't mean you are shiting blood spiritually. Because guess who has to live with those consequences if that person that you slept with Lily gets mad somebody she does look? What's going to happen when she should be in communion in love with her husband and all she has is you in the back of her mind? Do you not know that that's also could be considered adultery? The workings of your hands and the thoughts of your mind tells a lot about an individual. Why do you think people when they say they don't believe in spiritual things that have near spiritual experiences when they're having sex with people? Dead seeing people that home you had sex with and you're thinking they're cheating on you, and it may not actually be cheating on you physically? You got to think about these things. It is not a joke.

[Laciandmaci]

@btbc92 I agree with you girl! Men are delusional!

[btbc92]

Every inch of your chromosome. Every inch of your DNA. From the soles of your feet to every strand of your hair, to every spectacle of your eye, to the amazing features of your jawline, doesn't matter if it's the both of your chest, it doesn't matter your strong arms, or your strong legs, bed if your teeth is straight or not, you are created in His image. And regardless what any human being want to say about you, he made us amazing because he too, is amazing. do you not love yourself enough to think that you're just as amazing? And handsome, and wonderfully and fearfully made? If only you truly knew that then you would not say the things you say.

[Laciandmaci]

@btbc92 That is true God made us this way!!! I am waiting until marriage for many reasons not just religion alone but that is one of them!!!

[btbc92]

A whole generation, as God has blessed to 12 tribes of Israel can be formed from your loins. Whatever you sperm that you make and you make 3 to 5 billion sperm, and every time you choose to have sex you ejaculate 1-3 million sperm per ejaculation. To conceive a child and both of your image, the image of your forefathers, and image a bit mother of your choosing, and her mother's. To be fruitful and multiply. Not only is it meant to be a wonderful thing, it's meant to be a blessing. The power to be able to create, but through you if you're not careful with your penis, you could also end up destroying somebody as you heard what that person have done to his own Bride on his wedding night. The word of God teaches all of us. You mean to tell me there's no God just by telling me what you just told me? All you did was tell me the story. All I did was explained it to you.

[TommyMountainFigure]

@btbc92 Ok you can carry on arguing with yourself now, or this other one who's just joined in.. You may be a very fast typist, but you have absolutely nothing of importance to say.

[btbc92]

You waiting up because of religion you wait because it is a commandment of God. God did not say go forth and create a religion. He said go forth and preach the gospel. When you choose to wait until marriage and you make a decision to honor God by honoring your body, you're ready doing his will. And it's your job if this is a decision you choose to make, is to have and find a suitable person who's willing to fulfill that Duty with you. Not somebody who's going to hinder and bring you down. Because that kind of person is just going to rob you of your blessing.

[btbc92]

If I have nothing important to say, then where do you have anything important to say? Or are you talking about it's just yourself. All you think about is just yourself. It's your life is your choice. All I'm doing is voice typing I'm not typing fast. But you pretty much telling me and every other woman who you are about yourself. Just let you know one thing as a woman. No woman in her right mind wants to settle for less. But it's up to you to decide if you're going to be low-quality for a man. A low-quality man is only going to attract another low quality woman.

[Joshua0213]

Yeah defintely, if I truly liked her I would wait yes

[faye_girl]

Cute!

[devn9810]

I say no just because I think it is an important part of a healthy relationship and it's good to know how you are together as far as sexual chemistry

[Anonymous]

I mean, I'm still a virgin and don't exactly intend to change that any time soon, so hey we could wait together haha

[faye_girl]

That would be cute!!!

[D_Bone_Steak]

Nope... If the sex life is in question I would never put myself in a situation to loose half my shit just to find out she's a starfish or a once a year chick and only then realize that's why it was so easy for her to wait so long.

[Agape93]

Nope. But long as I get my itch scratched, I have zero issues staying with them.

[exitseven]

I would wait until marriage is she was really serious about it and was still a virgin.

[jasco]

I wouldn't mind waiting, sex isn't nearly as important to me as it was a few years ago. Plus I have better things to do anyway

[Interstate]

Of course in my case, I'm not destined to Marry, and I have a biological daughter that is seven.

[bamesjond0069]

Yes but only if they were a virgin. Otherwise hell no.

[mar_cs38]

No I would really prefer not to wait until marriage. Sex and intimacy is an important part of any relationship, married or not

[JustMe62]

It is an honorable thing to do in the first place, but honoring her wish is important as well.

[TacosRAwesome]

I made that mistake once and thankfully didn't marry the guy.

[Narcotics]

I have a high sex drive and i'm confidently down for that.

[faye_girl]

👏👏👏let's goo

[Narcotics]

But that's just me because i'm a virgin too (by my own choice)

[jahaims]

I'd wait a while but I'm not marrying someone if I don't know if we are sexually compatible