My Girlfriend is making me broke , should I cut my losses?

Question

Ok so I’m not broke myself , I make a good salary without diving into specifics , but my girlfriends demands are out of control. We’ve been dating for 4 months. She says a man takes care of his girl 100%. So she’s wanting gas money if she drives to see me , nail and hair money , car bill money, insurance , and a credit card for misc exp. this on top of of course I pay for nights out and we’ve been on 2 vacations already in 4 months. Another thing , she sometimes cleans homes for $100 a house during the weekend. So if we spend the weekend together she wants the money she would have earned by working that weekend. So $200 cash. Wtf? What u guys think. I like her a lot but I seriously can’t keep this up. I’m putting much less in my retirement accounts and I feel stupid for this.

Answer 1

Outdoorwanderer

Xper 2

Okay first of all..
Dont let her advice on u how a man should behave. She knows nothing about being a man.
Second..
U sound like a nice guy about to get fucked over... i guarantee u will not get any peace of mind dating this girl.
Third...
She is just using u as a sugar daddy.. ur dealing with a girl here not a woman.
Finally...
Break it off... the gud news for u is there are plenty of other women on the planet who r sane and level headed.

Asker

+1 y
Right on the peace of mind. It’s like a constant pressure and undercurrent threat in a way. Like if I don’t come through she’s gonna leave.
Outdoorwanderer

+1 y
she's gonna find some reason to break up with u anyways... u dump her.. at least it may get u some gratification.
I swear to u... this girl is not gonna find someone better than u so u dont even have to worry about shit like jealousy... etc.

Answer 2

Asker

Right on the peace of mind. It’s like a constant pressure and undercurrent threat in a way. Like if I don’t come through she’s gonna leave.

Answer 3

Outdoorwanderer

she's gonna find some reason to break up with u anyways... u dump her.. at least it may get u some gratification.
I swear to u... this girl is not gonna find someone better than u so u dont even have to worry about shit like jealousy... etc.

Answer 4

Anonymous

She sounds like an entitled bitch, who's just using you for your money.

I'd drop her ass faster than a live grenade. Nobody is worth that.

Asker

+1 y
What if she’s a 9/10 tho?
Opinion Owner

+1 y
No offense, but if you stay with that kind if crao, just because of her looks; then you kind of deserve it.

She's using you. It doesn't matter how hot she is. Run.
Exterminatore

+1 y
Who gives a fuck if she’s a 9/10? All that means is you’re being exploited by a good looking manipulative gold digging con artist instead of an ugly one.
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devilman666

+1 y
Bitch could be 11/10 but she pull shit like that and you're supposed to drop her. Unless you want to be manipulated and used by a woman who only stays for your money. Some guys like that, it's called a trophy wife, you essentially pay her to have the luxury of showing off how sexy she is.

Answer 5

Asker

What if she’s a 9/10 tho?

Answer 6

Opinion Owner

No offense, but if you stay with that kind if crao, just because of her looks; then you kind of deserve it.

She's using you. It doesn't matter how hot she is. Run.

Answer 7

Exterminatore

Who gives a fuck if she’s a 9/10? All that means is you’re being exploited by a good looking manipulative gold digging con artist instead of an ugly one.

Answer 8

devilman666

Bitch could be 11/10 but she pull shit like that and you're supposed to drop her. Unless you want to be manipulated and used by a woman who only stays for your money. Some guys like that, it's called a trophy wife, you essentially pay her to have the luxury of showing off how sexy she is.

Answer 9

Anonymous

That’s insane. You’re not an atm. I get the whole tradition man and wife role, but you’re not married to her. Paying for dinner or a drink once in a while is nice and appreciated, but all that sounds like she’s using you.

Answer 10

Dog19

Yoda

Wow, I never had a guy give me money before but my dad

Answer 11

devilman666 | 323 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Uhm... YEAH! Jesus dude. Woman is milking your wallet after 4 monthes? Get a grip of your life! Dump this woman immediately. If she wants you to take care of her then she better move in with you, clean your house, cook your food, and give you sex basically whenever you want. If she isn't fulfilling her role as a woman and is expecting such ridiculous things as you taking care of all her expenses then dump the hypocritical, likely narcissistic, manipulative bitch. This behaviour will only get worse. When she knows what you make she will spend every penny on herself "because it's a man's job to treat his girl".

DON'T BUY THIS BULLSHIT! Feminism has brought equality, dont bow to women and give them everything they want, we can have just as much expectation as they can, because equality. If they claim to be traditional then they better be traditional on their side too. None of this "I do my own thing but you are my sugar daddy" hypocritical bullshit. Chivalry and traditionalism are mostly dead, if you want that in a partner then you better be traditional as well and be a good housewife. Keep in mind traditionalism is still alive, it's just getting more rare.

Answer 12

AynonOMouse

Master

Dude, just leave her. She's treating you like an ATM. She is only interested in the money. As soon as you don't have money she is gone. Just watch, tell her you want things to be fair so she has to pay as much as you all the time. I bet she leaves if she can't use you for money.

Answer 13

englisc

Guru

Your girlfriend isn't making you broke, you are for giving in to her demands for a bit of pussy. Where's your backbone?

Answer 14

Lance1965 | 3.7K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

Sounds pretty typical for a lot of women. You are being used.

Answer 15

Exterminatore | 611 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

I think, why are you letting yourself be exploited by this bitch. Fire her RIGHT NOW, and never speak to her again.

God_of_Thunder

+1 y
"Fire her"

Fucking perfect!
Exterminatore

+1 y
That’s my catch phrase for dump her lol. Glad you liked it. Lol.
God_of_Thunder

+1 y
He'd also be taking her off the payroll, as it were, so it's fitting. She wouldn't be getting paid, anymore, lol.
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Exterminatore

+1 y
Exactly. Cause she’s a prostitute, out for getting money by plying her trade, so “fire her” is a double entandre.

Answer 16

God_of_Thunder

"Fire her"

Fucking perfect!

Answer 17

Exterminatore

That’s my catch phrase for dump her lol. Glad you liked it. Lol.

Answer 18

God_of_Thunder

He'd also be taking her off the payroll, as it were, so it's fitting. She wouldn't be getting paid, anymore, lol.

Answer 19

Exterminatore

Exactly. Cause she’s a prostitute, out for getting money by plying her trade, so “fire her” is a double entandre.

Answer 20

lillizzie | 55 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 6

OMG I can't believe this. Dump her ASAP, no girl should expect this

Answer 21

Browneye57 | 5.4K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

Ya gotta be joking. A prostitute would be a better deal. Just sayin'.

Asker

+1 y
Lol. I was thinking that. And I’d get a variety
Browneye57

+1 y
And they leave after sex instead of hanging around bugging the crap out of you. LOL

Answer 22

Asker

Lol. I was thinking that. And I’d get a variety

Answer 23

Browneye57

And they leave after sex instead of hanging around bugging the crap out of you. LOL

Answer 24

markscott | 2.7K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

It's ridiculous. Cut your losses.

Answer 25

Marinepilot | 1.7K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

Dump that golddigger !

Answer 26

MlleCake | 2.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

This is ridiculous.

Answer 27

sarahhcmarie | 433 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

break up with her.
she's clearly a gold digger

Answer 28

Danielleo | 421 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Explorer

hard to say. maybe talk to her a bout it in person

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