When guys get serious with a girl, and especially handsome guys, who have, with no doubt, higher testosterone levels (unless you fall for 'pretty' boys), they subconsciously look for a girl who could be a good 'wife' and a good 'mother'. They look for feminine traits (appearance, behaviour and personality) and they're attracted to femininity.
The 'hot' girls who are portrayed by the media, aren't attractive by the vast majority of men. They look vulgar, sexualized and even kinda masculine. It's the type they could play with but never really consider marriage with. Men, and especially the handsome ones, fall for innocence and femininity. It's deeply rooted in their biology.
Perhaps he found that in you and that's what has drawn him to you. Feminine girls aren't that common. You may think you're average but your pheromones don't lie. Average T pretty boys may not look twice at you but you may drive a handsome guy subconsciously crazy because of your femininity.
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Well, you know what they say "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder". So, even if you think you are an average-looking girl, he may think you look gorgeous.
But even if that's not the case, it's high likely that he likes you for you and your personality. He probably likes having you around and has developed a crush on you because of that and many other reasons. Looks aren't everything and he seems to know that.
Don't overthink it and if you like him back, go out with him and see if works out. <3
While it is true that looks play great parts in who we instinctively like and associate with, people are also people. We have personalities, preferences and desires, and there's no question this guy finds you beautiful and likes you for you, savor it. I once dated an insecure girl in High School who would often ask such questions as, "why did you choose me" or try to match me with other, "prettier" girls we knew also liked me. She ended up breaking our relationship because of it, not a pleasant feeling let me tell you.
Spare this man that kind of pain and be confident that he really likes you. Looks are something, but not, as some say, everything!
It's possible yes. Looks are not everything (or even one of the most important things in a relationship) and when a guy has an emotional connection with you, you look more attractive to him anyway.
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Yeah if all the hot girls are the same or turn out to be bad on the inside, hot guys will probably go for something slightly different. I've seen it happen a few times
Guys... despite what the media portrays... generally really want a girl who gets them and makes them want to be their best self... looks are actually not that important when they are serious (and then they idealize you and make you hotter in their heads than you may actually ve). Also... if he's that hot.. he's probably dated shallow "babes"/models and gotten put off going after girls for just looks... so I'd say yeah... definitely! I'm in a similar situation dating a celebrity who used to date models.. I'm attractive enough I suppose.. but no super model... it really doesn't matter to him...😊
Yeah he probably can. It would be much easier to understand the looks contrast you're talking about by seeing you two. I'll say that I have features I'm attracted to that aren't necessarily the most common traits of beauty. And there are a huge percentage of supposedly attractive girls that I don't see why guys like them. You have to weight risk of loss with pleasure from seeing him. Any guy can leave you though.
I had a huge crush on someone that wasn’t all that good looking you know? I got over her though, she was a bxtch lol...
Plus she was so picky only went for the good looking guys like me, her current boyfriend is good looking but not as handsome as me. My point is it really doesn’t matter. If a guy form a connection with a girl they will fall for that girl. That’s how she got me because I was interested in another girl when that girl fell for me, but took advantage when k fell for herIf you love someone, it's not just for the looks.. right? You like someone for their looks maybe. But love bc of personality. Everything is possible, a white and black person, fat and skinny, smart and less smart. Everything can happen if you work for it. And opposites attract each other and grow strong
Girls act with sexual supremacy. They act like they are too good. Guys get indignant with revenge. Doesn't matter if a girls hot or not, if a guy hates women he hates women. So unless this guys been hurt pretty bad before, he won't give a shit what you look like. Just so long as your not growing an arm out of your cheek
Yes definitely. He probably finds it really difficult to find a girl who doesn't just want him for his looks and most girls probably think the same as you and don't even bother meaning your probably just your natural self around him and not putting on a act to attract him like some other girls probably do. I know plenty of good looking guys who can't get girlfriends. It's a lot more easier for average looking people to find love.
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He told you he loved you and he barely knows you, that is some creepy behavior. I'm sure you didn't think so, being so smitten by his looks.
Stop doing that! Just stop goddamn it...
The fact that he's attractive doesn't mean you don't have a chance with him, and if he chose to choose you stop fucking thinking about why...
Just go with it...
And nobody really knows wether they're above average or not so stop underestimating yourself...Maybe not truly love but most guys will settle for less cause putting in all the effort to attract girls all the time is mentally draining. If an average girl does the work in going for him, he's much less likely to turn down her advances.
I don't think you should sabotage yourself here. Besides, women are notoriously badnat judging how attractive they are.
The whole situation seems fishy to me, but he can be your soulmate as well. I mean, you never know. Plus, souls are attracted to souls, not just faces and sexy bodies.
Others have already said so I'll skip the bulk of the message. Take a risk. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
Sure. A hot guys ability to attract hot women is all about attitude and charisma. A hot guy may not have the right alpha attitude or possess no charisma. In that case the best he can get is an average girl and there he'll love her deeply.
Umm... hmm. Odd. I mean, yeah it's possible, but not likely. He definitely likes you, yes, but when you say "truly love," I mean what are we talking about here-- that you want him to marry you someday or something?
I dont mind girls that aren't super hot. If a girl is short and thin and has long hair im all about it even if she's just average looking. Most girls I've dated were super hot but not all and tbh it doesn't really matter to me.
Ya, guys just like girls who look like young versions of their mom so of course it's possible
you girls focus more on looks than guys.
this is why i avoid dating. looks to me mean nothing and it seems to be so important...Give it a go. Why not? Better to regret what you have done rather then what you didn't do
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