The real question to ask is why would we put up with it? Men don't want a bad deal, its the reason items for women are more expensive. If there is a girl that requires a ton of maintenance and we constantly have to "maintain" then what does she have to offer for a more down to earth girl we can just have a good time with?
Perhaps its just because they aren't my type but i much prefer that cute natural girl that enjoys spending time with me on things we both enjoy then the girl constantly busy with herself and expecting me to contribute to her rather then us.
High maintenance means I need to kiss her snobby ass, and I'm not going to. It also means that she's an entirely different kind of person than me, and I don't want any part of her. I don't want any part of her even if she's a complete stranger walking down the street.
0
0 Reply
Anonymous
(36-45)
+1 y
Men are full of it, they always end up with a high maintenance woman who isn't even worth it. They are afraid of women who know their worth because it makes them question their role and importance in her life. The most homely women always end up being more demanding because they are most insecure, they want to compete and also pressure the man to prove he thinks she is prettier than someone obviously prettier than her.
Because guys usually aren't high maintenance themselves and prefer a chill life to have with a chill partner. That doesn't mean they want the woman to look like a hobo, but there defintiely is a line where "taking care of yourself" becomes superficial and self-absorbed. That line usually is crossed on most high-maintenance women.
I have no problem dating / marrying a high maintenance woman but the thing is i can't afford to buy her the things she needs yes i can afford to do my part as far as paying so much but she got to consider that I'm middle class income and i only get so much a month.
Because anything you need to invest lists of time, money or effort into is a giant pain in the ass, and women are complicated enough without being high maintenance.
A successful relationship is one where both partners are willing to give to the other one. High maintenance women don't give to men.
2
0 Reply
Anonymous
(45 Plus)
+1 y
I wouldn't say it's the high maintenance they like i'd say it's the illusion they chase. Lets be honest men are not very smart when it comes to women. We're like a mouse in maze
because in the vast majority of the cases, the value they actually bring to the table, can't legitimate the investments they ask for (time, money, what have you).
Another reason is you are never sure when someone else will come along and they will leave you for him. There is this sense of insecurity and mistrust all the time.
Very true so I wouldn't know so my answer is just based off of girls I've seen other people date they aren't really bad people but some tend to really think they are how should I say better than not everyone else but better than a lot of people it's weird to explain
Most Helpful Opinions