Girls, How to get hot guy in class to like me?

[Anonymous]

I met this really sweet and hot guy in my self defense class. We ended up getting partnered together and during one of the drills I gave him a playful little tap. I thought he was wearing a cup but he wasn't and i get I tapped his balls a little too hard and he dropped to the ground.

I really didn't think I tapped him that hard which is why im really surprised he dropped to the ground

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He 6'1

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We had our rematch, I took him out again!

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men can be such babies!

[Cynicaldreamer]

Ouch! Yeah probably not the best first impression to leave on a guy you like- kicking him in the balls, LOL

Okay so accident aside, if you're interested in trying to make things work with him, next time you see him? Apologize, and offer to take him out- say for dinner, or smoothie, ice cream after class to make it up to him, or make him dinner if you can cook and would be comfortable having him come to your place. See if he takes the bait.

However, if he's seeing someone, or that "tap" left him wary of you, he might not be interested. But it's worth a shot- worse he will say is no thanks or he's not interested.

[Asker]

Thanks! Luckily I didn't actually kick him. We were practicing how to get out of a front bear hug and he had his hands wrapped around me so my hands were right at his crotch level, I joking said here is a easy way to get u to let go and tapped his balls

[Cynicaldreamer]

Ooh, sounds like fun- not going to lie, I would have done the same thing, LOL

But no, try the dinner/apology idea- seriously, most guys won't turn down food unless he's taken or just flat out not into you.
That or tackle him to the floor and refuse to get up until he goes out with you, LOL

[Asker]

LOL! Thanks!! Do you think a little tap really hurts that much? He was wearing those really thin shorts... I could totally feel his balls

[Asker]

Have you ever done that to a guy before?

[SarahsSummer]

How to get the hot guy in class to like you? Don’t kick him in the balls would privbably be a goid start. But since you did, begging forgiveness would’ve been good and offering to take him out for a drink after class.

[Asker]

Thanks! Luckily I didn't actually kick him. We were practicing how to get out of a front bear hug and he had his hands wrapped around me so my hands were right at his crotch level, I joking said here is a easy way to get u to let go and tapped his balls. That's why I was so surprised he dropped, I only lightly tapped his balls

[SarahsSummer]

Yeah guys balls are sensitive little things lol.

[Asker]

He was wearing these really thin shorts... lets just say... i could feel everything... and his balls were pretty big!

[TacocaT6969]

Be yourself.

If he doesn’t like you exactly the way you are then he’s a waste of your time.

[Asker]

Thanks! I guess I was most surprised that he dropped by just a little tap with my hand.

[TacocaT6969]

Balls are REALLY sensitive.

Must have big ones.

[Asker]

He was wearing those really thin shorts... I could totally feel his balls

[TacocaT6969]

Hopefully you didn’t murder any of his future children. Lol

[Asker]

I really didn't think i tapped him that hard, plus he was like twice my size and had a lot of muscles

[TacocaT6969]

A flick to the nuts can drop even the strongest man.

They’re an external internal organ.

[Asker]

like a finger flick? i can't image that could drop a strong guy, this guy looked like he worked out a lot

[TacocaT6969]

There are no muscles protecting the testicles.

Nothing but skin and organs down there.

[Asker]

Yeah I know but I can't imagine just a little flick can take down a big guy. like u can barely feel a flick

[TacocaT6969]

Imagine what a flick would feel like to one of your ovaries.

Organs are sensitive.

[Asker]

have u seen a guy take a flick?

[TacocaT6969]

I have flicked a guy in the nuts.

He yelped like a puppy and curled up into a ball.

He was a tough guy too.

[Asker]

like through pants? im really surprised a flick can get through pants

[TacocaT6969]

That wasn’t through pants. Lol

[Asker]

lol he was naked? were u fighting or something? whyd u hit him?

[TacocaT6969]

He was trying to be kinky and wanted to see if being hit in the nuts would turn him on.

Lucky for him I only went with a flick. Lol

[Asker]

omg lol my guy didn't seem to like it either.. althought i wish i got to practice with him naked! you mustve flicked him super hard

[TacocaT6969]

Not at all. I flicked him about as hard as I’d flick away an ant.

[Asker]

he sounds like a wimp lol. im pretty sure my guy played football or something, he was buff

[TacocaT6969]

This guy was buff too. No matter how tough and strong a man is, testicles are wimps. Lol

[Asker]

what would u done if u were in a class like that had the hot guy had u in a bear hug? my hands were right at his crotch already lol

[TacocaT6969]

I would’ve grabbed the backs of his knees and dropped him on his ass. Lol

[Asker]

you wouldn't want to go for his balls? they were pretty big

[TacocaT6969]

Nah, if he wants me to touch his balls he has to work for it. :P

[Asker]

LOL! they did teach us the grab and squeeze move... i wonder how he will react if i try that one on him

[TacocaT6969]

Only one way to find out. Lol

[Asker]

i did feel like a badass dropping the jock so easily. would u ever try that move?

[TacocaT6969]

Nut shots are cheap.

I prefer going with moves that scare the tough guys like flipping them over, picking them up or pinning them down.

I’m kind of strong for a girl I guess.

[Asker]

but wouldn't it be pretty badass to have a buff guy by his balls and get him to tap out

[TacocaT6969]

Nope. Like I said, going for the balls is cheap. It’s just too easy.

[Asker]

but if the guy has a size and strength advantage, i need to use it. I wonder what he would do if i just grab and hold and make him say "i give"

[TacocaT6969]

Watch out, he might like that if you don’t squeeze. Lol

[Asker]

you dont think he would try to tap out?

[TacocaT6969]

He might. I mean, you’ve hit him in the nuts once already so he knows you’re serious. XD

[Asker]

if he gets hardon.. im sure one squeeze will take care of that

[TacocaT6969]

Oh I bet. Lol

[Asker]

i feel like he kinda deserves a squeeze if he gets a boner right?

[TacocaT6969]

All depends. A boner would mean that he finds you attractive though.

[Asker]

yeah true i bet its huge. would a squeeze still work?

[TacocaT6969]

Probably.

[Asker]

it just might hard to get a hold of him if he's got a boner

[TacocaT6969]

Could be. Just gotta aim low.

[Asker]

why low

[TacocaT6969]

Because the balls are low.

[Asker]

yeah true but i want to get the dick too!

[TacocaT6969]

Hehe go for it.

[Asker]

have u gone for the squeeze?

[TacocaT6969]

Only with boyfriends.

[Asker]

you're pretty rough with ur boyfriends balls!

[TacocaT6969]

I would never with my current boyfriend.

[Asker]

why whats diff about him?

[TacocaT6969]

He doesn’t piss me off and is very cuddly.

[Asker]

oh so u squeezed cause they pissed you off

[TacocaT6969]

Yeah. I wouldn’t cause someone pain unless they were doing something to deserve it.

[Asker]

I was just showing this guy i could defend myself even though he was bigger

[TacocaT6969]

Nut shot is still cheap.

That’s like flipping the board to win at chess. Lol

[Asker]

but why do u think its so cheap? he has a size advantage

[TacocaT6969]

Size advantage or not, nuts are nuts.

Nut shots don’t impress anybody, they’re so easy that they even happen by accident a lot.

[Asker]

i dont think they are that easy, dont u think its easier to hit someone in the face or stomach?

[TacocaT6969]

Might be easier to aim for, but a hit to the face or stomach will just hurt.

Even a light hit to the nuts will drop them to their knees.

[Asker]

but I've watched a ton of sports and u rarely ever see a guy go down from a hit there

[TacocaT6969]

Because in spirts they wear cups that protect their nuts from impact.

[TacocaT6969]

Sports*

[Asker]

the guys in my class seem to think that girls are more vulnerable than guys

[TacocaT6969]

Because girls tend to be weaker and less experienced in physical confrontation than guys.

That’s why beating them with anything other than a nut shot would impress and intimidate them.

[Asker]

but because im smaller and weaker, dont u think taking him down in general was impressive?

[TacocaT6969]

Not really.

A kitten could take down a weight lifter if it jumped up and got him in the nuts.

[Asker]

so if you were watching a martial arts/self defense class and saw a built guy get taken down by a little tap u wouddn't think less of him?

[TacocaT6969]

Nope.

[Asker]

I guess since guys usually give off the impression that they are big and tough, its kinda funny when something so gentle takes them down

[TacocaT6969]

It’s definitely funny when they’re being cocky.

[Asker]

like he made it sound like he had me in such a good hold that i couldnt get out

[TacocaT6969]

I guess it was justified then. Have you seen him since then?

[Asker]

No, but I'll see him against Friday. Any advice?

[TacocaT6969]

Try not to nut tap him again. Lol

[Asker]

you gotta admit its a little funny to watch a muscular guy get taken down by a little tap

[TacocaT6969]

I don’t find it funny.

[Asker]

Not even the cocky ones? a lot of the guys in class think they are so much stronger and tougher than the girls

[TacocaT6969]

Having to resort to a nut tap proves them right.

[Asker]

how does that prove then right? I dropped him to his knees with a little tap, I probably use the force that you'd barely feel anywhere else

[TacocaT6969]

An infant could take the strongest man on earth down with a nut tap.

Needing to use a nut tap to take a man down is a sign of weakness.

It proves to them that you’re too weak to actually defend yourself against them.

God forbid they wear a cup or tuck their nuts, you’d be defenseless.

The only way to prove then wrong is to take them down fair and square.

[TacocaT6969]

That class should be teaching you about the center of balance and how to use yours to throw them off of theirs.

I’ve taken down men twice my size without touching their nuts, you can too.

[Asker]

What do you mean tuck their nuts?

I'm not saying its the only way to do it, but its a pretty simple and effective self defense technique

[TacocaT6969]

Huh... it hadn’t occurred to me that not all girls grew up hanging out with guys...

Basically they tuck their nuts back as far as they can so it would take a hit to the bottom of their butt to hit their nuts.

In a real life self defense scenario, go for the nuts whenever possible. But you need to learn real self defense because a nut shot isn’t always going to be an option.

As far as that guy you like and the other guys in your class go, nut shots aren’t going to impress them. Dropping them on their ass will.

https://youtu.be/JcJ6TBHSUiU

[Asker]

his balls were hanging kinda low but were more in the middle not really to the front or back, not sure how a guy would get them to stay in one location, his were bouncing all over the place

[TacocaT6969]

Guys only tuck their nuts if they decide to... it’s not an automatic thing and it doesn’t last long. Lol

Watch the video I sent, use that instead.

[Asker]

that is exactly how our move starts but one of the options is the groin slap from we move our bodies

[Asker]

i can see why guys think a nut tap is a cheap shot, but i dont see why girls would, guys use their size as an advantage over us

[TacocaT6969]

A nit shot is a cheap move in friendly combat, I’ll put it that way.

[TacocaT6969]

Nut*

[Asker]

I agree with that, but in these drills were trying to get away/get the other person to let go, thats why the balls seem to work best

[Asker]

He got a huge hardon with a lightly grabbed!

[TacocaT6969]

Lol in other words you groped him. Of corse he liked that.😛

[Asker]

hahah well he had be in a bear hug from behind, and just reached back and grabbed a firm grip of his goods, and just held lol

[TacocaT6969]

Glad it worked out. Lol

So, are you going to try to date him or?

[Asker]

Yes, exchanged numbers. He still thinks he is stronger than me LOL.

Not gonna lie, I felt so powerful when I had his balls in my grip and him getting hard

[TacocaT6969]

Awesome. 😎

[Asker]

Would u have gotten a grip on the hot guy if u were in my position? his balls were dangling low it made it so easy

[TacocaT6969]

Nah, I’d drop him on his back like in that video or lift him up like giving him a piggy back ride.

Men are so cute when they’re scared. Lol

[Asker]

lol u dont think he would be scared if u had him by the bALLS? those moves are cool but i wanted to touch his junk lol

[TacocaT6969]

I mean he’d be scared, but not the kind of scared I’d want him to be. Lol

[Asker]

What scared would u want him to be? what do u think he was thinking when i grabbed him? im like half his size

[TacocaT6969]

I’d want him to be scared that I’d beat the crap out of him.

The balls is a cheap move that even a kid could do. Painful but not very scary.

[Asker]

But I didn’t hurt him at all, just got a good grip on his balls and let him tap out lol.

I like him I don’t want to Damage his goods.

[TacocaT6969]

Good. Lol

[Asker]

I wasn’t expecting the hardon though, it happened right away too, and his shorts didn’t hide it at all.. it look a while for it to go down

[TacocaT6969]

He definitely likes you.

[Asker]

You think that because he got a hard on? I made super I was super gentle, I had a hard time fitting both balls in my hand lol

[TacocaT6969]

Guys don’t get hard when girls they don’t like touch them.

[Asker]

Do you think he know how easily I could take him down in that position? In that scenario he was the aggressor with me in a tight bear hug

[TacocaT6969]

I’m sure every guy knows how easy it is for them to get taken down by a nut shot. Lol

[Asker]

But I didn’t give him a nut shot! I just grabbed his balls! Plus he still had him me in a tight bear hug

[TacocaT6969]

Having your hand on his balls means that at any second you could squeeze or smack them. Lol

[Asker]

Yeah but put yourself in his shoes, you’re still bigger and stronger and you have me in a tight bear hug, you still have some control of the situation

[TacocaT6969]

Not if you have me by the nuts. Lol

[Asker]

But you still have me in the bear hug from behind, and he didn’t have a pretty tight grip, I could only reach him w one hand

[TacocaT6969]

Having his balls in your hand gives you the upper hand. That bear hug would end in a heartbeat if you were to squeeze hard.

[Asker]

Think he would automatically let go? OR would he try to squeeze harder to get me to let go?

[TacocaT6969]

Pain in the nuts would force him to let go and try to protect his nuts.

[Asker]

I knew guys were sensitive there but it seems like the smallest thing just ends everything for them lol it’s kinda sad actually

[TacocaT6969]

Yeah, they have an internal organ outside of them. Pretty unlucky. Lol

[Asker]

I don’t get why he acts so cocky likes he’s that much bigger and stronger if he thinks that a little squeeze will drop him

[TacocaT6969]

All guys know that a hit to the nuts will drop them. But in any situation where you can’t hit their nuts they’ll win.

Like if he bear hugged you and grabbed your wrists.

[Asker]

Do u think he felt intimidated when I had a grip on his balls? He tapped out pretty quick after the boner

[TacocaT6969]

I don’t know.

[Asker]

I want to text him but not sure what to say w out scaring him

[TacocaT6969]

Just act natural. Keep things calm and casual for now.

[Asker]

We texted a bunch, he said he has never been taking down so many times by a girl lol he also said he's thinkng about buying a cup to which i asked if he's afraid of girls now

[TacocaT6969]

Haha awesome.

[Asker]

i dont know why, but there's something funny to me about how the big muscular guy can be taken down by a little tap, he said he plays baseball in college

[TacocaT6969]

It is kind of funny.

They wear cups during sports though.

[Asker]

yeah but he's a pretty built guy, and i swear im barely tapping, dont baseball players get hit by 90 mph fastballs?

[TacocaT6969]

The odds of it hitting them in the nuts are slim, but the cup prevents anything from hitting their nuts.

Imagine if your ovaries were on the outside of your body. Even a gentle flick would drop you to your knees.

Testicles are basically that. ^

[Asker]

yeah but aren't balls pretty well protected between the legs and behind their dick

[TacocaT6969]

Nope. They’re between the legs dangling freely and the dick is nothing but a floppy tube of flesh. No protection.

[Asker]

i didn't mean from hard hits, i know that will suck, but just from the little taps, like that youd barely feel anywhere else

[TacocaT6969]

The balls are REALLY sensitive.

[Asker]

i know but i kinda like that i can take him down so easily, plus he looks pretty cute cupping himself in pain

[TacocaT6969]

Sounds like someone is a dom. Lol

[Asker]

i like that he's strong but i feel like such a badass that he has to tap out to me, like he had me in a really tight bear hug that i could barely move out of but I still made him tap out

[Asker]

is that weird i felt super powerful?

[4465loveyou5577]

I think this would be a better question for guys lol.

[Asker]

Thanks! Luckily I didn't actually kick him. We were practicing how to get out of a front bear hug and he had his hands wrapped around me so my hands were right at his crotch level, I joking said here is a easy way to get u to let go and tapped his balls. That's why I was so surprised he dropped, I only lightly tapped his balls

[Anonymous]

You’re done for. Give up now. Come on you kicked him in the balls what do you want us to say

[Asker]

it was only a little tap! the guy is like double my size, i couldnt believe a tap would hurt that much

[Opinion Owner]

You’re not supposed to kick in the groin. Don’t assume he’s wearing a cup. I do self defense too

[Opinion Owner]

I’m pretty sure no matter how big the guy is his balls are still sensitve

[Asker]

I know but I didn't kick him, just gave him a playful tap with my hand. Do they guys not wear cups in ur class?

[Opinion Owner]

No they don’t. You used your hand? Oh. Lol. I wouldn’t be so bold

[Asker]

We were practicing how to get out of a front bear hug and he had his hands wrapped around me so my hands were right at his crotch level, I joking said here is a easy way to get u to let go and tapped his balls

[Opinion Owner]

Oh haha. Good luck with getting him to like you lol

[Asker]

do u think the tap hurt him that bad? I thought he was exagerating

[Opinion Owner]

I don’t know. Did he look in pain? I doubt he dropped to his knees as a joke

[Asker]

yeah he did, but I only tapped his balls like i would be giving someone a high 5, so not very hard

[Opinion Owner]

You should be more gentle. Are you unaware of how sensitve their junk is lol

[Asker]

I know its sensitive thats why i wasn't tapping it hard, just a playful tap. plus i tapped him from underneath so i didn't even feel his dick, just the balls

[Asker]

We had our rematch, I tapped even lighter and he still went down!

[candycanehearts]

Omg lollll thats so awkward, u should like get him something or like a sorry card and then maybe hell keep it and hell show ur grandkids and its be superrrr cute

[Anonymous]

From my experience with guys, your probably taking it worse than he is. I mean, at the moment he probably took it harder, but now he sees it as a funny story.
Just make sure you're careful with his testicles in the future!

[Asker]

Thanks! Luckily I didn't actually kick him. We were practicing how to get out of a front bear hug and he had his hands wrapped around me so my hands were right at his crotch level, I joking said here is a easy way to get u to let go and tapped his balls. That's why I was so surprised he dropped, I only lightly tapped his balls

[Opinion Owner]

Oh
Yeah, testicles are quite sensitive... He should have worn a cup.
Never mind. A tap is nothing. I'm sure he sees it as a funny experience now

[Asker]

thats why i was so suprised that he dropped from a litttle tap

[Asker]

We had our rematch, I tapped even lighter and he still went down!

[Opinion Owner]

lol
Leave the poor man's nuts alone!

[Asker]

lol its just kinda funny since he is twice my size but a little tap to the balls takes him down

[Anonymous]

I got lightly vag tapped by a 4’10 girl and dropped to the ground instantly yesterday. Groin hits are no joke, you shouldn’t be so careless.

[Asker]

I wasn't trying to hurt him. We were practicing how to get out of a front bear hug and he had his hands wrapped around me so my hands were right at his crotch level, I joking said here is a easy way to get u to let go and tapped his balls

[JessieMartins]

Damn how'd he react to that, he mad at you or ask y you do that?

[Secret6620]

Umm... Lemme say breaking his balls is not it🤣😂

[Asker]

I wasn't trying to hurt him. We were practicing how to get out of a front bear hug and he had his hands wrapped around me so my hands were right at his crotch level, I joking said here is a easy way to get u to let go and tapped his balls

[Secret6620]

Girl I know I'm just teasing 😘

[Asker]

Do you think guys overreacted with little taps in the balls?

[Secret6620]

Nope it's a seriously sensitive spot. Do your breasts get sore during your period? If so just imagine someone tapped a little too hard on them... That's enough for me to take a knee. No more pretend dick hitting just be normal and keep your limbs to yourself. 😘

[Asker]

I wasn't trying to hurt him just let him know how easily i could get out of his bear hug, right before I tapped him, he made a joke that im totally trapped now

[Asker]

We had our rematch, I tapped even lighter and he still went down!

[TacosRAwesome]

Take him for pizza as an apology.

[Asker]

I wasn't trying to hurt him. We were practicing how to get out of a front bear hug and he had his hands wrapped around me so my hands were right at his crotch level, I joking said here is a easy way to get u to let go and tapped his balls

[TacosRAwesome]

Do you want him to like you or not?

[Asker]

Yeah I thought i was flirting by lightly tapping his balls