What does sex feel like?

[Sweetascandy1990]

I'm a Christian girl and I'm saving myself until marriage... still a virgin. I almost had sex with an ex boyfriend, but I'm glad I didn't. It has prevented me from getting even more deeply hurt with the horrible men that I've met... still healing from past trauma.

I get curious tho as a human being... What does sex feel like? Does it feel good? I hear it hurts the first time you have sex... does it get better?

Thank you :-)

[lightbulb27]

sorry you are getting hurt, but I understand... happens both sides.
It's not just the sex, but the closeness. can't get much closer than that... we were designed for each other as you know... I'm writing a mytake on that soon.. and just posted one on emotions.
It feels amazing when done right. I also question if the first one should hurt so much if he is considerate of you. Honestly, the feeling and sensation after, which is Oxytocin release (see my writeup on tat sillyness), is even better at times. fro now, just get and give hugs from people... you can still get a shot of Oxytocin from that.

I applaud your decision and always do what is right for you and your mental health. I will caution you as a Christian, I've seen way too many couples bomb out after not working out the sex stuff... get married, it doesn't work like they though, and that is true suffering. I don't want to corrupt a person and go to H!.., but you should be well informed of the realities of life. It is a big area of compatibility that needs sorted through in advance of saying I will for ever... cause nobody likes to suffer.

hope you find your guy soon. there's virgin guys out here looking for virgin girls... fyi...:)

[Sweetascandy1990]

Thank you for your kind advice :-)

[lightbulb27]

welcome!

[Exterminatore]

I can’t tell you what it feels like for a woman. All I can say is it feels great physically, mentally and emotionally. Certainly creates a tighter bond between husband and wife as well.

In regards to pain... well there wouldn’t be 8 billion people on the planet if it didn’t feel good enough to keep doing it right?

Keep being celibate until you marry. You’re doing the right thing in God’s eyes. I was married, but my wife was unfaithful, so I’m back in the no sex boat for now, most unfortunately. However, God willing that will change.

[psychoticallyawkward]

My first time wasn't anything special. I think it depends on the person and relationship. It might hurt the first time especially if he's big down there. Communication is key though. It's okay to know what you want and talk with your future husband about it.

Good luck!

[Repa33]

It does hurt the first time but it feels aaamaaazzing after

[HalJordan2814]

Nothing wrong with waiting, casual sex is overrated

As far as how it feels, it feels pretty good. Kind of like a back massage for your sensitive areas. It's definitely something that gets better with practice, and how good it feels depends on your partner as well.

[kittyluv]

Why do you think people keep doing it if it didn´t feel amazing?

[Sweetascandy1990]

I guess you are right lol

[MrKinktastic]

It feels good when done right, the first time doesn’t have to hurt if you both take it slowly and gently.

[reptocarl]

Shame on you for being guilt tripped by a mistranslation

[outside_Toronto]

Why don't you get a dildo and see what it's like?

[Sweetascandy1990]

Lol... that's funny

[outside_Toronto]

Sure it's funny; however, you remain a virgin and find out what it feels like.
There is no downside to this

[Sweetascandy1990]

Yeah I guess you are right

[outside_Toronto]

Good luck

[Sweetascandy1990]

Thank you!

[FunnyFacts]

I have yet to experience such a thing...

[Anonymous]

Not better than masturbation

[Anonymous]

Bad. Its scary

[LindsayR07]

How is it scary