Would you date someone who doesn’t eat healthy and doesn’t do anything to keep fit?

[Azaleas]

When I was younger, I ate a lot of junk and didn’t care. I was never fat but I wasn’t skinny either.

I’m in my mid 20s so I started eating only healthy. I cook for myself and do yoga everyday. I also go jogging everyday to keep fit.

Sure

Nope

Depends if they’re willing to change

[Cynicaldreamer]

Nope, it would be a major turnoff actually.

I am fine with the occasional fast food or junk food, but nowadays I workout regularly and eat fairly healthy... and I expect my partner to support my lifestyle, or least do the same. It is much easier to stay in shape if your partner works out and eats healthy with you as you keep each other accountable.

[SexyAshh]

Basically thatd be saying they dont give a damn about themselves and have zero respect. Thats actually highly disturbing to me so NO

[FakeSqueezie]

Not caring about oneself kinda indicates they're lazy etc, which doesn't appeal to me

[Drowningkingfish]

It’s a bit of a dealbreaker.

[Apope16]

i have dated over weight women. im a boob guy. but i want to marry a woman that cares about her appearance. I want a woman who wants to look sexy. who likes new clothes. Who wants to be the girlfriend that people would be jealous of me for. i want a girl who willl try to be fit after pregnancy.

I am terrified of getting married and a girl letting herself go...

[Logorithim]

Yeah, if I think she can turn it around because othewise her lifestyle would conflict too much with mine.

[princessfromjupiter]

Haha nope, not over my dead body.
It doesn't even matter to me if they're super ectomorph and still look slender. I have a totally mesomorph body, I NEED exercise and I need to watch what I eat, I could never be with someone who's a complete couch potato and pigs out on all kinds of fast food every other day. I want someone who shares my lifestyle (and hopefully physique).

[SAW2814]

I have a super fast metabolism so I stay thin no matter what. I don't work out, but I am on my feet nearly all the time as I walk everywhere.

I'd be happy to date someone similar, but if they go overboard with junk food then I'll start to worry

[Secret6620]

No. If you can't take care of yourself there isn't much you will be able to do for me

[alelectro]

Definitely, it shows we're comfortable with each other. There's something sweet and secure about someone letting their guard down and letting go, because they trust in a relationship.

[AlexanderBrunnrgaard]

I wouldn't find myself drawn to someone like that to begin with, so no. It's fair enough if they would be willing to change, but I wouldn't, "date them on that condition" or anything. They could far too easily just break that promise.

[Gabriella90]

No and living total Unhealthy lifestyle to me basically watching them commit suicide and standing there doing nothing,

[markscott]

For me to be interested in a girl, she would have to take care of herself reasonably well, and have a reasonably good diet and exercise.

[Sonorous]

Only if she showed signs of really wanting to change. If not, then I wouldn't want to be with her.

[loveslongnails]

At my dating pool age, what were once vices are now habits. I doubt I'd even be attracted to a woman cares nothing about being fit and eats all the wrong foods.

[Screenwriter]

This person sounds like they don't care about themselves. Of coures, youth is a factor.

[JimmyInSpace]

If they are vegan then I don't care. Lowest risk of disease, lowest risk of early death, and most important no cruelty.

[SexyAshh]

Being vegan has nothing to do with that🙄 vegans still eat bread and beans. Those are the worse inflammatory foods ever. Not to mention most vegans buy store bought vegan food loaded with chemicals. Not that healthy

[JimmyInSpace]

Vegans live the longest and have the lowest risk of disease.

And you can easily be vegan and eat organic if you want to avoid chemicals.

And no, in studies that look at actual human data (not mechanistic data) legume consumption increases lifespan.

I would recommend learning to read the medical literature rather than getting your data from random blogs and newspapers, or fake doctors like Axe and Mercola (both not doctors).

Being vegan makes a difference to dating because it shows the person loves animals and is willing to live without harming them.

[SexyAshh]

I see the top rated specialist in the world. I dont read it, i live it. Beans are a lechtin, maybe look into what those are and you'll have some sense. Until then dont preach what you dont know. The only thing i can agree with you on is not harming animals, in that, yes you have sense

[JimmyInSpace]

The science is very clear, vegans live longer, healthier, happier and much slimmer on average.
We have data from Harvard and from the National Institute of Health, with a combined total of 145,000 people followed for 25 years. That's just the tip of the iceberg.

A whole food vegan diet is also the only thing ever proven to stop or reverse cardiovascular disease, the disease that kills more humans than anything else. 31% of all humans. See Esselstyn et al 2014. - And the only thing ever proven to stop MS development in 95% of patients (Dr Swank's research).

The list goes on. Dr Greger has a great video called Uprooting the Leading Causes of Death.

[SexyAshh]

I've known many to switch vegan and gain weight. Not to mention come from a city where everyones into that hippy fad and dont appear slim whatsoever besides a select handful.

I will also say there's large research that shows vaccines sAve lives and prevent all these diseases,? Yet kids are getting autism and peoples genes are becoming screwed up to all the weird preservatives, causing the autoimmune issues but thats another story.

Everyones bodies different and if you think a one size fits all approach fits everyone becAause harvard came up with some lame statistic, ill let that be your opinion.

Integrative medicine seeps beneath what doctors want you to know, not throwing the same meds they do at everyone and same diet, its a personal set approach from your own body.

But like i said, stick to your beliefs. Some people are just more aware then others.

[JimmyInSpace]

Your logic:
"Veganism is bad because... vaccines!

Also your logic:
"Statistics are lame" (obviously you didn't even bother to look, you just decided you don't like it.)

🤦‍♂️

[JimmyInSpace]

* Logic *

[SexyAshh]

Obviously you have no logic. I never said veganism was bad becAuse of some statistics. Obviously my points makes more sense and you think some stupid statistic means its a fit for everyone, news flash its not!. Keep having a closed mind and eating your granola or whatever the hell y'all “vegans” eat. y'all have some wierdass cult anyways and i find it hilarious when y'all push it onto people, yet they still get health issues. Grow up and see other sides

[Oram52]

@JimmyInSpace
There are plenty of fat vegans, and they are at the same risk as anyone else. Chips and coke vegans are not immune to adverse affects. Overall yes vegans are healthiest as plant foods are full of antioxidents and phytonutrients. There is also difference between being a vegan and eating plant based diet. I'm neither.

@SexyAshh
"vegans still eat bread and beans. Those are the worse inflammatory foods ever"
Its pseudoscience, on the contrary wholegrains prevent heart disease for example, beans are even better for health. Look at Hispanic population in America despite all the negative lifestyle variables they live a long life. That is attributed to high consumption of beans.

Science does not support any negative associations with beans or wholegrains including wheat. On the contrary we are encouraged to incorporate those in our diet.
https://nutritionfacts.org/topics/beans/

[JimmyInSpace]

So vegans are a cult? But the people who torture animals ritually for taste enjoyment, THOSE are the people who aren't in a cult?

[SexyAshh]

@Oram52 i could not give a single shit what science says to add into in the diet! Science also says to get vaccinated, but yet those are killing people in ways that you think is them being unhealthy/ genetic. y'all can both take your facts and shove them up your ass. Eat all the shit u want, dumbasses believing bread and beans are good are going to have some types of issues. Not to mention i live in a highly hispanic area, funny you say they are healthy because most of my tax dollars are going to pay for their healthcare due to obesity and diabetes and all kinds of other things. I dont see a point in explaining to dumb people whom have never dealt with a health issue and paid over 100k out of pocket to seek Legitimate health!. Facts and doctors dont know hardly anything

[JimmyInSpace]

Wow. Retardation level 97.

*Claims science doesn't know anything.
*3 seconds later makes science claims about beans and bread. 😂

[JimmyInSpace]

You spent 100k on healthcare.
I have never been sick more than a common cold.
I wonder who has a healthier lifestyle.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[Oram52]

@SexyAshh " i could not give a single shit what science says to add into in the diet! "
I think that pretty much says it all.

[EclipseoftheHeart]

You are attracted to who you are attracted to, no matter what they look like.

[Selena98]

I couldn’t do it I eat healthy workout 6 Days week.

[Dav1ss]

I wouldn't think of them as a long term partner if they didn't care about their health

[ChrisB15243]

As long as the habit can change. I hate when I see people eat only junk food it's disgusting and shows you don't care about yourself.

[Bandit74]

Depends on their body. I don't eat healthy or exercise, but I an still a healthy weight.

[Lance1965]

Junk food is like drugs for some people. Some can consume it year after year and nothing happens to them but it catches up with them eventually.

[AnimeThot]

If they have naturally fast metabolism so it doesn't affect their weight

[Red-wolf]

I know girls who don't do both but they still look good. So in some situations no

[YHL6965]

Fat will come at some point so i really wish they exercised at least a bit.

[BlkGamer]

Nah you don’t have to be fit but we have to workout at least 50 times in a year

[dontgofalling]

I would, but it's hard seeing someone you like hurting themselves and not being able to do nothing

[sexphobe]

If they werent ugly then sure

[empressaqua]

I wouldn’t. He has be as active as I am.

[VeggieCalzone]

Well yea because it would fit my diet lol

[PoohBoy38]

Never! Cause I'd be very upset!

[DECENTSCOTTISHLAD999]

We can learn together

[BallSweatebronjames]

Why would anybody pick the second option

[patrickstarz]

Yes if she's Latina and phat in the right places

[BigandWet]

nope

[BoSvenson]

Sure, I don't care.

[up_64]

No I wouldn't

[iwantusern]

Depends...

[iwantusern]

Now are you fit?