At one point in my life I would’ve said yes. Now with my 43 years of experience and 3 marriages deep... the answer is a hard NO. The reasons for this are numerous. Ultimately it is going to make you question yourself. You will look at yourself differently. Your reality will change. Stay true to yourself and demand respect, faithfulness to a mutual degree of understanding, and if it means to involve other people... be sure it is a mutual agreement. You may think you are okay with it, and you may be able to handle the open relationship particularly if it’s straight. But there’s something about when your guy is sharing his body with another man, that I promise you will feel different than with a woman. You can compete with her, in the back of your mind you know you are the better choice (so to speak), but you cannot compete with the men. There’s nothing you can do to change this empty feeling once it shows itself. Things will never be the same. Now if he’s this way in the beginning, and you can deal... have fun. Your clock is ticking...
Nope. I tried it once and while he was interested in me, he asked could we introduce a guy into the relationship as well 🤨 So he wanted me and a guy at the same time.
Nope, never again! I know not all bi guys are that way, but I rather be with a straight guy that won't possibly leave me for a guy
I feel most men would date bi girls, but most girls wouldn't date bi men I knew a girl who dated and lost her virginity to a bisexual guy. That is disgusting
My wife and I are both bi. Contrary to popular stereotypes, that doesn’t mean we also have an open relationship. Our marriage is monogamous, but even so we find members of both sexes attractive for various qualities. Honestly, I wish bisexual men would be given more love than what we currently receive. Too many comments of how promiscuous bi men are and ‘so good riddance’ to them. But bi women, ‘now they’re okay.’ People who are bi want love just like everyone else; we may find attraction with men and women, but that doesn’t necessarily and automatically mean we’re all going to step out on any and all relationship that we’re in.
I hope the people who are saying things like “they can have their fun, etc.” come to understand that relationships, especially of communities that you don’t understand and so only see through a fraction of a lens, are complex and often complicated, no matter the person’s sexual orientation, etc. Lumping us all together is wrong and honestly makes no sense.
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Wish men had much of a choice but sadly for us most women actually are bisexual or at least sexually attracted to females in some way.
Yeah I would, I'm bisexual so It wouldn't matter to me. But he'd have to have very masculine traits and behaviors. I don't think I could date a guy that wore my shoes or makeup.
I probably wouldn't. I would be afraid of having him cheating on me with a guy. It would make me feel worse than having him cheating on me with another girl.
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