When you cuddle do you prefer to be in BIG spoon or little spoon position?

Question

Do you think gender roles in society play a role or is it biological?

Miss_Savanna_Dry · Accepted Answer

Definitely big spoon. If I'm the small spoon I feel crushed by the guy when his arm is around me holding me. It's heavy and uncomfortable and I can't move. If I'm the big spoon then I can hold the guy and still feel comfortable and not crushed to death while still being close to the guy.

311WasAnInsideJam · Accepted Answer

Gender has never played a role in it for me. I am a tall, tall bitch and therefore am cursed to forever be the spoon grande.

CallMeDave · Accepted Answer

We do both, but I'm the big spoon probably over 90% of the time. I'm a whole foot taller than her so it works better that way and we both seem to prefer that. She'll often go to sleep in that position and sometimes I do too.

Gedaria · Accepted Answer

Wife use to grumble, if I was big spoon she said I can feel your cock and it gets me going so we reverse. We can get some sleep then...

MrOracle · Answer

Always the big spoon. I'm a "top" - meaning I am the toucher, the holder, the kisser, etc.

KatherineJ · Answer

Little spoon. Do I think gender roles have something to do with it? Maybe, but it’s just nice to feel small and protected.

SuzyB · Answer

My partner and myself change between the big spoon and little spoon, it's just intimacy desire that all people need...

monkeynutts · Answer

I prefer we embrace face to face, particularly in winter, I would kiss her in her sleep.

Jordanx3 · Answer

I’m 7’1” tall so I can only really be the big spoon

Xoirwinkan · Answer

I think it's certainly biological. Take a look at the results.

madgoat · Answer

I don't believe society defined this, I think it's a natural tenancy.

ShadowofRegret · Answer

Never have cuddled, but if I did, I would prefer to be the "little spoon".

DanishSaint · Answer

I prefer to be the fork and not participate in the act with the spoons at all.

HaveNoName · Answer

I prefer small as long as I get the big one once in a while. Shouldn't be just as if only one cares.

SarahsSummer · Answer

im always the little spoon

ShortCircuit · Answer

I'd rather face each other.

Ultimate_Gohan · Answer

Well im a fork so i don't cuddle

Logorithim · Answer

Big spoon

Secret6620 · Answer

Big spoon

jen_phils · Answer

Little spoon.

GuidoThePizzaMaker · Answer

never been the little spoon

That2kKid21 · Answer

Big spoon

Anonymous · Answer

Depends if I want to go in through the out door...

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