When you cuddle do you prefer to be in BIG spoon or little spoon position?

[Apope16]

Do you think gender roles in society play a role or is it biological?

Big spoon

Little spoon

A total of 92 votes were cast: 41 girls and 51 guys. See detailed results

[Miss_Savanna_Dry]

Definitely big spoon. If I'm the small spoon I feel crushed by the guy when his arm is around me holding me. It's heavy and uncomfortable and I can't move. If I'm the big spoon then I can hold the guy and still feel comfortable and not crushed to death while still being close to the guy.

[311WasAnInsideJam]

Gender has never played a role in it for me. I am a tall, tall bitch and therefore am cursed to forever be the spoon grande.

[CallMeDave]

We do both, but I'm the big spoon probably over 90% of the time. I'm a whole foot taller than her so it works better that way and we both seem to prefer that. She'll often go to sleep in that position and sometimes I do too.

[Gedaria]

Wife use to grumble, if I was big spoon she said I can feel your cock and it gets me going so we reverse. We can get some sleep then...

[MrOracle]

Always the big spoon. I'm a "top" - meaning I am the toucher, the holder, the kisser, etc.

[KatherineJ]

Little spoon. Do I think gender roles have something to do with it? Maybe, but it’s just nice to feel small and protected.

[SuzyB]

My partner and myself change between the big spoon and little spoon, it's just intimacy desire that all people need...

[monkeynutts]

I prefer we embrace face to face, particularly in winter, I would kiss her in her sleep.

[Jordanx3]

I’m 7’1” tall so I can only really be the big spoon

[Xoirwinkan]

I think it's certainly biological. Take a look at the results.

[ShadowofRegret]

Never have cuddled, but if I did, I would prefer to be the "little spoon".

[madgoat]

I don't believe society defined this, I think it's a natural tenancy.

[DanishSaint]

I prefer to be the fork and not participate in the act with the spoons at all.

[HaveNoName]

I prefer small as long as I get the big one once in a while. Shouldn't be just as if only one cares.

[SarahsSummer]

im always the little spoon

[ShortCircuit]

I'd rather face each other.

[Ultimate_Gohan]

Well im a fork so i don't cuddle

[Logorithim]

Big spoon

[Secret6620]

Big spoon

[jen_phils]

Little spoon.

[GuidoThePizzaMaker]

never been the little spoon

[That2kKid21]

Big spoon

[Anonymous]

Depends if I want to go in through the out door...