+1 yGreatly depends on the emotional state of mind of each of us.
i know the other night I definitely felt like little spoon, then other times I’m definitely the Big Spoon.
it’s about giving each other emotional and physical support, not just sex.
As a guy you need to accept you do actually need those little spoon moments now and then.00 Reply
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I prefer being the big spoon, I don't want to be restricted or overheat.
Size has nothing to do with it, my boyfriend is a lot taller and bigger than me and I'll still wrap myself around him like an octopus. I'm free to move however I want, grab whichever part of him I desire and absorb precisely as much of his warmth as I need.
Highly recommend.00 Reply
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+1 yThe big spoon. I hate feeling suffocated yet i love to throw my thigh over the guy lol
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2K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I like being big spoon, snuggling up against her butt with my arm around her and sometimes cupping her breasts.
I also like it when I'm lying on my back and she spoons up against me, throws a leg and arm over me, embraces me with her breasts, and rests her head on my chest.00 Reply
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u +1 yMy nickname for my girlfriend is Little Spoon.
40 Reply Both are soooo good. But, different. I love being held, little. In this position, I sleeeeeep. It's so comfortable.
Being big, is a little more erotic for me. The most comfortable position for my upper arm is often cupping her lower breast. Inevitably, her nipple will rise in my palm and I'll get excited between her cheeks. I'm sure you understand...00 Reply
+1 yi love being the Little Spoon so i can get a good Hot Beef Injection. And i like his arms around me, pulling me tight to his hairy warm chest. Very safe and comforting.
Big Spoon sometimes when i want to wake him by giving him a good stroking.23 Reply- +1 y
*PHEW*😳🥴
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@Guardian45 would i rather lie and make stuff up? GAG has always been a safe place to be honest, up front, and sometimes blunt.
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DON'T CHANGE! We love you as is!
302 opinions shared on Relationships topic. I’m little so I end up being little spoon. Me trying to be big spoon wouldn’t be big spoon, it would be more like “wart on his bsck.”
20 Reply7.3K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I like being the ice cream scoop.

Scoop for me. 10 ReplyI suffer from night terrors. I hate it, but it is what it is. At 6' 2" I am always going to be the big spoon. Still, there are times when my partner can sense I am having one and will spoon me.
00 ReplyLittle spoon. I can be in a position that's more comfortable, if I sit or lay certain ways my shoulders of legs will bother me
00 ReplyAlways big spoon. However it is always surprisingly sweet and unexpected and very nice if she turns and big spoons me too out of the blue! Makes me feel very loved and appreciated!
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+1 yLittle spoon, as I'm smaller than him... kind of hard to be big spoon.
10 ReplyDepends on which other spoon I happen to be with, because both are good.
00 ReplyThe little spoon but I don't mind being the big spoon sometimes when I'm wearing heels.
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Anonymous(18-24)+1 yMy ex was 6’3 and I’m 5’2.. I couldn’t have been the “big spoon” even if I tried lol. I prefer being the little spoon. We never really cuddled though. My parents did not allow it.
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+1 yI'd be happy to be whatever spoon someone wanted me to be... right now I still have no spoon.
00 Reply3.1K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I like both. We both prefer being the little spoon. She likes feeling my dick press against her ass, and I like feeling her boobs press against my back.
10 Reply2.6K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I can't choose, so I just want us to embrace eachother
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+1 yI’ve never done this for a whole night but in theory I’d rather be little spoon
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+1 yBig spoon!!! I always like to make my partner feel good. Plus her scent drives me crazy...
00 ReplyLittle spoon unless I want to please and tease him.
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+1 yI prefer little spoon, but have my moments where I want to be the big spoon
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+1 yBig spoon and my hand travel into her bra and play with her boobs...
10 Reply343 opinions shared on Relationships topic. I prefer being the big spoon. I’m a foot
taller than my girlfriend, so it works better that way.00 Reply
+1 yI prefer little spoons because it makes me feel like I'm eating something bigger then what I really am
00 Reply531 opinions shared on Relationships topic. I'm ok with any spoon, its better than sleeping alone.
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Anonymous(18-24)+1 yLittle spoon. Plus I like feeling my man's boner against my butt
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That’s hot. I like being big spoon and feeling an ass up against my hard boner. Do you like when he push up against you so hard and tight where you can basically feel it against your pussy?
+1 yI am a dominant switch. Most if the time, I LOVE being the big spoon, but occasionally I like being the small spoon.
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+1 yI prefer penetrated forks, as in we hold onto an face towards each other. Otherwise, I like being the bigger spoon
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yI've never been in a relationship or that but I'd personally prefer little spoon.
30 ReplyAt 5'5 I only get a choice about half the time & it's usually about the same.
00 Reply2.9K opinions shared on Relationships topic. None. Need space. Wife and I spoons legs instead. Guess you call it forking.
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yLove being little spoon specially when the whole body is keeping your body warm on a cold night
10 Reply321 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Big spoon but I think that is the way with most guys
00 ReplyBut I like big spone, while sex in spooning, to enter fully
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+1 yBoth. Either or are equally lovely.
20 ReplyBig spoon, let me wrap my leg around and pretend I'm a jet pack 😂
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yI prefer using my psychic powers to bend spoons
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+1 yBoth! Sometimes they need to be spooned and and sometimes I need it. 🥰
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+1 yAm 6’7 almost 8 so I know my role, and he’ll she knows hers 😈
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+1 yLittle spoon definitely
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+1 yBig spoon, I like to press my dick against her ass
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+1 yI like both and switch it up based on my mood.
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+1 yI prefer little spoon because I'm ALWAYS cold LOL.
00 ReplyBig spoon 99% of the time.
00 ReplyI'm the big spoon lol
00 ReplyI'm always the big spoon 🥄
00 Reply4.4K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Doesn't matter, I've been both
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+1 yBig spoon and my hands on her boobs 😁
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Yeah this one is good!
Little spoon is where it's at!
00 ReplyI don't know probably little spoon.
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+1 yI’m always the little spoon.
00 Reply1.1K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Usually big, but little is nice too.
00 ReplyI like both for different reasons :)
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+1 yI like to flip sides pretty frequently so both 😄
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yThe little spoon is warmer.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yMost women prefer to be the little spoon
00 Reply828 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Big spoon like having a nice bobble butt in my lap
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+1 yLittle spoon so he can feel me
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Nice. I’m sure he enjoys being pressed up against you. I’m sure you feel him too..
+1 yBig spoon gotta push that boner against her
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That’s hot
I enjoy being a big spoon with a big cock
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+1 ylittle spoon
10 Reply 859 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Many girls can relate with you
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