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Do you prefer being big spoon or little spoon?

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  • ChrisMaster69
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    Greatly depends on the emotional state of mind of each of us.

    i know the other night I definitely felt like little spoon, then other times I’m definitely the Big Spoon.

    it’s about giving each other emotional and physical support, not just sex.

    As a guy you need to accept you do actually need those little spoon moments now and then.

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  • Seinna
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    I prefer being the big spoon, I don't want to be restricted or overheat.

    Size has nothing to do with it, my boyfriend is a lot taller and bigger than me and I'll still wrap myself around him like an octopus. I'm free to move however I want, grab whichever part of him I desire and absorb precisely as much of his warmth as I need.

    Highly recommend.

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  • DizzyDesii
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    Master Age: 31 , mho 55%
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    The big spoon. I hate feeling suffocated yet i love to throw my thigh over the guy lol

    Do you prefer being big spoon or little spoon?
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  • Lliam
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    I like being big spoon, snuggling up against her butt with my arm around her and sometimes cupping her breasts.

    I also like it when I'm lying on my back and she spoons up against me, throws a leg and arm over me, embraces me with her breasts, and rests her head on my chest.

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  • OlderAndWiser u
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    My nickname for my girlfriend is Little Spoon.

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  • SamIam96
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    Both are soooo good. But, different. I love being held, little. In this position, I sleeeeeep. It's so comfortable.

    Being big, is a little more erotic for me. The most comfortable position for my upper arm is often cupping her lower breast. Inevitably, her nipple will rise in my palm and I'll get excited between her cheeks. I'm sure you understand...

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  • wingattebaby16
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    Guru Age: 31 , mho 50%
    +1 y

    i love being the Little Spoon so i can get a good Hot Beef Injection. And i like his arms around me, pulling me tight to his hairy warm chest. Very safe and comforting.

    Big Spoon sometimes when i want to wake him by giving him a good stroking.

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    • Guardian45
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      *PHEW*😳🥴

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    • wingattebaby16
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      @Guardian45 would i rather lie and make stuff up? GAG has always been a safe place to be honest, up front, and sometimes blunt.

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    • Guardian45
      Guardian45
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      DON'T CHANGE! We love you as is!

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  • SaoirseS u
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    I’m little so I end up being little spoon. Me trying to be big spoon wouldn’t be big spoon, it would be more like “wart on his bsck.”

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  • exitseven
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    I like being the ice cream scoop.

    Scoop for me.
    Scoop for me.
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  • Moose304
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    Xper 7 Age: 68
    +1 y

    I suffer from night terrors. I hate it, but it is what it is. At 6' 2" I am always going to be the big spoon. Still, there are times when my partner can sense I am having one and will spoon me.

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  • nirvowolf
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    Xper 4 Age: 43 , mho 65%
    +1 y

    Little spoon. I can be in a position that's more comfortable, if I sit or lay certain ways my shoulders of legs will bother me

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  • Mr1derful
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    Always big spoon. However it is always surprisingly sweet and unexpected and very nice if she turns and big spoons me too out of the blue! Makes me feel very loved and appreciated!

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  • Aerissa_Jade
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    Little spoon, as I'm smaller than him... kind of hard to be big spoon.

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  • Buntyp
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    Xper 5 Age: 36 , mho 54%
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    Depends on which other spoon I happen to be with, because both are good.

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  • Cherry234
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    The little spoon but I don't mind being the big spoon sometimes when I'm wearing heels.

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  • Anonymous
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    My ex was 6’3 and I’m 5’2.. I couldn’t have been the “big spoon” even if I tried lol. I prefer being the little spoon. We never really cuddled though. My parents did not allow it.

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  • Phoenix-gb
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    Xper 6 Age: 39 , mho 41%
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    I'd be happy to be whatever spoon someone wanted me to be... right now I still have no spoon.

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  • Twalli
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    I like both. We both prefer being the little spoon. She likes feeling my dick press against her ass, and I like feeling her boobs press against my back.

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  • JosyJosy
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    Master Age: 33
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    2.6K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

    I can't choose, so I just want us to embrace eachother

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  • WhitneySnow
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    I’ve never done this for a whole night but in theory I’d rather be little spoon

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  • metalhead_66
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    Xper 5 Age: 31
    +1 y

    Big spoon!!! I always like to make my partner feel good. Plus her scent drives me crazy...

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  • helva
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    +1 y

    Little spoon unless I want to please and tease him.

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  • RebeccaBI2000
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    I prefer little spoon, but have my moments where I want to be the big spoon

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  • Sam_The_Savage
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    Yoda Age: 29
    +1 y

    Big spoon and my hand travel into her bra and play with her boobs...

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  • RealMarek
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    343 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

    I prefer being the big spoon. I’m a foot
    taller than my girlfriend, so it works better that way.

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  • HeartFullOfGlue
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    +1 y

    I prefer little spoons because it makes me feel like I'm eating something bigger then what I really am

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  • Jltakk
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    +1 y
    531 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

    I'm ok with any spoon, its better than sleeping alone.

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  • Anonymous
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    (18-24)
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    Little spoon. Plus I like feeling my man's boner against my butt

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    • Romeo0071234
      Romeo0071234
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      That’s hot. I like being big spoon and feeling an ass up against my hard boner. Do you like when he push up against you so hard and tight where you can basically feel it against your pussy?

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  • Guardian45
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    I am a dominant switch. Most if the time, I LOVE being the big spoon, but occasionally I like being the small spoon.

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  • Dinosaursandanime65
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    1.3K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

    I prefer penetrated forks, as in we hold onto an face towards each other. Otherwise, I like being the bigger spoon

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  • Anonymous
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    +1 y

    I've never been in a relationship or that but I'd personally prefer little spoon.

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  • zyxacb
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    Xper 3 Age: 28
    +1 y

    At 5'5 I only get a choice about half the time & it's usually about the same.

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  • OddBeMe
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    Master Age: 42
    +1 y
    2.9K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

    None. Need space. Wife and I spoons legs instead. Guess you call it forking.

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  • Anonymous
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    +1 y

    Love being little spoon specially when the whole body is keeping your body warm on a cold night

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  • Guido
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    +1 y
    321 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

    Big spoon but I think that is the way with most guys

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  • Zygum
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    Explorer Age: 48
    +1 y

    But I like big spone, while sex in spooning, to enter fully

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  • dustybiker
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    Master Age: 48 , mho 41%
    +1 y

    Both. Either or are equally lovely.

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  • Ayyye
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    Xper 3 Age: 28
    +1 y

    Big spoon, let me wrap my leg around and pretend I'm a jet pack 😂

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  • Anonymous
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    +1 y

    I prefer using my psychic powers to bend spoons

    https://www.youtube.com/embed/bePE4_jx1q8
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  • Vikingmaiden
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    +1 y

    Both! Sometimes they need to be spooned and and sometimes I need it. 🥰

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  • AboveAverage24
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    Xper 2 Age: 27
    +1 y

    Am 6’7 almost 8 so I know my role, and he’ll she knows hers 😈

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  • Tiptoetamm
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    Yoda Age: 36 , mho 31%
    +1 y

    Little spoon definitely

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  • 20yearsolder
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    Master Age: 40 , mho 31%
    +1 y
    701 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

    Big spoon, I like to press my dick against her ass

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  • MissResilient
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    Xper 4 Age: 28 , mho 70%
    +1 y

    I like both and switch it up based on my mood.

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  • melaniee789456123
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    Xper 4 Age: 20 , mho 33%
    +1 y

    I prefer little spoon because I'm ALWAYS cold LOL.

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  • Losalt
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    Yoda Age: 39 , mho 54%
    +1 y

    Big spoon 99% of the time.

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  • TonyV
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    Guru Age: 34 , mho 39%
    +1 y

    I'm the big spoon lol

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  • DonkeyDan
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    Guru Age: 50 , mho 33%
    +1 y

    I'm always the big spoon 🥄

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  • Agape93
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    4.4K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

    Doesn't matter, I've been both

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  • Hairylegs222
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    Xper 7 Age: 39
    +1 y

    Big spoon and my hands on her boobs 😁

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    • Vivaldi
      Vivaldi
      +1 y

      Who is she?

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    • Girlygovroom
      Girlygovroom
      +1 y

      Yeah this one is good!

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  • Ninania
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    Explorer Age: 31
    +1 y

    Little spoon is where it's at!

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  • XXblack88
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    Guru Age: 38
    +1 y

    I don't know probably little spoon.

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  • sheikalana
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    Master Age: 37
    +1 y

    I’m always the little spoon.

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  • bowenw
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    Master Age: 42
    +1 y
    1.1K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

    Usually big, but little is nice too.

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  • SmokyOne
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    Xper 5 Age: 36
    +1 y

    I like both for different reasons :)

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  • GrantArmstrong
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    Xper 5 Age: 47
    +1 y

    I like to flip sides pretty frequently so both 😄

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  • Anonymous
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    +1 y

    The little spoon is warmer.

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  • Anonymous
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    Most women prefer to be the little spoon

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  • driven159
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    Yoda Age: 71
    +1 y
    828 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

    Big spoon like having a nice bobble butt in my lap

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  • yourmancallsme
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    Xper 5 Age: 20
    +1 y

    Little spoon so he can feel me

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    • Romeo0071234
      Romeo0071234
      +1 y

      Nice. I’m sure he enjoys being pressed up against you. I’m sure you feel him too..

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  • Creampiekarl420
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    Xper 6 Age: 26
    +1 y

    Big spoon gotta push that boner against her

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    • yourmancallsme
      yourmancallsme
      +1 y

      That’s hot

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  • Jerre
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    Master Age: 56
    +1 y

    I enjoy being a big spoon with a big cock

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  • TrueConfection
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    +1 y
    721 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

    little spoon

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  • Nahid1707
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    859 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

    Many girls can relate with you

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