Are you usually big spoon or little spoon?

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

I'm generally little spoon!

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For clarity, I'm 174cm while my girlfriend is 182cm.

[Aysen]

Ever since I was a little kid, my girlfriend and I prior to dating would hug each other all the time, where she comfortably tucks her head under mine for security and warmth. For that reason now that we are dating, I'm always the big spoon when cuddling with her in bed, to give that same kind of comfort she lacked while growing up in her childhood years. I love the idea of wrapping my arm (s) around her, letting her know that everything will be ok and that I still love her unconditionally! Sometimes this can be beneficial if she realizes that I'm more in an intimate mood for sex and she follows up with certain movements.

It's interesting how you're the little spoon because most guys usually are the big spoon but seeing how there's a height difference and different preferences for comfort between you two, it's nice to change something different! This is one of those moments in life I love to replicate with my girlfriend every time it happens. Who doesn't like a good cuddle where you can feel that sense of closeness and intimacy with your partner/significant other? <3

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

I completely agree with you!
What you and your girlfriend is incredibly sweet and very heartwarming, and gives a good image of how close and loving you two are!

You are right, it's not common for the guy to be little spoon but we just love it, especially I enjoy feeling her breath on my neck and her breasts on my back.
It also fits the "big cat and little cat" gimmick we have!

[Aysen]

I'll never understand any couple who wouldn't want to cuddle at least once in a while in either spoon position! It just feels so intimate and brings you and your significant other closer together physically and emotionally!

It's a gimmick that works for you both! I always wondered what having my girlfriend's breasts on my back would feel like but I could imagine it's comforting and feels familiar after a while of doing so which is a good thing :) Much appreciated for MHO!

[SuperManiac]

I prefer the big one like 99% of the time. It feels kind of strange to me to be the little one. Plus it makes a tighter fit because I don't have boobs. :-D

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

Ah I'll be honest, for me feeling her breasts gently press against my back it's what makes me like being little spoon!

[SuperManiac]

I'm kind of a groper so I like to reach around and use my hands. :-D When I'm little spoon it's usually when I'm absolutely exhausted and want to sleep and my wife starts hugging me. Then I'm too tired to shift position.

[CherryRoseChampange]

Little lmao, it just fits my personality more and vice versa

[PrincessGrail]

Little spoon. Subs generally are.

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

True!

[Wowgirl30q]

Who the hell holds their boyfriend's?
What type of weird shit is that?
Only a boyfriend should really hold his boyfriend.

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

@Wowgirl30q Some girlfriend's do it

[Wowgirl30q]

I think they have gay tendencies if so and should be with a girl.

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

@Wowgirl30q Yes, in fact it's something I do with my girlfriend, not other guys

[Wowgirl30q]

Bet she's not the big spoon

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

@Wowgirl30q She generally does it because she's taller and loves doing it.
Sometimes I do it but it's rare

[Wowgirl30q]

Weird today my man👍

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

@Wowgirl30q 😂😂😅😅

[PrincessGrail]

Thank you!!

[OlderAndWiser]

I am 5' 9" (175 cm) and my girlfriend is 5' 5" (165 cm.) I am ALWAYS the big spoon! That is my favorite position for going to sleep!

[PinkChampagne]

I would like to be the little 😂

[anuragk033]

😂😂😂😂😂😂 anyway is fine😘

[PinkChampagne]

Heeeeeyyyyyyyyy I will be... You know on some things I'm already smaller than you... In future has potential to be even more

[SueShe]

I am no spoon at all since I don't date or have anybody to spoon with.

Furthermore, it is a very uncomfortable position if you try to fall asleep. I need my freedom of movement and a cold bed to be able to sleep well.

A spoon, regardless of its size is not what I am looking for in my bed.

[MissKittyz]

Always little spoon for me while my boyfriend prefers being the big spoon. I feel it is more comfortable that way and he also loves feeling my butt on his crotch xD just like I like feeling that against my butt lol and rubbing my butt against it lol but I don't know, I've tried being a big spoon once and it isn't comfortable to me and doesn't feel right.

[Anonymous]

I’m the little mini spoon! No kidding, my boyfriend is so tall that I feel extremely small next to him lol

[SoSoSoConfused]

I'm little spoon, but I would rather roll over and put my head on his chest; greatest place in the world!

[Miss_Savanna_Dry]

I only like being the big spoon. Way more comfortable for me. I feel smothered when I'm the small spoon because a guys arm is heavy, I can't move. Being the big spoon is way better.

[fauchelevent]

I'm usually the little spoon. There's such a big height difference between us that he finds it amusing when I try to be big spoon, he calls it jet packing instead.

[ShadowofRegret]

I am on the small side, so it is hard to imagine being anything but the little spoon, not that I would mind since that always did appeal to me more personally.😊

[morimeme1]

I love to be the small spoon because he has wide shoulders and big arms and I feel tiny in his embrace while I feel left out as the big spoon.

[hahahmm]

My bed is so big it’s like going to another zipcode to get to her side. Usually we don’t commute much.

[SuperSWC]

I prefer little. I like to feel him between my ass cheeks and his hand around my breasts

[Lyndsielee666]

My boyfriend is the big spoon while I’m the big spoon to our youngest daughter 🤷‍♀️

[Nayrr]

I'm 6'1 and she's 5'4. I'm usually big spoon but it's nice to switch sometimes.

[Nayrr]

That's 185cm and 162 cm.

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

You are really tall!

[Nayrr]

Yeah, tallest one in my household. My dad is only 5'5

[EmbraceThePain]

Neither, I’m the isolated spoon.

I like to have my own space when sleeping.

[MrOracle]

I'm virtually always the big spoon. And I'm happy that way.

[clampfan101]

I have no experience, but both look very enjoying. I’m already a hugger with family and close friends, so I can only imagine how much of a cuddler I’d be. lol

[redpanda_]

Little spoon like 95% of the time, I'm like a monkey on a tree when I'm the big spoon 😂

[pleasestopthis]

I only cuddle with my little sis so I'm the big spoon. When I cuddle a guy I'm usually the little spoon.

[TeacherJay]

Always the big spoon but every girlfriend gets mad because i get really hard everytime! Do you ladies know what your ass on our dick does or not!