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I don't get much comfort from being the little spoon but I love being the bog spoon. My girlfriend and I both sleep naked so when we spoon, I feel her skin against mine. I reach around and can get one hand on both nipples. I just let my hand rest there and I call it "grabbing a handle" or "getting a BOGO!" Our legs get wrapped together, I whisper "I love you," and we go to sleep. It's perfect.
I'm going to say big spoon but usually we're either facing each other with our legs intertwined and arms holding each other or I'm on flat on my back and she's laying on her side with her head on my chest and one leg wrapped over my legs.
Always the big spoon. My boyfriend refuses to be the big spoon, because he says he drowns in my hair. Also, I'm a much better big spoon than he is. 💁🏼♀️
I neeeeed to be the little spoon. There is nothing like having the arms of the person I love around me.
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I wish I could make my boyfriend happy and be the big spoon. But he's taller and has a very broad shoulders and such. He's not fat but quite large as a person (Sort of like a hockey player) so I can't reach around him and feel comfortable. I'm also very tiny so we're basically each other's opposites
No matter how hard I try I will never be anything more than a tiny spoon lol.
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I’m def the little spoon all the way. But with the guy I was with just recently during the night I would be the big spoon to him which I loved and then he would turn me around and be the big spoon to me. So my answe is a bit of both it was really really hot
@RaceAgainstMachine I’m 511 and the guy I was seeing was 6’4 so I like guys tall
Both, but I tend to prefer to be the big spoon. Luckily no guy I’ve dated has minded being my small spoon.
I am usually the big spoon. I am usually on the little spoon when she still wants to keep cuddling but I have been laying to one side too long and I want to roll over to the other side and I turn my back to her.
I’m the little spoon when he likes to spoon which isn’t often. I prefer to cuddle up to him instead anyway.
@RaceAgainstMachine I’m 5’3.5” and my guy is 6’4”
My guy likes to be the little spoon, but he has a big, barrel chest and it's uncomfortable. I do it for him, though, 50-50
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5 foot 7 and IDGAF as long as he's in kissable range (so no dwarfs nor giants?
I believe you have asked me this before
I prefer little spoon but sometimes I'm big spoon (though he refuses to call it that and says I'm jet packing instead cause of the height difference :P )
@RaceAgainstMachine i’m 5’2 and the guys I like tend to be between 5’6 and 6’0. My boyfriend now is 6’0
I am usually small spoon, but occasionally my boyfriend wants to be small spoon so I can cuddle him and it's adorable <3
If we are going to sleep I'm the "big" spoon. I use his back as a heater and just enjoying laying that way.
If we are cuddling, I'm little spoon.
@RaceAgainstMachine I'm 5'6 and I prefer if the guy is taller than me.
All I know is I like to put my limp penis in between her ass cheeks and then fall asleep... she likes being cuddled.
I prefer to be the little one but last night I was the big one which was worth it for him cause I kept giving him back massages! :-)
I'm mostly the little spoon, but sometimes crawl into bed after HIM and make myself the BIG spoon. LoL
Neither, I do not really like this cuddling position at all ^^' Prefer to lie down on his chest instead. So I'm... a blanket? XD
There is no spoon
I'm the spoon you accidentally dropped behind the counter and forgot there for years
I'm 5ft2 and petite. My husband is 6 ft 2 so not really comfy for me to spoon him
I would rather be the big spoon because i like to put myself against someone, not the other way around
I'm a spork. My pillow doesn't seem to mind my random positioning during the night though.
Socially awkward spork who orders the friends with benefits an uber on her own card before she lets him or her sleep over.
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