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Which is more attractive to women, THE BAD BOY or THE NICE GUY? (Page 3)
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for this image, its all the positive stereotypes of being a bad boy and the negative stereotypes of being a nice guy. Throw some negative stereotypes of being a bad boy in there with some positive ones of being a nice guy.
what about the bad boys who are physically abusive to girls and those who use girls up and dump them while nice guys do the opposite.
this should be ideal bad boy vs deceptive nice guy
The list is incredibly biased and is part of a troubling trend where people are afraid to even call themselves nice if they are nice.
Would you rather be nice or not? Think of all the people who did kind things for you and imagine if they lacked that empathy.
You must be a nice guy?
Not particularly, I value self-preservation above sacrifice, I'll tell people the truth even if it hurts their feelings, I make a lot of troll videos where I do sadistic things to people in video games on YouTube, I get bored if I can't have argument or contention for a while and so on.
I do favors for people I care about and generally treat strangers politely, but even mafia bosses will do that and few would say they're nice once they get to know what they have been up to
Well that is pretty cool! My favorite troll is "ImMarksman"
I'll have to check him out later.
But let's be real, "Bad boys" can be terrible, think of sociopaths or people who would cut someone's throat open just to get a few extra dollars. I'm sure assassins can be quite appealing if they are socially intelligent. Empathetic people can have charm as well however while unempathetic people can be boring and short-sighted, it all depends on the *individual.*
Generalizations are too short short-sighted in most situations.
I don't disagree. The point of the post is to find out if women favor the characteristics of the list on the left to the list on the right. Most will say NO just because BAD BOY is at the top. Let's face it... take off the BAD BOY and NICE GUY from the poster and most would just vote for the list on the left.
Well of course, just juxtapose how positive and negative each trait is perceived and the result will be obvious.
I'm sure a lot of genuinely nice people would take umbrage with the bad boys being given the positive traits of genuine and authentic.
The overall message comes off as: "if you are not a dominant 'chad' then any other positive trait about you is going to be twisted into something similar but negative."
A sexually submissive man all of a sudden becomes meek, as displayed by your list. I'm a switch myself and there is nothing weak about enjoying pain for instance. In martial arts, I could be put in painful joint locks and enjoy it, and that gave me a much better chance to escape them if they were improperly implemented because the pain compliance alone was not enough for me (I also have weaker nerve endings).
Meanwhile, women can be either dominant or submissive and none of those traits will be twisted negatively. "Bad girls" are seen as hot. Think of the edgy, gothic dominatrix who can make a guy's toes curl under her control.
Why us men Let ourselves be subjected to these double standards is beyond me. Excessively focusing on what women want instead of what us men what is not doing us any favors and only turns the dating scene into an example of an imbalanced power structure.
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Ill take a bad boy over a nice guy anyday,
You just have to learn to tame them down a bit. Not hard and I've had no issues🤷♀️
If i wanted a nice guy from that description, id just be a lesbian
What's your definition of bad boy? The description in the above list or something else?
Yepp but i wouldn't call those description a bad boy, just my type of guy.
Good boys go to heaven, bad boys bring heaven to you. Couldn't help it : )
I prefer a bad boy can be good for me only
If you see only two options for women, then how on earth are you a coach? You haven’t even matured yet...
There are 3 categories:
bad boys
Brave men
Nice guys
Problem is most guys, maybe 90% including you see life as black and white. You don’t mature. They either are too shy and fall into the nice guy or do stupid shit and become a bad boy.
Somewhere in between.
They want a nice guy with some of the traits that the bad boy has. They want him respectful, but assertive. They want him loving, but aggressive if necessary. They want the yin and the yang. "Balanced, as all things should be".
A pure nice guy or a pure asshole will never have too much luck. Even the asshole needs to show some affection if he wants a solid relationship.
This coming from a nice guy that got lucky once he got some of the asshole qualities for himself.
I think a lot of men can be both, they can bring out some of those both qualities.
Always remember that there are Bad Girls who are just as Bad as any Bad Boy!
What most girls want is a guy somewhere between the real bad boy and the very meek good guy. Fortunately that makes up the vast majority of the male population.
Most of it just a lie. I prefer to go with shorter guys since they don’t have much competition then other guys. Would prefer a good repectful guy.
Women love a guy whonis confident and has an opinion. The 'nice guys' in your list are actually doormats
Also id argue that needing external validation doesn't make you a nice or a bad guy. Just makes you someone who needs to learn to not need external validation
On my opinion there is a huge advantage of nice guys on female term, good guy on male term which is really, really important.
Good guys know how to love, bad guys know how to use.
I think it's something never seen on those pictures, in fact, word love doesn't appear.
Question is, do you think women prefer to be loved or used?
I voted for bad boy because of the lists given. in reality bad boys will ruin you and u will go crying to nice guys. If u find one to have the patience to deal wirh u u are lucky otherwise you stay alone
I was a nice guy once but realized I could take control so I did but now I am older I have learnt to balance it depends on my situation
I think most of us were at one point.
Well a guy shouldn't be so nice or bad.
He should be genuine and not cocky.
Knows what he wants and is fun without being overly into like the party scene.
Overall he's got to be honest.
So overall he should care and not deceive.
I've known nice guys who have qualities that aren't representative of those traits you mentioned in the right section. I feel it's pretty biased as if being "nice" is a problem.
Well remove the word NICE GUY above the list... I would imagine those aren't traits you are attracted too right?
omg not this nonsense again. why dont you flip the script around and do actual research on the broad and get a chance to talk to her and know her before you jump to idiotic nice guy/bad boy conclusions. Remember google can be your friend especially when looking up a broad online. And remember knowledge is power.
And remember the golden rule of every guy NEVER STICK YOUR DICK IN CRAZY
The world is fucked up in many ways. Women are blinded by unrealistic fantasies with terrible people that will ultimately lead to a terrible life. Bad boys aren’t good people, they’re terrible people who relish in the pain of others.
Geez I consider myself a "nice guy" but I feel almost none of those traits apply to me except very judgmental and apologize for everything. I feel they make the "nice guy" in this scenario to have the most unattractive traits lol.
You might be a "good guy" I think there is a difference. Everyone has their own opinions though. Just threw this up for fun.
I honestly thought my last boyfriend was a nice guy, was shy and insecure. He treated me like crap.
My idea of a bad boy is completely different to what's stated.
I'd say a bad boy, is just more of a masculine man and that's why women favour them.
Actually a Bad Boy is a Boy in a Man's Body, hasn't Grown-up yet!!!
@Moonchild714 Wow you are trolling? Didn't take you for one. I responded to you but no response. Got it!
Not Trolling, I was reading what Girls said, then I look in my feedback.
@Moonchild714 Okay just checking... I thought maybe this was my lucky day HA.
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How so when indecisiveness, doubtful and non-masculine clearly signifies a boy like mentality. I want a man not a mouse, what use is a man who can't make his mind up.
Boys also act out don't think of consequences or care about them lack rational behavior unapologetic unless there's an angle thinks the world is against and owes them impulsive...