Do guys like it when a girl takes control SOMEtimes?

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EmbraceThePain · Accepted Answer

Yes, definitely. I’ve somewhat changed in my thinking in what I prefer when it comes to relationships. What I mean by this is that, I previously thought that the man should be the more dominant and lead figure of the household, making more of the money. I now think a little differently, to where, I think I might prefer a more equal or mutual “partnership” rather than an imbalance of powers between the man and wife. I put partnership in quotes because I think this word sums up perfectly what I prefer. I prefer an equal relationship, where one is not superior or inferior to the other, rather, complimenting each other’s weaknesses. I think this is better grounds for a relationship, where both partners can be the happiest. It might be the case that the man makes more money than the woman, but the woman takes up more household tasks and keeps everything there in order, vice versa.

R4vedave · Accepted Answer

Absolutely. When a woman knows what she wants and takes the reigns, it's a huge turn on.

sugarchateau · Accepted Answer

I'm sure some do, in some ways :)

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I hope so! Because I like to take the initiative for sex.

BeMuse · Answer

I don’t like them to be controlling, but being able to make decisions and sticking with them is a good thing. Vacillating constantly is annoying. It’s good to show a little initiative and forethought sometimes and not expect men to always have to lead you, make all the plans, make up your mind for you, etc. It’s draining to have to always be responsible for another person. So sure, take control from time to time and make some plans, but don’t be forceful about it.

ChurchOfIron · Answer

Depends on the degree of control. You might "take" control, but you won't be "in" control. At least, from my perspective. I'll let her do what she wants, at times, but I'm still ultimately in control.

I guess what I'm saying is I won't be *dominated*. Even if she is directing things, she's still going to appeal to me, and she's still the submissive one, in my book.

Nohbdy · Answer

Yes and no only because im a slacker so it depends on how
Like if im not allowed to have an option or opinion then i would be really annoyed but if its not and all reasonable for everyone then my slacker mentally thinks ok what ever you say... but I've never dated so what do i know

A-man-22 · Answer

Takes control as in:
Asks me out
Asks to go somewhere with me
Initiates a hug or kiss
Plans a date or similar event.
Is upfront.

These are all great

However:
Gives ultimatums
Drags you everywhere
Commands you do things you don't want to.
Is bossy

Are all bad "taking control" moments.

JohnAlaska43 · Answer

Sure I like when she takes control I like to please my woman. Ill do anything as long as it doesn't go against my morals or anything that will break the law.

RawIronhide · Answer

Yeeeeeees it's all we want, well i can only speak for myself but i think i speak for more than just myself.

abc3643 · Answer

Yes. This way I know I won't screw up trying to figure out what she wants.

markscott · Answer

Yes, it's fun when a girl takes control sometimes. Just don't do it all the time.

ecfresh · Answer

It’s sexy when a woman initiates, shows confidence and she knows what she wants.

Ace-Otana · Answer

In the bedroom? Sure. But take control of my life? Nope.

HeyThere94 · Answer

Yep I do like when she takes control  That’s why I am getting married to a tomboy not some bimbo princess

anuragk033 · Answer

Yeah why not as long as people take responsibilities for their actions there's no problems

pattonias · Answer

Its better than when your girlfriend can't decide what she wants. Its aggravating beyond belief. Its super hot to have a girl who knows what she wants

Haelaeix123 · Answer

I don't mind when a woman takes control sometimes, it's actually helpful when my brain is fried

AcidT0y · Answer

Yeah sometimes it'd be good. Not likely though, she can't even take control of what she wants for dinner.

up_64 · Answer

Frankly I wouldn't mind. But the girl is probably gonna lose respect of I did so I'm not gonna try that ever

Thatsamazing · Answer

Take control HOW. You haven't provided any examples. Take control in which ways?

Anonymous · Answer

A TOP chick! A “take no prisoners” kinda WOMAN! 😂😂

Pulimuli · Answer

I like it Many guys dont though as it 'threatens their masculinity' and other bullshit like that

jl25sc · Answer

Yea why not. Sometimes I like to sit back and relax. Be it in life or in the bedroom

JaydenKays · Answer

Yeah  Cause some times we need to feel  Our girls involved in some stern things.

PrincessGrail · Answer

They do

theonlyonebig · Answer

Of course, controlling is about personality but not about gender

Anonymous · Answer

I like when a woman dominates and controls my entire life.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, depending on the situation

Cammy137 · Answer

Sure, under the right circumstances

katita · Answer

The guys I’ve been with don’t like it

SuccessfulHornDog · Answer

No, now go to your room

LesbianBusinessWoman · Answer

I always take control

blythely · Answer

In rare conditions sometimes

TonyMetal_86 · Answer

Only in sex, yes sometimes

bamesjond0069 · Answer

No i hate it. Its uncomfortable and awkward.

DECENTSCOTTISHLAD999 · Answer

Of course l do l want the girl to use my hot body

dragonborn666 · Answer

Yessssssssss

Anonymous · Answer

Sometimes it is OK. All the time NOOOO

Secret6620 · Answer

My man does. 🖤

Lliam · Answer

Absolutely.

Grobmate · Answer

You bet we do.

slatyb · Answer

Many do.

botsumsup · Answer

In what regard?

oncpl · Answer

Yes, I like it.

ThatWeirdDude · Answer

Yeah

Nadim171 · Answer

Yes a lot of times

GoBlueSC4 · Answer

I’d prefer it

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