Do guys like it when the girl starts the conversation over text?

[happycuriousgirl]

Do guys like it when the girl starts the conversation over text?

[Matthieu-G]

No. I hate it. And here is why:

I would rather SPEAK to you then TEXT to you. A lot of the magic of conversation in a relationship is about FEELING each other's presence. What do you feel in a text? Nothing. You miss out on subtle smiles, sexy interactions and many opportunities to touch each other. Texts... are for setting appointments to meet you, not unload emotional issues. Do that in person so that the communication lines remain open.

[Danny_11]

Texts are also for when a call would be inconvenient or unwarranted...

[MannMitAntworten]

Meh. In person would be far more effective in my world. The exception being if I exchanged numbers with someone and they later initiate. For the first text exchange, that would be something. A woman I was once quite fond of who I gave my number to did this. I'd be remiss if I said it didn't place a shit eating grin on my face. So at least for the first round of text I guess yes it does.

[Anonymous]

If you wanna talk to me you text me first. Period.

[theHalflife]

Yeah but what about when you want to talk to him?

[Opinion Owner]

Then I would text him?

[YourFutureEx]

Like it? We love it. When a girl sends you the text first, it clearly tells us that the girl is honestly interested in talking to us.

Expecting guys to initiate every single thing is so 20th century. Whoever feels like talking should send a text regardless of the gender.

The whole "he's a guy, so he should text me first" and "playing hard to get" is so repellent.

As I often say, nothing is sexier than the girl who makes the first move.

[philthespark]

I hate texting, then again I got my first mobile when they very first came out in the UK, the phone was expensive, calling was expensive, and you couldn't text!
Texting can lead to misunderstandings, for example, if I am with a female friend and she says something daft and I reply with, ' behave you silly cow', you can tell by the tone of my voice that I'm joking, you can't do that with a text and then people fall out, so no, I'd much rather be spoken to that texted.

[sawno]

Yes, infact with me its mandatory since ill stop initiating after a while and assume she is not interested if she does not initiate herself.

[AlexanderBrunnrgaard]

She doesn't have to start it, I'm happy to initiate, but I do appreciate it if she responds within the freaking day. I've had girls, "play hard to get", by not responding for 48 hours. That just annoys me and makes me loose interest.

[JamesBoradil03]

yes its annoying asf when i have to constantly start the text. i ean damn can't the woman ever show that she misses me or wants to talk to me, when a girl hits a guy up first it always brighens up our day cuz it means they actually carea about us

[Haelaeix123]

I do actually, at least some of the time because it makes me feel like she's invested something into the friendship or relationship and actually wants to talk to me

[Robert22791]

I love it when a girl starts the conversation. Its nice to know you're being thought about and someone wants you like you want them.

[jeremy_09]

yes always because we are usually the ones who do this

[xkildy]

Yes please makes me fell like there in to me and they actually want to chat..

[winterfox10]

Yes, it's nice to have the woman take initiative from time to time.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes i like girls who start the first conversation over text.

[SirRexington]

Yes? Who doesn't want a girl to initiate things? We're tired of having to make all of the moves.

[Caunsos]

Depends on the depth of the conversation. You get too deep just, fucking call me.

[SteveSmith1985]

Love it! Always. love it.

[valentine74]

Yes because we know that she wants some lovin if she texted another guy

[FroztyDaHoMan]

Ye especially if it's dirty and we know for sure what she is about

[pizzalovershouse]

depends on a guys mood or if they are open to new things

[PrànêshPrænã]

Yes I Love it Very Much I am Very Eager to Wait For Her Message

[Samhanks]

Only when I have privacy and nobody else is around me !

[Inadilemma]

It would be a great surprising thing, and guys would like it!