Dating pool after 35. Is the picture below true or false?

[Pinay_ako]

[Alwaysthinking14]

Not at all. The older I get the better the sex, the connections are deeper and you have more freedom. You don’t have to deal with mother or father in laws because at least one of them is already dead. The kids are grown and you can live a life of a 20 year old with the experience of a 35 year old. I also find the older you are the more you take care of your health, keep the weight down and staying active.

[R_Cakes91]

You kidding me? That’s how I feel right now!

[cavmanier]

lol..

[sunofdavis]

Waaa? No, older women can be hella hot

[demonics]

More accurate:

[ElissaDido]

It's hard for me to say. I feel like quality women can still attract men even in their mid 30s.
In my country a regular middle class man would rather marry a 35 y/o woman who has her shit together career-wise than a 25 y/o woman who will leech into his money.
A good bunch of my relatives married in their 30-35s.

Also by that time, many people are just getting remarried after a divorce or 2.

[OlderAndWiser]

It doesn't matter if 50% of the available guys after 35 are creeps. You only need to find one guy who is an attractive and charming gentleman.

[sejla]

Maybe. I'd say that was more my age group than the 35 year old group. At 35 you can go down or up in age. Where it gets dicey is 50+ for women. The older the less available or alive men there are.

[Intraluminal]

But the dead ones are cute, right?

[sejla]

@Intraluminal I'm sure they were...
I worded that weird. May you have many years ahead of you...

[Intraluminal]

LOL! Thank you

[AlphaMale1]

Dating was a million times easier when I was in high school compared to today. Online dating has made the field of choices world-wide today compared to those we went to school with before the Internet.

From my experience most of the women on dating sites are the same women that were on there 10 years ago. They tell me they see the same guys, too.

Dating sites have created the illusion that we can connect with someone who is above our social circle or intelligence. I found most women on dating sites want a Brad Pitt clone lol complete with all that money and the men want slender, successful beautiful women who does not have kids.

What we end up with as possibilities is those who want us are below our social status and not very attractive.

When CraigsList still had their romance area it was much easier to hook up with a woman that was at least somewhat attractive to us. Some of these women are married and they want to find someone to do a MMF thing with their hubby.

What a strange twist this dating thing has taken through my years...

[hahahmm]

Feminism meant that women could play the field (bed entire armies of men) without commitment in their younger years. But the biological reality is that 99% of men ain’t interested in a serious relationship with women over 35 who have high ‘road mileage’ or hardcore feminist traits like being confrontational with men or growing mustaches.

Yes, the good guys are taken or uninterested beyond a certain age. Especially if she never bothered to develop an above average personality or other traits to set herself apart from the herd.

It’s all even worse if she tries to use online dating to find something serious.

Not saying you’re doomed but if you’re going to survive you have to become exceptional.

[SueShe]

Maybe not quite that grim but definitely not as easy like when you were 18.

I would say more likely something like that

[ObscuredBeyond]

You're living proof it doesn't have to be. And it's not that the girls where I live are physically grotesque, but I don't find mile long rap sheets, visits from a probation officer, kids with five previous dudes, and Western Union scams attractive. And that's not even getting into the feminazis and closet bisexual manipulators. You know the kind. Five lip rings, think bestiality jokes are funny, don't shower often, flunk even basic English classes, and threaten to burn your house down if you disagree with them on something. They're the worst. And they also have five kids with five different dudes. And probably have a probation officer too.

Most women single after 35 where I live are either toads or total degenerates.

[Lliam]

False. Unless a person can't accept their own age and wants to date young people. I had some damn fine girlfriends who were over 35. One in particular was the best partner out of all that I ever had in my life. She was about 35 and I lived with her for over a year. I wouldn't trade that experience for anything. And later, I married my wife when she was 40. Turns out, I made a really good choice.

[SexyAshh]

If you keep up your appearance and body there's no issues with dating, i have plenty of friends that age and they are nowhere short on dates, and yes they are women

[Logorithim]

There is a lot of truth to that

[SexyAshh]

@logorithim definatly. And the same thing applies to men. Goes both ways

[Logorithim]

Absolutely right.

[Dongtai]

By you being in the dating pool it’s debunking the theory. If you exist, they’re must be someone like you. Right?

Or are you like the people you’re complaining about?

[wingattebaby16]

nope... only if you are stupid and take whatever comes along...

[HOAAH]

What does that picture even mean? Does it mean most people after 35 year old have a hard time find good ones?

[WalterBlack]

If that is the concept, I would say it is accurate.

[ariadneR]

Some truth but at the same time I'm not going to just settle for anyone.

[David291185norris]

You no girl ther meany diffident ones so try wot u like till u get the right organon

[Logorithim]

There is some truth to that

[OrangeBoy2]

" Conquer the men with your personality, intelligence and interests, and he will not prioritize your age or body."

Orangeboy 2019
Almost lunch time.

[ScotDan87]

There is some truth to that, both sides for men as well. But there will be someone incredible for you there are plenty of gents and ladies out there still.

[VIVANT]

I don’t see why. Good quality people are often divorcing by then do ready to try again, better. 🤷‍♀️😊

[Docnomania]

False lol
Thats just what people think cuz most get married by then

In some cases, married, divorced, and remarried again 😂😂🤷‍♂️

[GreenGold1992]

Well your profile says you're over 37, so you tell us

[Pinay_ako]

lolol

[AmorgansHorse]

Not older than 35 I'm 27 so I can't confirm but if I use half my age plus 7 then you could date a 24 year old at 35. However nobody that is 24 is gonna go with someone who is 35 in general so I would say you could get someone who is 29 or 30 without reaching.

[Texaskid1]

It depends. I am 42 and I will have girls in their early 20's hitting on me (most of them are cute , too). For a guy it depends. If you take care of yourself , are not desperate, and dress decently you can bag your self a hot college - aged girl. I know because I have seen it happen many times.

[AmorgansHorse]

I like you man because you give me hope lol. You think dressing nice makes that bug of an impact? I actually argued that once that if you built muscle and had nice clothes that fit women would come. It seems I was correct based on your comment so I reckon I stay the course then

[Texaskid1]

It is true. In my late 30's I began to hit the weights amd change my dress style and I soon noticed that women - including younger good looking - were checkng me out. I would catch them staring at me. At work some of the hot women that would never taka a second look at me were now checking me and making eyes with me.
Unfortuntaly I had to hard ignore those ones as I don't dip my pen in the company ink.