HELP my boyfriend only wears black t shirts and I hate it?

[Anonymous]

Hi guys, so i have a boyfriend for almost 1,5 years. I love him sooo much but I get so upset about how he is always dressed. I always take so much care of myself and the only thing he wears is a BLACK t shirt with black pants. At first of our relationship I didn't think much of it and wanted him te wear what he wants. But is begins to annoy me so much that he never wears something that I may like its always so boring en bland. Its really unatracrive and I tried to tell him this so many times but he just doesn't want to change. It makes me mad and not want to see him. What should I do, I feel so bad😭

[ImagineSketchy]

I mean... Sounds like you're just going to have to deal with it. It seems like a part of his identity. Getting someone to change who they are isn't normally a good thing if they are adamant with who they are and what they do. The only time it's good to try and change someone, is when it's for their own good. Him wearing those basic black shirts and pants is just something he does and he isn't hurting anyone.

So, again, you'll have to get used to it because it doesn't seem like he's going to change.

[VikingWarLord]

This is why I tell men not to get into relationships.

Women will start to expect more and more from them. Just fucck and move on after. The drama and petty bullshit of being in relationships with women is too much to bear.

[Asker]

Thanks for your opinion😂😭

[CarpetDenim]

Just surprise him with some new clothes

[Logorithim]

Buy him shirts you want him to wear

[Asker]

I try but he just does not like Anything😭😂

[andreasderjuengere]

Mine did that once. They are cleaning rags now.

[1CentWorth]

break up with him if a t-shirt has you acting crazy and blowing things up into proportions. it'll be better for him in the long run and he'll finally escape your creepiest quality - obsession to dress one's mate as if he was a doll.

[andreasderjuengere]

You may want a display dummy.
Dress it up the way you like, and create its character.
You may like what you see.
But that dummy will not talk with you, love you or make you smile.

[teamvic]

You can't change a person and their preferences

Ain't shit you can do. Can't force him to do it

[GuidoThePizzaMaker]

Sneak into his room and throw all his black shirts and pants in the garbage
Replace them with different colors, styles, etc

[winterfox10]

Honestly that sounds like a fair reason to end things with him.. He refuses to consider your wishes about something that's pretty basic.

[Shamalien]

hmmm... you sound pre superficial XD maybe you should try and find something else to worry about, something that matters perhaps?

[zagor]

Take him hiking in Phoenix in August at noon. He won't want to wear a black T.

[zaferluca]

I wear all black and what

[Fuentes]

You're controlling & immature he should dump you