Why do guys ignore me or have called me ugly?

[Sweetascandy1990]

I have really low self-esteem because of how guys have treated me.

[midnightmoon05]

Just any guys? I would think something is wrong with them since they don't know you. Then ignore them.
I was teased by some kid, I learned to understand why and ignored such comment since it really isn't about me but the kid.

I think its hard to live with other peoples opinion.
What do you believe about yourself is more important.
Build on a healthier self image from the inside and outside.

I had that challenge becasue of others opioinion, I started to wonder why they would say such thing when they don't even know me. It bothered me for awhile, so I am learning, other people for their own reasons project what they know on to you.

[Sweetascandy1990]

Thanks so much for the advice. That's really helpful and good wise perspective. I'll try my best to build my self-esteem inside out ❣️

[Sierraromeobravo]

Understand that your value and beauty should be based on your opinion of yourself. Guys can be mean and we are very often ignorant of how to speak to girls. I'm positive that whomever is calling you ugly is very wrong. Trust what you know and what you feel. You're beautiful and you know it.

[Sweetascandy1990]

Aww thanks so much ❤️😊 I will try my best to not value my opinion on what others say. Thanks so much for the advice

[CapnHawk]

Because they have low self-esteem issues.

[Sweetascandy1990]

I really appreciate you not assuming I'm ugly. I had to block already two. It made me really sad. I'm told by others that I'm pretty, but I've had people tell me I'm ugly. They were abusive. I'm already 29 years old and I've never had a guy treat me nicely. I regret dating abusive men. It really damaged and I've been really toxic

[Sweetascandy1990]

Damaged me*

[CapnHawk]

I never assume anything. Men can be cruel, but when you find the right man, life will be good.

[Sweetascandy1990]

Thanks so much 😊

[Anonymous]

If you define your worth by other peoples judgements of you you're always going to have this problem. I've been rejected by every woman i've ever asked out. I could take this personal ( and to an extent i do) but then i take stock of who i am as a person. And i tell myself these women rejected me without ever truly getting to know me. I can't think bad of myself because they can't see a good thing when it's right in front of them.

[Sweetascandy1990]

That's right. Thanks for sharing your experience and advice. I'm sorry women have been cruel to you💔 Wish you the best ❤️

[irishpete]

No girl is ugly and that's a fact... everyone's opinion of beauty differs... just as you could find someone attractive that your friend doesn't... so smile... you are beautiful

[Sweetascandy1990]

Aww thanks so much ❣️😊 I will try my best to smile. Thanks for the advice.

[andyaa]

I think you are beautiful..., and accept yourself as you are... please do things you you like them and don't care what they say... healthy life is you do what you love and never care what people think about you...

[Sweetascandy1990]

Aww thanks 😊❣️ I appreciate your advice.

[mellowman]

Guys who call you ugly are fools.