What type of guys like petite frames (in general)? And where should I look and what to take in regard to find people with this preference?Include a caption
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Thank you everyone for your opinions, even though few ansewered the second question. In my life i've only known and seen jokes about flat chests and being shamed for it both from guys and girls. And the few guys who happened to notice and talk to me made me feel the same. The internet and social media is all about Thicc and curvy when it comes to attractiveness. This poll is interesting, I think i'm just not lucky enough to have met or to eventually meet somebody who thinks i'm their type.
Guys, Could a chest this small (AA) be attractive to some?
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Absolutely a chest that small can be attractive to most! As your poll results indicate, it is, in fact, nothing to worry about.
It really is women who make a big deal about this, men don't really care. Personally, of 3 significant relationships--meaning years-long, committed relationships:
One had large boobs (I want to say 'D' but can't remember for sure, it was a long time ago)
The second one had smallish boobs, but she was a smallish girl, I wanna say 'B', but again, since this sort of thing doesn't matter to me, and I wasn't sent bra-shopping I'm not positive.
The third, most recent girlfriend, and most significant relationship, my girlfriend was an 'A'. She was also small-framed similar to the pictures you've posted. She was always quite unhappy and insecure about the size of her breasts. We broke up a long time ago now.
I'm looking back on that third girlfriend who's the A-cup, from totally objective "hindsight is 20/20" eyes. I can tell you. I found her sexy as hell then. I found her boobs sexy as hell then. I enjoyed playing with them very much. Looking back, I can honestly say, she really had no reason to be insecure about the size of her breasts, it really really wasn't something I EVER wished were different. I just never thought about it that way. She was beautiful, and those were her breasts. That's all there was to it.
Now, when you ask where you should go to look for guys who might be into girls who are smaller-framed...
That's one of those "don't know whether to laugh or cry"--type things.
I'm not sure where you got it in your head that being small-framed was so unattractive, as to require that you seek out guys in some special, or different way from everybody else... but... well... you don't! ;)
Being smaller like that is by no means unattractive! My big-boob ex was as tall as me 6ft and 'regular framed' while like I said, my most recent one was similarly built to you.
You don't need to seek out guys who are 'specifically' into smaller-framed girls like you. You really really don't. You are appealing to guys in general, in a broad sense, if you have a small-frame and flat chest, just like if you had a regular frame and a large chest; or regular frame and a regular chest; a small-frame and a regular chest; etc, etc,
You're not going to fare any worse in "the general competition" for guys for having your body type.
Ironically, do you have any idea how many attractive girls would KILL to be able to switch body types with you? Literally millions. So many women (who aren't overweight at all) worry about the "am I too fat" thing.
Nobody, apparently, is satisfied with their body-type. You are no more insecure than those girls who make you feel insecure. They're looking at you, and your tiny, petiteness and you're making THEM feel insecure while at the same time; you're looking at them and YOU'RE feeling insecure. Crazyness :)
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Thank you for taking the time and elaborate this opinion. It reassured and probably opened my eyes to the fact that men really have divergent preferences and that a small chest might not be a curse after all. But who knows, I probably won't be sure until I meet somebody who likes me as I am.
I'm glad you're feeling reassured. And no, a small chest really isn't a curse. It's litterally only as big a deal as you make it.
And men do have divergent preferences. Both in terms of guys like all sorts of different types. But also in terms of the same guy will like different types.
The most important thing is that you realize that your type, is in no way whatsoever an undersirable type; when looking from the point of view of "guys in general"
And, don't worry, you will find someone who like you as you are. I can guarantee you, that you will never ever EVER be in a situation where I guy would like you... except for your mall chest. That will never ever happen to you. It will never prevent anything relationship-wise unless you allow it to... by getting in your head and making you less than your best-self when you're out in the world
. The best thing you can do, is to make sure your doubts don't keep you from getting out there and showing the world who you are, and not ever worrying that maybe you shouldn't go up to this or that guy because you're worried about something like this.
I will try to do that. The last guy i've met and dated made me feel less of a girl, he liked me at first but then totally not cause we met randomly. I realized he would post a pics of curvy girls so I realized I just wasn't his type no matter that I gave the best of me. It depressed me quite a lot afterwards and thought about withdrawing and going back to my boyish style. But later and now, I regained some of my confidence and try my best to forget that time with him. Thank you.
I am so glad to hear you're gaining some of your old self confidence back :)
Now, from what I understand, him deciding he didn't like you had nothing to do with your body right?
It was you who made the leap of him of concluding that he didn't like your body because he was posting curvy girls.
He did like you when you met randomly, as you were. If he liked your body when you met, I can assure you, he didn't over-time decide "actually, she doesn't have big enough boobs ( or enough curves or whatever)"
That just didn't happen. I don't know why you broke up. But It seems pretty clear to me that it was you who made the decision that it was really for this reason.
I bet this guy would be totally surprised, and really awful if he were ever to find out that he left you feeling less of a woman, and like the reason for you two not working out was related to your body, and he had left you doubting yourself for a long time.
I bet he would be just shocked to find that out. Because, that's just not what happened. It seems to me like you might've gone from "i wonder if he doesn't like my body" to "clearly he decided he doesn't like my body and that's why we broke up" to "nobody would be attracted to a body like mine" All without any input from him.
I hope you don't go back to your old boyish style. It sounds super cliche but it's true. Confidence is sexy. If you don't seem like you're so worried people won't find you attractive, they'll actually find you much more attractive :)
I just didn't give details to not bother you and not make this post about that. But here : We were never in a relationship, after dating for a long time he never asked me out and would confuse and never be clear about us. He didn't like me because of my body, I felt it through the way he would treat me and staring at other girls who walk by who were curvy. We would meet and walk our dogs together in the beach, and it was always him who asked to meet (I never put any pressure on him, and was always open to friendship) and one time we met and he was lying right next to me in the beach but he put his earphones and looked the opposite way the whole time (it still hurts me deeply thinking back to that time). He would always seem reluctant whenever we kissed goodbye and would never hug me. One day I invited him out to a day in the beach to meet my friends and have fun, he didn't want to swim with me and we took many pictures together one of which I realized sadly that he cropped me off and posted in his Fb account that he never added me on to begin with.. The ultimate thing that made me cut off any contact with him was that he stood me up on a meeting he asked for (watch a movie at his place) twice without cating to apologize and I felt like the dummiest girl on earth, and then one day him putting a pic with a curvy girl I didn't know in his Wp icon while daring to talk me naturally. I just never spoke to him again after that, and did my best to forget about him and restore my hope again. Too much details I wanted to avoid and forget. A girl feels it when a guy doesn"t like her, especially when he does little to hide it.
by the way I didn't hate him or blamed him after that, I just felt sorry for myself because I gave the best of me to that guy and we shared so many rough times together (sickness, death..) I just felt so empty after that, and kept wondering what else could I offer to any guy that would be enough.
I'm honestly really sorry to hear that this guy treated you so badly.
You really aren't dumb at all. You're smart enough to realize that you don't deserve to be treated that way, and you walked away. Believe it or not, There are far too many girls who aren't able to do that.
wait... before I go on... do you want to just PM me? I can do all this here, but... if we're gonna talk... it's up to you though, it would break your anonymity?
Anyway, a woman will boobs like that are fine and loved. Believe me.
So, let's talk about boobs...
Big boobs and small boobs all have their plusses and minuses.
For instance: 1. Big boobs are great for titty fucking and motor boating but are usually less sensitive and give the woman back problems which she will complain about. 2. Small boobs are not great for titty fucking or motor boating but are usually more sensitive (so nipple play is better) and the woman will never have back problems from her boobs.
As far as attractiveness is concerned, yeah, boobs can have an impact, but animal sexuality is much hotter.
So, let's talk about small boobs more...
"More than a handful is wasted." - Paul B.
This is Pat Benatar circa 1980. As you can see, she's not going to win a wet t-shirt contest. However, she is screamingly hot and this is because of her femininity and animalistic sexuality.
So, girls with small boobs can definitely rock it...
The hottest woman I know is an A-cup. Besides, for me, in my fantasies, A-cups are more than enough...
By the way, B-cups are the actual normal. So why is the average around C now? Women getting fat.
But I want you to think about something: If a man makes boobs a high priority, then he's not marriage material... Why? Women of all breast sizes get double mastectomies (like Angelina Jolie, Ann Jillian, and Christina Applegate). If a man can't appreciate a woman with small boobs, why should he appreciate a woman who has had a double mastectomy? "In sickness and in health" are more than just words. I told my wife (who has a nice rack and I like boobs too) that I'd still love her and stay with her even if "the girls left the party".
ANYWAY, don't worry about your breast size. Believe it or not, who you are is actually more important to us than how you look. When young, we may be obsessed with looks but we grow out of that fast as we get experience with women's personalities.
... dude wat? It's at least 50/50, big titties are desired. I mean most of us aren't ultra picky as long as the shape is good but who doesn't wanna be able to titfuck
@Shamalien Dude, that may be your preference but I have conducted at least three polls on this site and I have reviewed polls posted on other internet sites. Guys who prefer big boobs tend to be very vocal about their preference, and guys who prefer small boobs are not so vocal, so you might get an incorrect impression. However, the results are very consistent. In my last poll:
prefer small boobs 24% prefer medium boobs 23% prefer large boobs 34% no preference 15%
those results are exactly what I'd imagine the results would be like. According to that poll, most guys do not prefer small boobs, most prefer large boobs, as I would have guessed
@Shamalien Dude, can you read? Only 34% preferred big boobs, 47% preferred small or medium, and 15% had NO preference. How do you turn that into "most guys prefer big boobs?"
@Red_Arrow That statement was based on my previous polls, which had more guys favoring small boobs and fewer guys preferring big boobs. The most important statement is that guys who insist on having a girlfriend with big boobs are a minority - only 34% in the last poll.
I see that 24% prefer small boobs. you said most men prefer small boobs. This is not the case. Most men support big boobs. The medium boob people if given a choice between large and small, no medium, who knows what they would say, all we know is that the majority of men do not prefer small boobs, they prefer medium or bigger.
@Shamalien "You said most men prefer small boobs." No, I didn't say that and its not a matter of you remembering my comment incorrectly because it is recorded in black and white above. What I very clearly said was "The majority of men either prefer small boobs or have no preference." When someone deliberately misquotes me, it is the end of our discussion. Goodbye.
The problem with your methodology is you used whole body photos of people like Keira Knightley and Mila Kunis. Using people like that adds weight to people's decisions on attractiveness. It doesn't isolate for interest in boobs alone.
Also guys are almost always extremely ignorant on knowing boob sizes. They think a larger cup size means the boobs are bigger which is not necessarily the case. They think a 30 c is a 38c. That's not even close to being true.
Another problem is you only used three girls to show boob sizes yet two of your examples have the same small 32A size. Your third example basically have small boobs too. You showed no examples of girls with larger breasts.
Another problem is the second girl with the 32A breasts clearly has larger breasts than the first girl with a 32A so this means the internet is wrong about her size or she is using some type of bra to make them look a cup or two bigger which skews voters picking her by thinking she has a larger chest than 32A.
The question you linked was really bad data though.
If you want my opinion though I think men tend to like small boobs. The reason I think that is because men tend to like skinny women and skinny women usually have smaller boobs. I don't think guys really care if the boobs are small but they care if the girl is small so they tend to associate the two together. If a skinny girl has 34C or 34 D's, I doubt that would be an issue or even considered a downgrade by 2% of men.
@cavmanier I agree that there are many problems with my polling. This venue really doesn't lend itself to a more reliable format. Many of the other studies which have been done have other problems, such as no option to select "no preference." It is interesting that some of the "studies" suggest that men who prefer big boobs are in the lower income stratum.
This is one of those issues that is emotional for many and self-reporting is not always accurate. Unfortunately, Hollywood tends to perpetuate the stereotype that all guys want big boob babes and this makes some very attractive smaller women feel insecure for no real reason.
I see. I haven't watched TV in like six years so I'm pretty detached from mainstream TV and movie culture.
From what I've seen it seems like there's pressure on girls to be thick or bigger nowadays because I've heard and have known skinny girls that thought they should gain weight to be more attractive. It feels like I'm in the twilight zone when they say stuff like that.
I see what you're saying about girls with a small chest. Some guys do clearly care but to most guys I agree that boob size is not a big deal. I think most people like the overall healthy body look like Mila Kunis or if Mila Kunis had a chest two cup sizes bigger.
With the low income men liking a larger chest, I'd say that's due to the positive correlation between higher wealth and lower BMI. Lower BMI people generally like each other more at least statistically (from what I've noticed). So because lower-income men are bigger, they likely like bigger women with bigger chests. That's my guess.
For the asker, I used to think that girls wanted huge muscley men like Arnold Schwarzenegger. I mean I thought that was the ideal body type that they wanted but somehow, being a slim guy, I always got attractive women anyways lol. I didn't realize girls aren't into the huge muscle look until I was like 30 or older. Movies taught me about the muscle lie too.
A woman's body is made of more than just her chest. And every guy has his own turn-ons and turn-offs. If someone judges a person ONLY based on one body part, that's lame. Personally, I prefer somewhat bigger and perky boobs. It's the way I was born. Am I gonna throw that girl off my potential partner list? No. She could have the greatest love handles, legs, whatever out of all the girls I ever met. So yeah, some girls would be satisfied with a girl who has a small chest. No need for implants or get all depressed.
Attractive to me. >> What type of guys like petite frames (in general)?
I don't know. I didn't actually like them originally (not just small breasts but something that slim) until I spilled my drink by accident on a girl with a figure like the bottom pic turning around at a party. Then I apologized and ran to get some napkins and she took it so well that we talked the whole night and then after at a park and started dating.
And while I did not find her the most attractive on very first impression, I came to fall for her so much that I started liking women with bodies like hers (she ended up broadening my preferences), including such small breasts.
Aside from the very small breasts, she also had long limbs -- like a long neck, long arms, long legs. I started to find those types of proportions very attractive.
As for chest that small, they're still soft, a very different shape from a man's chest, etc. I find them plenty feminine and not the slightest bit "boyish".
Yeah, big boobs are so overrated. No im not just saying that to be nice. For me its part of the reason I find so many Asian women attractive (not all). I love the cute, petite figure they generally have.
Where to find men like that? Dating apps? I know match lets you make preferences on your profile so you can see what guys prefer.
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Of course! You're still a female. This is the best way I can think to put this... if we like you (genuinely care about you), we think the same as most women do about penises! It's not the size, but the PERSON it's attached to. We like/love you, we like/love ALL of you!
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Well lucky for you there have been studies and they have sound that while it varies by individual there is indeed a bit of a trend in terms of preferring overall slimmer vs overall curvier and thicker women.
So who likes skinnier women?
Richer men.
Yeah sucks for you I know but maybe you can learn to cope with it.
Sorry I didn’t answer your second question but I think there is no one place or even places you can go to meet people that would prefer flat chested women. Just know there are breast men and ass men. I don’t know the ratio is but know there are a lot of guys like me.
Yes I see, thank you. I sure am aware of this by the comments that I see coming from men. So a petite girl with a small chest and a small butt (generally the case) have no chance?
When I say I am an ass guy that doesn’t mean a big ass. I am not a fan of them either. A small curvy ass is ideal. A small girl needs to be in the right proportions. I happen to like short girls too. Regardless of your shape there are guys out there that would find you desirable.
Oh and the type of guy I am for the other part of the question? What do you mean, looks, or personality, or something else for the type of guy that prefers petite girls?
Maybe personality wise, like i'm sure there is a type of guys who think small chests are unfeminine and I usually know from the way they would look at me or treat me.
Yes we are not as ridiculously picky with small details like these like women are (especially with height). There's quite a bit of celebrities that are small chested that are widely considered attractive, ie. Emma Watson, Keira Knightly, Gal Gadot, etc.
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