I have it myself and I have male friends with it but both of them are people who needs lots of space and time to themselves. We don't even text much more than a few times a month but when we do it's like no time has passed and we talk for hours on end. They're great people, very caring and supportive, but it's hard to date anyone who needs to be alone that much. Both of my exes are neurotypical (not on the autism spectrum).
I'm not really like that. I like being alone but in a relationship I enjoy spending lots of time with my partner at least in the beginning, as time passes i'll start missing being alone so it would require my partner is okay with giving me space when I need it and not take it as an insult (so not a clingy person). However I get so emotionally invested in someone i'm in love with that my partner never has to worry about me getting bored of them or even caring about any other men and if I was to fall in love I am too honest not to let them know so I wouldn't lead them on or start cheating like others might.
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I found him kind of adorable and endearing because of how honest he seems to be. Yes, I understand that he could have been more restrained with his words but I think the lady was a bit over-reacting. I do not assume he was arrogant. I wanted to go be near him! Came off as a genuine sweetheart.
It's tough.. dating anyone with an illness is a sacrifice and to be fair I have my own mental struggles myself but I'd like someone of similar brain functioning to share my life with. It's ok to be friends with those that struggle but to spend your life with a person you really need to be able to sacrifice and be generous to have a marriage or date an SO with struggles of that nature
I have it myself, but I wouldn't date a woman with the condition. However, I hope to find a woman who would date me and ideally would understand me and my struggles. I'm beginning to lose hope of that happening, though.
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Why would you not date someone with Aspergers?
I probably wouldn't.. then again I probably wouldn't date anyone. I'm not asexual, but abstinent. I don't like physical intimacy it freaks me out, although I enjoy watching it. So I prefer porn over relationships. It's much less complicated and I can just get what I want easily. So yeah the though of having sex with someone is disgusting to me, but I like watching it so that's weird but whatever. I've kissed people and I hate it.
I have Aspergers. Most people with an autistic condition do seem to want to date someone, except perhaps those who are lower functioning. I'm very high functioning. People generally don't know I have it unless I tell them, and they'd probably be surprised to know I've never had a relationship or sex or anything. They think I'm just a regular cool dude 'cause I dress groovy and direct ambitious films n' all that shit but no yeah I just enjoy watching porn but have no interest in being with someone in real life.I feel like I need to date a girl with aspergers lol, that ultra logical perspective is easier for me to handle than the pure irrationality of most women, sorry ladies XD the best of you are on g@g but on the degenerate west coast of Canada, it's a wasteland
I have Asperger's. I would love to date a fellow Aspie who has the same special interests as I do. ("Special interests" are a characteristic of Asperger's in which we become obsessed with certain topics.)
No, not knowing it up front, nor would I seek to so alter my life to accommodate a psychotic schizophrenic transgendered vampire. Or a bipolar meth addict that was abused as a child. I dont bring shit, I dont want shit.
yeah i would i mean i have autism myself I don't know if it would work but if i like the person sure i would try!
I have aspergers, I seem normal on the internet but to those who actually see me irl don't like me that much, cause it's hard to talk even tho I want to and I have anxiety
Dont they lack empathy? I would find that to be the most challenging part.
Also communicating with them could prove difficult
Most likely no. But I wouldn't write someone off completely.What a God Damn bitch. She shouldn't be allow to be a judge.
There are varying degrees of it and some can be really smart, so yes possibly.
I depends on the individual.
You can't atribute negative traits to an entire population, that is stupid.No, female Aspies are rarer, so I'll leave to them to the male Aspies.
Fun fact: Kara, the judge who was being mean to Andrew, actually went to Andrew and apologized and dated for a while.
No. Asperger's makes people incredible self-centered and difficult to deal with.
Only if it’s AuroraRoseat.
This is exactly why I refuse to tell women I date that I'm an aspie.
Hell no! First, it's wrong. Second, I don't want retarded children.
I don't know this is a tough one for sure?
I’d date an aubergine yeah.
Yes, it's not an issue for me.
I can see myself doing that
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