Guys for all the girls looking for honest men, how do you spot a player and how do you find a decent guy?

[Jjpayne]

And girls if you have any advice from your own experience please share it

I know it's not a simple question but with a bunch of guys saying ideas we could have something to work with

[Anonymous]

Women generally are ill equipped for this. This is why i recommend to any woman that has this problem (which is basically all of them online lol) that they get a guy friend to casually bump in to them when they're out on a date with their guy prospect. Introduce them. Because typically a guy can deduce what another guys motives are from the get go from across the room that a woman can't see with a microscope. Don't get offended ladies you can probably do the same thing with other women that are out with guys.
Anyways, let your guy friend tell you what that fellas intentions are.

[Avicenna]

Well, there is no failsafe way. For example, a guy looking to have sex with you right away may simply be thirsty rather than a player. The best advice I can give is to take your time to get to know him.

[Avicenna]

Thanks for the MHO

[Jjpayne]

You are welcome!

[SydneySentinel]

My radar is fucked. You think you know and then you learn differently. I'm going to go old school and let my dad pick someone for me. My picker is broken.

[SydneySentinel]

Thanks for the MHO

[Jjpayne]

You are welcome :)

Thanks for your honesty

[joanofarcher]

Basically I assume every guy who is good looking, well dressed and who can talk smooth is a player. I'm usually right.

[CindyRuns]

It's pretty obvious, pretty quickly, call it female intuition !!!

[Jjpayne]

For those that can't spot it, do you have any signs?

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

How i spot a Woman whose a player , i gather on how much time she
spends with me and if she's distant than that's a big red flag and if
she spends more time talking to Male friends than me that that's
another red flag.

[Jjpayne]

I am using guys to help girls, basically how do you spot a male player

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yeah i see @Jjpayne that's a good idea.

[CandacePerry]

My past experience. Mixed signal and pretending Be into a person to get attention and being lier.

[michalsz]

Well a decent guy is someone who acts himself, spends time with you and is not pushy in a relationship. Thats all i can think off sorry :)

[Jjpayne]

every little bit helps

[Dav1ss]

I don't and end up hurting myself

[DevylasArsaukas76]

the player doesn't get hints, the decent guy does

[Ally247]

You can just tell