What's wrong with making out on a first date? (Page 2)
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Screams "I'm probably here just to physically feel you and don't really care about your feelings, getting to know you, or respecting limits and giving things between us some time to keep the best for last, I might know this and might not, but it's true, we"re having sex in the next couple of dates, right?"
There are too many things to list.
Iām just going to mash them all together and sum it up as trashy.
I thought it was a requirement. I prefer taking things slow, but it seems like if you don't meet up for the first date without the explicit intention to fuck, you might as well stay home, because she'll assume you're gay. Besides she's fucking four other guys that week! She doesn't need you
Lol you date weird chicks then
@Felinegirl fucking four other guys in a week is hyperbolic. But I think it's normal for a woman to be seeing at least another guy or two. Not that they like all three of them. They like one, and the other two are safety nets in case the one doesn't work out to hold them over until more relationship material comes along.
Of course they might not WANT to have sex on the first date. But they get insecure and angry with me if I don't at least bring it up. I think the thought-process is, "This isn't how men are supposed to act. He must not really be into me."
Interesting. Doesn't sound at all what my dating experience looks like. Then again, in my environment it's more common to hang out as friends for a long time before people get in a relationship. "First date" isn't really a thing then, as there are rarely any official dates. Then still, people first start hanging out more 1 on 1 platonically.
Hey, there are those of us that know it might be the one shot to grease the guy.
I didn't understand that
Make an impression, leave a mark, marking ones territory. Lay claim, put in a bid.
In "the hood" putting "grease" to a guy is giving him a little glide across your Sugar booger during the make out, lap dance style, a slow twerk is "greasing it".
Give him an idea the kind of heat a girl brings. Kapeesh?
Aha, the good ol' taking it slow to leave more of an impression! Got it. And i dont mean just relationship wise.
Shut up stupid.
All the intriguing things we could discuss, but you want to talk pee'. Your mother really shouldve just gave a blow job the night you were conceived.
Listen here you greasy weasily turd, dont interject your dumb shit into what was an adult conversation. Your hooker housewife of a momma should of taught you better but we get it, she was tricking in the stairwell behind the liquor store.
The slow lead up can be exciting to some and you've kind of just met the guy. Who knows what's in his seller. Lol. but really not much I guess to me anyway.
Nothing! Personally, I love kissing whomever I am dating! For me, that feeling is so awesome! Your partner returning the passion! Feeling those soft lips on mine. I like touching her cheek with the back of my fingers. Rubbing her face up and down slowly. Then kiss some more! Someday I'll get back in the dating scene.
Because for most people you need to have a connection and know the person before kissing.
Nothing if that's all you're going to do.
But if it leads to forplay and sex then Its a complete disaster and you lose all respect from all of your friends co workers and parents
Really? Never happened to me.
Some fixated assumptions certain kind of people still has it's bad for all kind of reasons.
When it comes to it it doesn't really matter, it's personality based if it's something that works or not.
escalates the relationship before anything meaningful happens.
Lol nothing, sometimes people just click really well!
If you click really well I'd say nothing. Of course you're taking a risk not knowing much about them.
If your a smart couple , and your enjoying the kissing and touching you will leave it as is.. not have sex and move on to the next date cause only thing heaving kiss will cause will be a morning after pill..😂
There is nothing wrong with that. Sex on the first date might be taking it too far, depending on how long you've known each other. But what is the harm in a little make out session? I think it would be a good sign that there is some chemestry.
I learned its best to take your time
Its so easy to give in to quickly and things get stale and boring
Making out is fine I guess, but I would prefer a woman who denies my advances and lets the tension build up
Hang on lol
If you want to take it sow why tease her
I was totally with you till the last part
Iām confused š š¤
@VIVANT Ugh, I don't know remember what I was getting at here
I am confused myself haha
I should have answered the question better...
1. Nothing is wrong with making out on the first date. If you dont mind escalating things quickly
2. I probably wouldn't make out with a girl on the first date, but we would definitely kiss...
nothing at all to be honest coz if you click with each other then why not... just give it a go lol
Kissing is fine. I wouldn't go any further than that on a first date.
cuz most the times people don't know stds an they usely just want hook ups or friends with benefits when most want a relationship
Nothing's wrong with that. Me and my man did it a few hours after we first met (the chemistry was too strong) and we're still together after one year.
Well I need to make some kind of connection with you before I can do that