Using tinder secretly?

[Anonymous]

So my partner And I like to fantasize about having another women with us and sometimes it's a joke to set the mood and others it's a full on plan, so question is, how bad would it be to make a tinder profile to "test the water" about who's out there, then next time it's brought up we can do it together and talk to someone who wants to?

Its cheating

Its bad but don't go any further

Updates

+1 y

Edit; I'd be doing it under the guise of a woman...

[AuroraRoseat]

You two agreed on it it seems. It's not cheating. If you haven't talked to her about the Tinder account, let her know and see how she feels. I think she'll be amenable to it.

[aa180]

Dude, unless you're a 10/10, it's barely even possible to get a match on that app, let alone to have a match actually talk to you. So don't waste your time on it.

[Asker]

Mate where I live you could look like a walnut and get a match lol... but I made an edit, I meant If I were to pose as a woman, not in a misleading way just to see under that category what is out there

[aa180]

Fair enough. Well then yeah, you could give it a go

[Loving_Husband]

Do it. It will spice up your relationship!

[Jmmmfi4]

Why would you just ask her first

[Asker]

Well we've flirted with the idea but never gone through, so if I know what's out there and someone she might like then I can push it further...

[RedRobin]

Its bad but don't go any further

[bilbo69]

Do it