Should we look for love or let love find us? (Page 2)
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I found my love many years ago
she's sexy
And she makes me feel good about myself
Let it find you, it won't lose you.
Love can't be described.
It has no shape, it has no form.
Love is not an object.
Love does not conform.
Love is everything the poem says and so much more. It's constantly putting those you love before yourself and anything else.
Throughout your life you'll forget many things,
but never the one who made your heart sing.
True love can never be put asunder.
Not even death's sting can steal love's thunder.
If you want something to happen in your life then don't be passive or it may never find you. Life isn't a fairytale and your wants and needs sit alongside the wants and needs of billions of other people. You have to fight for your share.
Well you shouldn't be too desperate and obsessively look for it but leading a hermit lifestyle expecting the love of your life to just show up is also not the best idea.
Let it find you. When you go looking for it.
You risk the chance of letting your mind find false love because you are trying to find it.
If it happens naturally and unexpected it's a better chance of it being real.
I appreciate that people (especially women) are willing to go out there and look for it, but I never believed it worked like that. To me, when you know, you know. Maybe I've just been rather narrow-minded when it comes to it, but I would never expect to find her on, like, Tinder or in the streets.
This the problem. We think love is an ephemeral entity like god. There is no fate. Which is actually better because that means we have more freedom. Go find love. But don’t try to find perfect love. That doesn’t exist. Just find a mate who who becomes your best friend and you’re attracted to.
We don't need to be on a journey to find love, love is and has always been in front of each and one of us. Most times we just ignores it. Love is not about what we exactly want or what makes us smile, it's much more. We just need to wake up that's all. You say I love you sweetheart, but tomorrow you're cheating on her/him.
A little of each. You need to do a little looking, so it can find you. But if you look too hard, it love will become elusive.
Be open minded. Accept people the way they are. First find love - If you find love, great. If not don't run behind finding the right one. Be the way you are. Let the situations unfold. Let love find you
People who sit on their arse, waiting for things to happen, can please themselves, as far as I'm concerned, provided that they then don't whinge about it.
Me, I made things happen, and personally, that's worked out for me.
It has to work both ways. I am looking for that "Special Girl" myself, but I know that doing nothing won't help me, but there is such a thing as "Right Place at the Right Time" which is what I believe is the best source of luck for love.
You must take a pro active approach and get out there and participate in life.
You can’t stay home all the time and expect love to knock on your door.
Let Love look for you.
I'm currently doing this, and although it hurts to wait, and watch all your friends and family make out with their SOs, I pray love will find me very soon.
I have to say, though... It's SUPER painful. All around me, friends, family, co-workers... even Managers are getting Married, engaged, and have Girlfriends left and right of me... and they're all YOUNGER than me! It hurts!
I don't believe in "fate" or "destiny". I believe in free will. That's not to say that love might come to some people without looking for it, by way of pure chance. That said, I don't know about you, but love is too important to me to leave up to chance.
I think you have to put a little effort on finding love, I would love to tell you that love will found you but I can't, I mean I'm still here waiting, haven't found me
I've never looked for it. When we look for it, we find what we want, but seldom what we need.
Add another option neither just give up. I've been single for 8 years roughly I've tried looking for it through lots of different ways and tried letting it come to me by just hanging out with friends and just having fun really.
Nothing it's always just nothing plenty of friends both male and female but no love not even a flirt.
So I agree with my self we won't ever find it and don't want it anyway that way we can do what ever we want.
Both. If you're not looking, you can't find, but if you're too obsessed with looking you'll stray from the actual goal. So look when you're supposed to and give it some rest when it's called for.
Love found me and I just let us always meet each other with smile, for the smile is the beginning of love.
Well that love has lasted 26 years together and we still in love as much as the 1st day we meet.