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Should we look for love or let love find us? (Page 2)

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  • nailu
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    I voted a and b. Look under every rock log stick twig leaf and it hits you over the head. That’s how you find love finds you

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  • MannMitAntworten
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    If everyone were to wait to be found no one will ever be discovered.

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  • SexyAshh
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    1.1K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    When you look for it you'll never find it

    When you stopping looking is when it happens

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    • ajooo
      ajooo
      +1 y

      Fact😀

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  • Midnight_Kiss
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    300 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Neither are a given unfortunately, it's all about time, place and being on the same chapter.

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  • Jltakk
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    +1 y
    797 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Too sum up everyone's opinion with a spin of my own, I'll just say, at this point in life, "who knows?"

    If it happens, it happens
    If it doesn't, it doesn't. I won't let my dating life shape my everyday outdoor life

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  • HoratioCaine
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    Xper 6 Age: 27
    +1 y

    little bit of both and you will be on your merry way

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  • jay92393
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    Xper 5 Age: 32
    +1 y

    I found it with my 2nd ex.
    Looked for it with my last ex.
    Same results: I'm still single and never good enough

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  • Hawk4225
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    Xper 4 Age: 27
    +1 y

    If o let love find me I would never have love. But I've also been searching and still come up empty so I'm not sure.

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  • RedThread
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    Nothing in life comes to those who sit in their asses and wait. If we want anything we have to work hard for it.

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  • DWornock
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    Yoda Age: 33
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    1.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Whether love or a pretty dress, if you want something, you should go seek it. It is not likely to come to you.

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  • Scarecrow13
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    Explorer Age: 39
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    I think it is a little of both but went with "look for love". If love finds you, what good does it do if you don't take initiative?

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  • Aiko_E_Lara
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    Master Age: 28
    +1 y
    1.7K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    I can wait then take actions. I don't want to rush love.

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  • TheAceholeSupreme666
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    Xper 7 Age: 48
    +1 y

    An 80s hair band song sums it up best...
    "Love will find a way... I know"!

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  • GloriaMc
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    Xper 6 Age: 30
    +1 y

    Ahy love love love but it's better if it happens unexpectedly lol 😂

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  • Gstacy1989
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    Xper 4 Age: 36
    +1 y

    Relationships happen naturally when two people really care about each other... nobody asks anybody to be their gf/bf it just naturally happens

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  • BHooper
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    Explorer Age: 25
    +1 y

    Good question i need answered. I don't go out of my way looking for love but when it comes my way it doesn't go well. Maybe I should go looking.

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  • Browser101
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    Xper 7 Age: 46
    +1 y

    You gotta put the effort into it in my opinion. Any girl who doesn’t wouldn’t have a chance getting love back from me

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  • Jerre
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    I think love will find us when the right person comes along.

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  • Fuentes
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    I think it finds the person but sometimes its never the right time

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  • Rudon00
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    Yoda Age: 40
    +1 y

    Let love finds us because its not looking for the right person but being the right person

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  • Beauty-Never-Dies
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    Xper 3 Age: 34
    +1 y

    We should try to find our love as early as possible... Life is short & Life is nothing without Real Love... try to find our Ideal as early as possible,,

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  • Lightning8
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    Xper 7 Age: 31
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    If you are a woman then love might find you. But if you're a man you gotta work for your living.

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  • Saudi-uk
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    Xper 3 Age: 35
    +1 y

    Both. You put yourself out there. Show your green light 🚦 Then Love can find you.

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  • Rangers
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    2.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Girls can let it come to them, but guys need to look or else nothing will happen.

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  • kwaza
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    Xper 4 Age: 42
    +1 y

    Looking for love makes more sense to me. If we sits pretty waiting for love to find us, we might wait till eternity.

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  • SeiferTurtlez
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    Xper 5 Age: 29
    +1 y

    Look for it until it finds you. Nobody knows when you have to stop looking but you will eventually know

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  • TheRealQuestion2
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    Xper 6 Age: 34
    +1 y

    I thought it found me, but it wasn't real. I tried to find it, but i failed.

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  • StephenCF
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    Yoda Age: 33
    +1 y

    If you have no other ambitions, look for love ❤️ If you have career goals, achieve them & likeminded love-interests will follow 💘

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  • utterlyconfusedXD
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    Xper 5 Age: 27
    +1 y

    Look for it. The only thing in life that finds you is death

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  • Daniel3035
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    Yoda Age: 30
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    798 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Well girls need to look for love guys need to let love find them.

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  • Surely
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    A little bit of both. But, it will find you when you least expect it.

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  • zagor
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    10.9K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Anais Nin was a space case who was fucking everyone in town.

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  • Iron_Man u
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    19.3K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    I'm not really sure about that it's hard to look for love

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  • Guardian45
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    Guru Age: 51
    +1 y

    I have tried to look for love under every rock, since forever!

    I give up.

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  • jss123
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    Xper 7 Age: 56
    +1 y
    347 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    I've found when I've looked for it love eluded me. It comes when you least expect it..

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  • dragoblack
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    Guru Age: 34
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    1.1K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Love won't find you unless you put yourself out there and look

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  • DWD1994
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    Xper 4 Age: 31
    +1 y

    Only women have to let love find them. Men are the ones that actively have to look for love.

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  • Anonymous
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    Well someone has to make the move and it gets tiring to always be the first to start flirting.

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  • corporateDrone
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    Xper 3 Age: 36 , mho 42%
    +1 y

    Why limit your potential mate pool? I would say stay open to proactive and passive opportunities.

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  • sassystardust
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    Xper 4 Age: 24
    +1 y

    if you let love find you, it’s by chance. if you look for it... i feel like you’re forcing it.

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  • IgnitableVirus
    IgnitableVirus Follow
    Xper 3 Age: 23
    +1 y

    If we all let it find us who would search?

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    • Apple1996
      Apple1996
      +1 y

      Seems like a lot of single people are searching for it

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  • WhistleForTheChoir
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    Xper 6 Age: 32
    +1 y

    For women, love will find you. For men, you have to work, but if you get rejected like twenty times in a row, you should probably give up.

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  • luvstoned4him
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    Master Age: 35 , mho 45%
    +1 y
    2.6K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    let it find you naturally..

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  • Anonymous
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    (30-35)
    +1 y

    Guys have to look for love, love finds women. So in my case i have to look

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  • JimCarrey72
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    Xper 4 Age: 35
    +1 y

    At this rate, I may be better off dying alone.

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    • Apple1996
      Apple1996
      +1 y

      No dont say that 😫

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  • Anonymous
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    +1 y

    The answer depends of course on whether you are a man or a woman. Men have to do the looking / pursuing, whereas women essentially let it come to them.

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  • Waffles731
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    Master Age: 31
    +1 y
    515 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Look for it, but no one will ever love me

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    • Apple1996
      Apple1996
      +1 y

      Awhh no your very loveable

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    • Waffles731
      Waffles731
      +1 y

      Thanks but I doubt it, I wish I wasn't alive

      Reply
    • Apple1996
      Apple1996
      +1 y

      😭😭😭

      Reply
  • coolbreeze
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    Master Age: 42 , mho 58%
    +1 y
    1.8K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Keep your options open.

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  • Account
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    InfluencerMaster Age: 34
    +1 y
    22.1K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    None

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  • pizzalovershouse
    pizzalovershouse Follow
    Master Age: 37
    +1 y
    1.9K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    let it comes when it's right

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  • BronzedAdonis
    BronzedAdonis Follow
    Master Age: 33
    +1 y
    1.6K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Lol the women in this thread have no idea what they’re talking about

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  • rgb008
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    Master Age: 31
    +1 y

    I’m always on the hunt

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  • HusamRocks
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    Xper 7 Age: 33
    +1 y

    No just wait until death finds you 😁

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  • Slim57
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    Master Age: 32
    +1 y
    4.5K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    If you're a man it'll never find you unless you look for it

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  • Karl1982
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    Xper 5 Age: 44
    +1 y

    If no one is looking, no one gets found.

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  • Anonymous
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    +1 y

    I would say it depends how ugly you are.
    If you're real ugly you could be waiting a while.

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  • ZeussLightningBolt
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    Master Age: 34
    +1 y

    Let it find you, it seems

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  • DanD33
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    Xper 2 Age: 30
    +1 y

    There's no such thing as love

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  • COMMODOREII
    COMMODOREII Follow
    Master Age: 46
    +1 y
    5.6K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    I make my own destiny. 😎

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  • Máiiréad
    Máiiréad Follow
    Guru Age: 31 , mho 51%
    +1 y

    Let it find you.

    3
    1 Reply
    • nailu
      nailu
      +1 y

      That’s easy to say when you’re a girl

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