I said yes because my wife loved to party when I first met her and she was a blast. I had to ask her to quit smoking weed though. All is well after many years and I live her but neither of us party anymore and life is great.
Likes to party as in goes clubbing every single weekend? Fck no Like to have a good time as in some music festival and once in a blue moon clubbing for a ladies night out or special ocassion i dont mind.
"Likes to party" and "parties a lot" are not really the same thing. I do enjoy parties but I don't have an inclination to party all the time. If you meant to talk about real party girls who party very often - I don't think many guys would date them, a lot of them would sleep with them though.
I prefer to live a life passionately and I live every day as if it's the last day of my life. There's always space for a change in my lifestyle so I won't mind to give company to her. But there's a rule in my life that is- I'll be open to changes but never give room to the people with mindset to change.
I don't care. My girlfriend goes to parties sometimes and quite a lot of shows and music festivals. I'm rather lazy and don't enjoy big crowds so I stay home. She goes with her close friends.
Depends. If she goes out every weekend, spending all her money, calling me at 2:30 am to pick her up or comes home a complete drunken mess, then no thanks. I'll pass. But if it's an occasional thing with her friends and I don't find her hung over the next morning with her head in the toilet, then that's perfectly fine.
When guys think of a girl that likes to party, we typically think of the former.
Why most guys said no? What is wrong with her liking to go out have fun and dancing? Guys are you worried she is going to cheat on you? Dudes if you got yourselves a good girl she won't. Pick a good one instead of a bad one that makes you worry.
Because Iāve lived that lifestyle and I can assure you, most girls who live that lifestyle are untrustworthy. They always need to be entertained, have really high standards, and usually cheat. Iāve witnessed the so called āgood girlsā in that group cheat on their boyfriends.
"Good girls" often will cheat given the right milieu, there are endless field reports of guys who have hooked up with girls who say "I have a boyfriend, I never usually do this lol" and then five minutes later are sucking a stranger's dick and calling him "daddy". Behaviour follows lifestyle.
@SomeGuyCalledTom if she cheated she was not a god girl. Nothing wrong with having high standards. I am not saying all of them are dating material. My exact point is find then one that is, if she likes to party fine.
My point though is that her being a party aninal can be an added risk factor that only the most naive guys would overlook completely. If you trust your girl in spite of that risk factor then more power to you. But with respect, let's not sit here and pretend 2+2=5 and that party lifestyle has no sway on women's sexual expression.
@SomeGuyCalledTom Maybe it does. Stereotypes exist for a reason right? Most party animals are not relationship material, both boys and girls. But I wouldn't rule out a girl right away just for that.
I am a professional musician and I live a fun and pretty exciting life so some of that is welcomed but there needs to be balance. I definitely like quiet nights alone!
no... drunk girls are not fun to me, and they do stupid things and get into trouble, then get sick the next day and are depressed (for the party drugs they take are depressants). so it's a no.
Yes. If there are particular things I'm not okay with, things you shouldn't do in a relationship, I'd let her know. I, however, will not tell her to stop being herself.
Probably not. Those girls are usually alcoholics, or they at least need alcohol in order to have fun. I want someone who is mature and has a grip on life and knows how to enjoy themselves without external substances.
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nope. not for me.
someone going through the partying/travel phase isn't good monogamous relationship material, and they shouldn't pretend that they are when they don't know where they'll end up in the morning, or what drugs they'll be taking lmao.
if they're going poly, or an open swinger relationship, that's a different story.
Lmao are you serious? I go to parties sometimes And I travel at least once a year. So that makes me non-relationship material? How stupid can you get mate?
Iām 30 so... no 😂i partied a lot in high school and College, thereās an age for it. But now, A bbq With friends or a bar and grill/restaurant is the extent of āgoing outā Iāll do now that wonāt annoy me.
I was the one that had the party house. It was my house, had big parties almost every weekend, repairs to the house, the tickets I got for being to loud, the booze, and a bunch of other stuff that cost money when you live the party life.
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