Should I tell my family I’m attracted to transgender women?

[Anonymous]

I became attracted to transgender women because I had a hard time with Cis women.

Not sure if I should tell my family or not.
I want kids someday, So i don’t plan on marrying a transgender woman.

I would date a transgender woman temporarily, I wouldn’t want it to be a big surprise to anybody.
Also I wouldn’t want a trans girlfriend to feel hidden.

• Extra info •

I don’t get along with majority of cis women
our thought processes are just very different,
they’re extremely hard for me to get along with. I’ve met a couple of cis women who’s personalities were perfect but generally
I just can’t.

Tell your family

Wait until you’re actually dating one

Keep that to yourself

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[Louwearsthongs]

Well if you're attracted to transgender women I believe that's fine I don't know how your family would take it. But like you said you don't want to keep her in the closet you're attracted to her you should be able to walk hand in hand wherever you go. And I wouldn't be concerned about dating her marrying her.

[johnwilliams69]

You don't have to tell them your attracted to a trans, just date them, then tell them

[Anonymous]

You can still adopt, or get a surrogate if you ever marry a trans woman. Don't let the judgement of others prevent you from finding love! I wouldn't tell your family unless you are dating a trans woman.

[bilbo69]

Depends. If Ur family are liberals then sure, conservative I'd wait a bit before telling them

[WalterRadio]

Just be straightforward and tell them you are gay.

[Asker]

Oh jesus

[WalterRadio]

Did I just out you?

[Leavesbound]

Wait until you are dating a trans woman first.

[SlothySlob]

In what sense transgender women?

[Creepazoid]

Just tell them you're gay

[Asker]

That’d be a lie

[Creepazoid]

No. It wouldn't

[Creepazoid]

You'd just be a gay guy who's never a "bottom bitch"

[Faerthurin]

A trans woman is a woman (therefore it's straight). Don't let others tell you otherwise.

[Creepazoid]

No trans woman is still a man.

[Faerthurin]

a trans woman is a woman. I know I won't change your mind, you won't change mine. Just let people live the lives they wanna live!

[Creepazoid]

Sounds good.

[Thatsamazing]

Why does it matter? It's your life man.

[COMMODOREII]

As if most or all women are cis. Right.