Honestly different things attract different women... If you're a man, you're gonna attract women who want a man. If you're a boytoy, you're gonna attract women who want that.
there's women who want a sensitive man, there's women who want a rich man. Every woman has different interests. I feel like there's no one thing to rule them all.
Unless we're talking about hookups, then looks/skill in bed would probably the top contender, but I'm assuming this question is about relationships. People want people that are like them.
@zagor how so? There aren't confident men who go after what they want who have leadership qualities and men who are followers and afraid to go for what they want and have low confidence? What does hs have to do with these characteristics?
@bamesjond0069 Of course there are. But there are all kinds of nuances in between, far too varied to be expressed by simplistic application of Greek letters used to describe the relationships of wolves.
@zagor personally i think most people easily fall into one category or the other. How many leaders have low confidence for example? I think the traits are very related and thus why its usually more alpha or beta and not as many people are exactly in the middle.
@bamesjond0069 i think as aggressive and timid. Some people are more timid ones some people more aggressive ones. Everyone stand on somewhere too much or little doesn't matter.
I chose somewhere in between.. I can't deal with either extremities.. I need a balance. However there's something attractive about a slightly aggressive guy who can stand up for himself and others 😍
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My dream man is a virgin, clingy, needy, cute, tall, innocent, very loyal, norwegian hottie haha. Look at him😍, he is so cute and blond hahs. Blond people are exotic to me and very beautiful
Not really but i am very jealous person and a clingy, needy and virgin man who is only touched by me meet my ideals 'cause they rather give non stop attention to you than looking at other women
As someone who is already sensitive and maybe a bit submissive, I would like a man who is also sensitive but more sure of himself/confident. So in between the alpha/beta. I like a man who can share his feelings and be sensitive to yours. I think this openness helps to maintain a longer lasting relationship.
There is no such thing as an alpha male that treats you like shit. That is literally the exact opposite of an alpha male. That's a beta male wannabe who wouldn't know what it means to be a man if it wore a name tag and slapped him in the face.
But to answer your question, I'm attracted to dominant men who are kind and caring. My man is like that and well... I can't say more out of respect for him but he's hot af to me because of it. I'll just say that.
A nice guy who doesn't have to pay for me or boss me around or be the next Mr. Grey but actually be respectful, loyal, honest and not rude to the waiter. (The 'waiter' being anyone he feels somewhat superior to). He doesn't have to have the best bod or own a nice ride but also not a college dropout who's very unhealthy and unhygienic. But that's just my preference, other girls'opinions vary
A guy who's bit of an alpha but treats me right cause if he treats me like shit I wouldn't think two seconds before telling him to fuck off and he could be sensitive but no too much (I don't really like guys who are super sensitive cause I'm not very sensitive myself) and I wouldn't want financial support because I want to be financially stable on my own and not be someone who only depends on their man to provide for them.
I think girls are attracted to guys who know their value, are confident in themselves and have put the time to build what they have in their lives, and are proud of what they do because they want to do it. But I think it helps the girls for the guy to be a little sensitive so that he doesn't run off doing his own thing and leaving her behind.
I've been only broke and now I am doing so-and-so. About to make my first biggest purchases :> I look forward to it with full anticipation.
So do you plan to go down from being well off? I don't. That's why I'm childfree and will probably never retire either 😀 I don't believe in pension. I believe what's mine is under *my* direct possession.
Cool! You're an entrepreneur or businessman? I'm looking forward earning banks myself. I'm currently stuck being a software tester with around above median salary of one. Employers love that bachelor degree more than their wives or children it seems. I'm getting that in summer 2020. 🤔
Wow that is a list. I have the looks thanks to photoshop, I have a big cock thanks to faking my cock extender wrapped in a condem, I truly am balling and successful though that one is TRUE, and I am a funny motherfucker. So I guess I am good.
Women are really attracted to a man, and in a man we mean, his mind, his actions, his own self... that's what they attracted to, not an alpha/beta nonsense shit (that's in bed)... and at the end, everyone has his/her type. The problem is we guys always judge girls because of our experiences, and girls judge guys on their experiences... so before judgement, understand!
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A guy who’s caring but not a pushover. A guy who can provide financially if he has to, but realizes I’m capable of providing for myself too. So yea something in between
Here is the thing : if you want to know what half of the human population wants, you are bound to have wildly different results therefore making generalization impossible, or at least absurd. So there is no answer in the end. Besides, each individual has their own desire which might not fit in any category.
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Honestly different things attract different women... If you're a man, you're gonna attract women who want a man. If you're a boytoy, you're gonna attract women who want that.
there's women who want a sensitive man, there's women who want a rich man. Every woman has different interests. I feel like there's no one thing to rule them all.
Unless we're talking about hookups, then looks/skill in bed would probably the top contender, but I'm assuming this question is about relationships. People want people that are like them.
Men who don't believe in that alpha beta nonsense are far more likely to get my attention.
Thanks for the comments.
So delusional?
@bamesjond0069 I think she means men who don't fall for social media BS.
I believe that shit :D
@Mamamialetmego That shit doesn't apply after HS.
@zagor how so? There aren't confident men who go after what they want who have leadership qualities and men who are followers and afraid to go for what they want and have low confidence? What does hs have to do with these characteristics?
@bamesjond0069 Of course there are. But there are all kinds of nuances in between, far too varied to be expressed by simplistic application of Greek letters used to describe the relationships of wolves.
@zagor personally i think most people easily fall into one category or the other. How many leaders have low confidence for example? I think the traits are very related and thus why its usually more alpha or beta and not as many people are exactly in the middle.
@bamesjond0069 i think as aggressive and timid. Some people are more timid ones some people more aggressive ones. Everyone stand on somewhere too much or little doesn't matter.
@bamesjond0069 But people are not the same in all aspects. Some who may be confident in, say, business, may be timid towards women. And vice versa.
I chose somewhere in between.. I can't deal with either extremities.. I need a balance.
However there's something attractive about a slightly aggressive guy who can stand up for himself and others 😍
My dream man is a virgin, clingy, needy, cute, tall, innocent, very loyal, norwegian hottie haha. Look at him😍, he is so cute and blond hahs. Blond people are exotic to me and very beautiful
Lol... omg
He looks like he'll be playing stick all in an alley way somewhere in Chicago.
*stickball...
Jaja just talking shi
He's more of Dawson's Creek type of fellow
by the way I don't think he's a virgin.. I'm sure he's taken it up the but plenty times... lol..(still just talking shi) lol
@4799175 You sound like you are in love with the guy.
Lol... I think I am.. he's so dreamy
Beautiful highlights too
And what!! You gotta prob with that
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he's BEAUTIFUL WHAT CAN I SAY!! LOL
@4799175 You are my hero!
I'm j. k. I'm just buzzing trying to have fun.. anyhow.. feel free to talk shi to me..:)
Hey what can I say I tell it like it is..
@4799175 You do you boo... it's all good! Have some fun man.
Serious though I. Don't think anyone is ugly. everone is beautiful.. not to say everyone is attractive. but never will I say you ugly.
Hahaga he is bisexual
Lol... who is?
Well hopefully for your sake you don't answer that I am.
The guy in the pics. His name is tarjei sandvik moe
Thank you.. I did not want to think that this community would take my appreciation for all humans to be a possible sign of me being bi...
I'm digging myself into a deeper hole.. I'm gonna shut up now.. lol
hahaha what a lier. Don't believe this shit guys
What lie? I am not into male hoes.
are you too religious?
Not really but i am very jealous person and a clingy, needy and virgin man who is only touched by me meet my ideals 'cause they rather give non stop attention to you than looking at other women
Virgins gnerally are insecure shy and weird guys and women most women don't like those. They want confident assertive dudes.
"Virgins gnerally are insecure shy and weird guys " awww i like shy cute guys.
I dont care what other women like
You are probably lesbian or bi. I'm pretty sure.
I prefere mainly men. I think i am more like bi curious?
As someone who is already sensitive and maybe a bit submissive, I would like a man who is also sensitive but more sure of himself/confident. So in between the alpha/beta. I like a man who can share his feelings and be sensitive to yours. I think this openness helps to maintain a longer lasting relationship.
There is no such thing as an alpha male that treats you like shit. That is literally the exact opposite of an alpha male. That's a beta male wannabe who wouldn't know what it means to be a man if it wore a name tag and slapped him in the face.
But to answer your question, I'm attracted to dominant men who are kind and caring. My man is like that and well... I can't say more out of respect for him but he's hot af to me because of it. I'll just say that.
Seems as if you know alittle more than others.
Why not a little bit of all? Something between alpha, beta, and sensitive.
Okay that would be under "other" ... got it!
A nice guy who doesn't have to pay for me or boss me around or be the next Mr. Grey but actually be respectful, loyal, honest and not rude to the waiter. (The 'waiter' being anyone he feels somewhat superior to). He doesn't have to have the best bod or own a nice ride but also not a college dropout who's very unhealthy and unhygienic. But that's just my preference, other girls'opinions vary
A guy who's bit of an alpha but treats me right cause if he treats me like shit I wouldn't think two seconds before telling him to fuck off and he could be sensitive but no too much (I don't really like guys who are super sensitive cause I'm not very sensitive myself) and I wouldn't want financial support because I want to be financially stable on my own and not be someone who only depends on their man to provide for them.
I think girls are attracted to guys who know their value, are confident in themselves and have put the time to build what they have in their lives, and are proud of what they do because they want to do it. But I think it helps the girls for the guy to be a little sensitive so that he doesn't run off doing his own thing and leaving her behind.
😳😫🙄😶🤷♀️
I like the way Ariana Grande put it...
Alternatively, those, who claim, that money won't make you happy are just terrible customers ;) ;) :)
I have been broke and I have been well off... I prefer the louder! I am with ya!
I've been only broke and now I am doing so-and-so. About to make my first biggest purchases :> I look forward to it with full anticipation.
So do you plan to go down from being well off? I don't. That's why I'm childfree and will probably never retire either 😀 I don't believe in pension. I believe what's mine is under *my* direct possession.
2020 I am about to launch some programs so looking for a 6 figure year at least if not 7 ... we will see.
Cool! You're an entrepreneur or businessman? I'm looking forward earning banks myself. I'm currently stuck being a software tester with around above median salary of one. Employers love that bachelor degree more than their wives or children it seems. I'm getting that in summer 2020. 🤔
Looks, height, big cock, success and personality.
Not every guy has all those things so we just do the best with the qualities we have.
Wow that is a list. I have the looks thanks to photoshop, I have a big cock thanks to faking my cock extender wrapped in a condem, I truly am balling and successful though that one is TRUE, and I am a funny motherfucker. So I guess I am good.
You've got it all. LoL!
You getting slammed by the female dislikes lol geeeeez
Yes, I think it's because they want to appear virtuous and never admit the shallow reality.
Unfortunately their actions tell the truth.
Yes I think when one downvotes they tend to feel deep inside that it's true!
Women are really attracted to a man, and in a man we mean, his mind, his actions, his own self... that's what they attracted to, not an alpha/beta nonsense shit (that's in bed)... and at the end, everyone has his/her type.
The problem is we guys always judge girls because of our experiences, and girls judge guys on their experiences... so before judgement, understand!
A guy who’s caring but not a pushover. A guy who can provide financially if he has to, but realizes I’m capable of providing for myself too. So yea something in between
Every woman is different with different tastes in men, so it's hard to put a blanket rule on what they'd want.
I really want someone I can rely on. :( if that makes him clingy, then so be it.
He said no bullshit.
Lol I’m telling the truth
I believe ya!
Charisma, confidence, the way you speak and use your voice, kindness
I voted Ryan Reynolds, but he's not on the choice list.
Seriously, strong but kind. Sense of humor. Pounce-able. Big spoon. Doesn't mind occasional bite marks
A girl I met at church meeting said that 100% of girls dream of marrying a rich man.
That is true... many women want a rich man for sure.
But I figure that men also want rich man
Here is the thing : if you want to know what half of the human population wants, you are bound to have wildly different results therefore making generalization impossible, or at least absurd. So there is no answer in the end. Besides, each individual has their own desire which might not fit in any category.