Do you think it's wrong for 27 year old guy to be going out with a 19 year old girl?

[Anonymous]

[nella965]

If the 27 year old is mentally developed and well established in life then the age gap would be an issue. At 27 , he would have a difficult time relating to a 19 yr old girl. And she would have a hard time understanding him due to her very limited life experience. He might talk about things that she cannot understand due to her limited real world life experience. There might be topics that he wants to talk about that she still hadn't learned about yet. At 19, you still know pretty much next to nothing. In other words, they would have very little in common. It is honestly quite odd that a man that age would be interested in a 19 yr old girl. Most developed, professional, well established guys won't date someone that young.

[Asker]

Well they got along pretty well and they got great chemistry. The only thing is he's afraid he'll be judge and he is stable and she seems pretty mature for her age. They seem pretty happy

[nella965]

Most 27 yr old guys would not get along well with a 19 yr old. But this is only if he is mature, developed and well established. It is rare that a successful 27 yr old would be interested in dating a kid. There are 27 yr olds who are way less mature and developed that would be willing to date a 19 yr old. I dated a 30 yr old when I was 20. He fell for me. Now, I realized we really had nothing in common. None of our conversations had any substance.

[nella965]

typo: There are 27 yr olds who are way less mature and not** very developed that would be willing to date a 19 yr old.

[Asker]

Lol well it happened in their case , what do you want me to do. Well I think age is in one's mind and ita only an issue if you make it an issue but they're afraid to be judge.

[nella965]

Like I said, not all 27 yr olds are the same. Most 27 yr olds wouldn't get along the best with a 17 yr old. You just don't care to understand why.

[nella965]

19 yr old, I meant.

[nella965]

And the only reason why anyone 27-35 would be interested in a 19 yr old is cuz of her body. They're just perverts. what would a man that age have anything in common with a kid?

[Asker]

I know not all 27 year olds are not the yeah I get what you're trying to say. Thank you for your opinion good night have a nice life😊

[CubsterShura]

My boyfriend's 26, I'm 18, we're only a few months away from being 27 and 19 (both of our birthdays in March), and we've been out together before. So i believe you guys are good.

Age gap can be an issue sometimes, and it's not for everyone. So be cautious. The reason why it's working for me is because I'm a little more old school than my peers and don't get along with guys my age to begin with, so I am natural more comfortable with a little older guys. Not everyone is like me, so yeah.

It's not like I'm thinking I'm so mature than everyone else that I like older guys only, lol nope. I'd even date a much younger guy if I think we click.

[slatyb]

Not necessarily. He should not be rushing her into marriage, and should not cause her to change her plans for college or whatever she was planning post high school. The key for an older person dating a younger person is to do no harm. Do not derail their lives with the excitement of the relationship. I've seen too many young women get involved with late-20's guys, get married, have children, only to realize that the guy was just an overgrown baby himself. Most 20-something guys want to date women closer to their age.

[Asker]

Lol they're thinking about getting married. He's just feels insecure cause he thinks he's a bit old for her and others are gonna judge him.

[Asker]

I meant they're not thinking about getting married

[slatyb]

What are her plans after high school? And who initiated it?

[Asker]

Well she wants a career and they just met 3 months ago

[serious]

The gap is more than 5 years but if both of them are very mature, have good understanding and their compatibility is around 90% or more then it should not be an issue at all.

[Ms_brownybrown]

Well i dnt think so, there is anything bad. As long as you are compatible and she is aware that there is an age gap so you might have other things to deal with like office stuffs. Generally people below 22 are not very mature

[Asker]

Well they're just insecure about the age gap but they get along pretty well

[Ms_brownybrown]

They dont need to worry at all its okay 👌

[Asker]

Yeah they're practically dating in private they're so worried about being judge and he does look a bit older than her

[SapphireFox]

It's legal, but they will be in very different places in their lives so it could get hard to manage the gap. Just be careful you aren't unintentionally manipulative because you're older.

[wmasters]

Nope. The natural aspect of it is fine. The social should be fine as well. Here's some better perspective. When she's 50, he'll be 58. Yea.. If the girls parents aren't picky about it, she gucci.

[green1supremacy]

No it is not wrong. You both need to understand that biological stages will be different for both of you and the relationship will be a job to maintain and make last.

[koolkal]

Yes because they're from different generations. But if she's very mature for a 19 year old then it may work out. As they both get older that 8 year age difference becomes less significant.

[Drumlin2001]

No. She's an adult capable of making her own choice. If she's happy, who am i to judge

[yeolsb]

They always say age is just a number.. if they are happy who should care?

[Anonymous]

No. It is fine. If both people are happy with it, then it does not matter what others think!

[Liam_Hayden]

Only if she's his sister or another close relative.

[nikoluushkaa]

Why would it be wrong?

[Asker]

Cause of the age gap

[Myonzon]

Uuuh, no but too much of a age gap

[Avicenna]

That's perfectly fine

[Nik1hil]

No... Legally acceptable so it's normal...

[Gedaria]

Ok , what is the problem...

[Asker]

Apparently the age gap and the fear they have of being judge

[Gedaria]

I think you are doing that to your self. I have always been attracted to younger women.. First wife 4 years younger. Second wife 16, girlfriend at the moment 17. Plus others as young.
So don't worry about others...

[Asker]

Not it's my bro but yeah that's his insecurity the age but they seem pretty happy

[FakeNIK]

Nothing is wrong if you both are happy..😉

[moonpie89]

Nope. Not a big age gap to my standards

[Jaycrowe]

No it's not

[Smegskull]

What has morality got to do with it?

[Anonymous]

Only an 8 year age difference. It is ok

[Just_someone23]

Nah not really

[pigoat]

Everything is fine

[Asker]

You think he feels like everyone is gonna judge for the age gap

[pigoat]

Oh yeah some people will judge but I'm he knew that going into this relationship

That's the way the cookie crumbles

[Billneidrich77]

No, age is only a number if she is legal.

[Countrywildmangirl]

Umm, nope

[Asker]

Why's that

[Countrywildmangirl]

Because it not
Don't worry about the age. u shouldn't.
U should just worry about the love between y'all 2 .

[Countrywildmangirl]

My boyfriend is 41 and I'm 22 .. U shouldn't worry about the age

If people worry about the age then tell them to fuck off because that is ur woman

[Asker]

Lol is not me !!! It's my bro but he just struggles cause he's afraid others will judge him for that, but honestly them seem pretty happy

[Countrywildmangirl]

Well if he is on here tell him to pm me ,. Because he shouldn't have to struggle or if u want u can pm me.. And he can just talk to me from ur profile or.. U can type... What he says

[Asker]

Lol nah he isn't here but he should make an account

[Countrywildmangirl]

Well yeah.. He should ,,

Do y'all live in Washington state?

[Asker]

Lol nope we live all the way in L. A where everyone comes for the women , weed and weather lol

[KristenKT]

No!!!

[Nitnit2585]

Nope

[CT_CD]

Not wrong

[Jaycrowe]

Nope