If a woman tells you she is on Tinder looking for a relationship, would you believe her?

[Avicenna]

Yes, she is obviously relationship material

No, are you crazy?

[Bandit74]

I wouldn't believe that is her sole intention. I would think she has probably exchanged nudes and/or had casual sex with guys from Tinder even if she claims she wants a relationship.

Like whenever girls say they aren't the type to have casual sex what they typically mean is just that they wouldn't hookup with YOU... but they have more than likely hooked up with other guys in the past.

[JSmuve]

I'd believe that she is on tinder and I'd believe that she's looking for a relationship. But I wouldn't seriously believe that she's using tinder *to* find a relationship. Most girls just put up their profile "to see what's out there" or to get more Instagram followers.

[Cynicaldreamer]

I don't believe it. No sane woman goes on tinder of all places looking for a relationship, lol. If she is, it's a last resort or desperation!

I suppose it is plausible, but... let's be honest, tinder is infamous as a "hook up" site/app. So I probably wouldn't take her very seriously unless I knew what type of person she was.

[emmily2396]

Tinder is marketed as a dating site, if people use it for something else that is different. And just because someone is on a dating website it doesn't mean they are desperate. They may have trouble meeting new people in their daily life, or they can be there just out of curiosity.

[Cynicaldreamer]

@emmily2396 that's why I added it depends on what type of person she was and I know her.
Trust me, I know it's considered a dating site, though it's not an ideal one for finding serious, long term relationships. Is it possible? Of course.

But not ideal.
However, if it was a person that had tried other dating sites and had no luck, and decided to try tinder as a last resort? Yeah, I could see that as a plausible reason.

[naijagurl]

I wouldn’t believe her entirely because Tinder isn’t exactly where people go in search of relationships but it does happen now and then.

[cicchis0]

Yes, most women are looking for relationships. They are more likely to lie about only wanting something casual in order to try to "trick" you into a relationship/falling in love.

[Avicenna]

LMAO...

[Justlooking15]

MO, From what I have heard and seen it's just a quick meeting place for a quickie or short term benefit until the right one comes along, nothing solid. Tinder and all of the other social meeting groups is like fast food in my opinion. You want a real meal make it at home. Relationships still need to be found the old fashioned way but really at the young age otherwise people become set in their own ways and very opinionated.

[GayLoner]

can't really comment on this because I've never had any matches on tinder. I do live in a 100k populated city but youd still think a few matches maybe.. lol.

From my limited view id say women use tinder for free meals and the occassional hookup during winter and summer seasons only if the male is attractive and or she is on vacation

[Physics-Man]

The majority of women I've met on Tinder were in it for a serious relationship, despite Tinder being widely marketed as a hook-up site.

[Avicenna]

Not the ones in their 40s and 50s

[cavmanier]

I would probably believe her as naive as she may seem. I would give her the benefit of the doubt I think until I knew more about her.

[akihon]

Yes I'd believe her, now would she be relationship worthy then, definitely not and certainly not for more than a few hours of company.

[PondyPand]

Neither.
Her saying she wants a relationship doesn't make her relationship material for you.
Also doesn't make her crazy.

[Shiver]

My cousin is getting married to a guy she met on Tinder. It's very unlikely, but not unheard of.

[slatyb]

Yes until I learn otherwise. Life is much simpler if you generally believe people.

[CallMeGarth]

I would believe her, but she’s probably wasting her time. Apps like Bumble and Hinge are better for long term relationships.

[ThatGuy133]

I'd keep it moving. Tinder isn't the best place to find relationship worthy people.

[Janncis]

Well it would be welcomed change of pace, no games, just seeing if your interested in each other.

[October808]

Better to use Zoosk or Match

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

She may be relationship material

[pizzalovershouse]

No way usely a lot of fakes

[serious]

I don't even know what Tinder is?

[Avicenna]

Are you, um, serious?

[tallandsweet]

Well, he is 😂😂

[serious]

@Avicenna

Yes I am always serious.

[serious]

@tallandsweet

Yes. Right.

[InfobotsMom]

Yes, a relationship... 👉👌

[lookin64]

Anything is possible