The guy I’m seeing told me that he’s kinda seeing someone now, what does it really mean and what should I response?

[mel200325]

We went on four dates and been texted on and off over the holidays. He always texted me back pretty quick and there’s no huge sign of him being distance. but since we were all busy on holidays so we didn’t meet over the December. Also, we haven’t slept tgt yet (he showed me interests, we made out all night but I kinda refused him to have sex cuz I fall sleep) but after that he still asked me out but I was too busy with company holiday party and traveling so I said maybe we can hang when we came back from new year. He said okay! And I texted him again this time saying hey how’s life... he told me that “he’s kinda seeing someone now” which I wasn’t that surprised since we haven’t say anything and even have sex... but does that mean he doesn’t have any interest hanging out with me anymore? How should I response if I am still interested? The reason we didn’t have sex because I just got off relationship and wasn’t ready but I didn’t tell him any of that so maybe he thought I’m not interested too?

[OlderAndWiser]

You should ask him if he is dating her exclusively. If the answer is 'yes,' then that is the end of that inquiry. If the answer is 'no,' the just ask him if he is still interested in getting together with you.

[wetsock]

I guess he thinks wtvr you guys have is not official yet ( its not because of the sex) better have a talk with him before any of you gets hurt

[mel200325]

I know it’s only four dates so I’m not like surprised and I’m also seeing other people but nothing serious... but if a guy mentioned it like this, does that mean he’s going for sth serious and no long interested in me?

[wetsock]

I guess you just to ask him to hang out and see for yourself. Because through texts and phone calls you won't be able to understand what he really means. And from my perspective if je says “ he kinda seeing someone else “ and he sounds serious , i am sorry to tell you that he is no longer interested. Speculation is not an exact science, so you better ask him :) you can do it