When dating, how long do you wait until you start having sex?

[mimi051998]

After how many dates? Light or no light?

[one1wild00]

Depends on if it is a gal that the connection is hopefully for long term or if it is for a mutual agreement sexual itch solution. Former would be a month or so, latter would be on the first date. this doesn't mean the latter option could morph into the former. but that is just me. And Light please, I prefer watching the gal and seeing her loveliness.

[Anonymous]

Probably after 3 dates but what mainly manners is how are communication is with each other and how comfortable we are. And I would have the lights once sex is engaged that way I can really see and admire every inch of her body and especially her face to kiss so much

[DizzyDesii]

Regardless of how many dates we’ve gone on, i need to have dated them 6-9 months before having sex because I need to be in love and in a long term relationship

[mimi051998]

That's a good idea. That's what I was planning on when I start dating again.

[DizzyDesii]

Thanks for mho

[TacosRAwesome]

Around a month and lights on for safely.

[Substantialman]

If you are enjoying your date and you're both cool at waiting that's amazing. Everyone is different there is no rule book as to when you should take things further. What is not right is if one person is coming on too strong and the other is not ready. I say hold back as long as you both can wait then it's gonna be amazing.

[notshyguy1985]

Hold out for as long as possible and enjoy the teasing and tempting and it depends not lights out though ever

[GrimReaperDX]

No light. Depends on the person. I wait about a week honestly. AS A SCORPIO IM VERY LUSTFUL AND ATTRACTIVE. No but seriously a week

[COMMODOREII]

Usually light. It depends on how we feel. There is not set time.

[JermalTheBlackDog]

I don't wait. I want that deeper connection with her and I like it under the moonlight

[Agem123]

There's no rule book. Me and my recent ex had sex after our first date.

[WhiteShoulder]

Varies. I prefer dim lighting.

[MajorZero]

4 dates probably. Depends on the chemistry

[lrighleigh]

Dim and make sure he or she isn't using u