Girls, generally how long do you wait until you feel you are ready to have sex with a guy you are dating?

[Still-alive]

im usually ready after the first date

usually within a couple dates

After a few dates but generally before a serious relationship develops

I usually wait until we are an official couple until i finally am ready for sex

After some time passes while in the long term relationship (like one to six months in the relationship perhaps?)

I'm waiting until marriage

Some other time not mentioned

[Ninania]

None of the above. I'm not ready after x amount of time, I'm ready when I trust him and feel genuinely safe and appreciated. It can be on the first date (usually after getting to know each other through messaging), or it can be never, if his behaviour makes me uncomfortable.

[Still-alive]

ok whats the longest you've waited before (thats not never i mean)?

[Ninania]

I think it was about five dates in. Started out as a blind date (through anonymous social media). We just spent time getting to know each other and having fun, no pressure whatsoever. I felt really safe with him, cause we were mostly building a good friendship first, though the mutual attraction was obvious from the first date.

[Still-alive]

Also have you ever left a guy because he waited to long to give you sex? and if not do you have a limited time for how long you're willing to wait?

[Ninania]

No. Everybody's ready in their own pace. I've had an entire relationship without sex (partner was asexual), and sex was never an issue.

[petitedollbabee]

Depends on how quickly we connect. I’ve waited months before. Though the soonest was with my current boyfriend. Our first date was like 6 hours haha, we instantly had chemistry, though talking online for about 5 weeks prior helped. And we slept together on our second date, which resulted in me staying the night.

[mandyfire98]

It all depends on the sexual chemistry between us. I've had sex on the first date before because the chemistry was that strong and the other person turned me on.

[Still-alive]

ok whats the longest you've waited before?

[mandyfire98]

4 dates.

[GOLDFISH_smile]

I usually wait until we're official/serious for sex. Just never feels safe otherwise. Like I don't know this person enough to commit to them publicly, how they gon expect me to commit w/ them in private?

[menina]

I've never date anyone. I guess I would have sex with him whenever I felt ready. As long as there was trust, love, respect and comfort. There would be no exact time for that.