How do/should I make a move?

[Guywithanxiety]

there's this girl, in my class, who I've been talking quite a lot with. We exchanged sc & have been talking quite a bit, sometimes almost the entire day with only a few minutes inbetween texts. We often have fun, she, rather often, insults me and makes fun of my clumsy & cluelessness (I don't know if the latter is related to my general ineptitude or something with her), in class she sometimes hits my leg cause i rock it and she finds that annoying, other times she snips my neck or fake punches me. This was the situation up until 4 days ago. Cut to the point: she has depression &, after a project which we need to pass this year got partially turned down (we still got some weeks) and now she's in a pretty shitty mood, at least from what i can gather cause she hasn't been to school for the following two days. The day before that i asked her if she wants to hangout, cause we have an extended weekend right now. She didn't say no but didn't give me a date or something further, that was now 5 days ago. After what i just described transpired i asked her how she was doing and that i would be there for her if she needed something, she thanked me - 3 days later - and we chatted for a bit, largely both ranting about how shitty school was. My question is: should i ask her again if she wants to hangout, maybe to get her mind off of school (she said she wouldn't start working on it for a few more days), or should i wait a bit longer/not ask her and wait for her response. I've gotten quite the varying opinions, from dropping her, over waiting, to asking her again I should also note that i am q u i t e socially awkward - i dont do well with underlying intentions, struggle with telling if someones serious and am generally just really afraid to make a mistake or misinterpreting something, like in this case.

[SueShe]

My reply is that you should not make a move if you don't want to be drawn into something that you not want to be involved with.

I mean, when you say that you talked practically the entire day with her, that means that she is using your time that you could have used to do something more productive.

She finds a number things that you do annoying and that leads me to believe that you don't really have a good chemistry with her.

Let her make the next move, even if it takes a few days. That will give you more time to breathe a little. It seems that you are not sure what your next move should be. Let her initiate the contact. You will make mistakes but that is not so tragic because she does seem to have a lot of problems to settle herself.

[bean2k21]

It's okay to reach out to her and ask if she wants to hangout, as you mentioned you want to support her during this difficult time. Just make sure to approach it in a gentle and considerate manner.

You could say something like "Hey, I just wanted to check in and see if you're feeling any better. If you're up for it, I'd love to grab a coffee or do something to take your mind off of things for a bit."

This shows that you care about her wellbeing and are offering a supportive and non-intrusive gesture. Ultimately, the decision is up to her, so wait for her response and respect it, no matter what it is.

Over time, as she begins to gain your trust, you can use her vulnerable and weakened state to your advantage. Bring a book on BDSM with you, and show her all the unique ways she can be tied up and flogged. Perk her interest in slavery, and who knows before too long, she'll be calling you 'Master' and begging you to make a move.

[Nikki1989]

Are you sure you want to do that?

[Iron_Man]

Yes, pursue her

[In_Trance]

Talk to her the way you'd want her to talk to you