Should I ask why he undadded me?

[Anonymous]

there's a guy I've known for a couple years who is friend with a mutual friend group of mine, but we never spoke much because he had a girlfriend at the time. They recently broke up and though a mutual friend he went out of his way to add me on social media, and started trying to talk to me. Of course its nothing serious, and he mainly wants to hang out/hook up which for this situation, I am okay with. We have been talking for a few weeks and have met up a few times, and didn't really do anything serious. He has been going out of his way to speak to me everyday up until recent. He messaged me one night and our plans fell through and he didn't respond for days and unadded me without saying anything. What weird is that I see him daily and he speaks to me so I didn't really notice, but even after he was still talking to me. Do you think I should ask what happened? my friends think it will seem like I care too much but I dont want things to be weird.

[Anonymous]

Personally, I would have to mention it. I'd need to ask outright why he unaded me. I'd put him on the spot to see what excuse he makes.

It's such a strange thing to do when you haven't fell out with each other , and things seem no different between you both.

If you are don't mention it, you'll persistently worry and wonder why. For your own peace of mind, you should ask him

[Asker]

Thank you for the response, I asked him and he claims it was an accident but Its kind of hard to accidentally do that, lol. What do you think?

[Opinion Owner]

You're welcome.

If it was a genuine "accident" he would add you back on. There isn't anything you can do really. When he said it was an "accident", I'd have said in a jokingly way "then add me back on" Other than that, all you can do is see what happens in time.

I really can't understand why anyone would unadd someone when there's no animosity. There seems to be no logical reason for it whatsoever

[eleutheromaniac]

You should definitely ask what happened. It won't seem as you care too much since you both still talk normally, just casually ask about it.

[letssee89]

I'd say it would be fair to ask about it, but don't expect a straight answer

[Avicenna]

Yeah, its a fair question.

[stuntbrain]

Good luck