I dont think for everything breaking up should be the 1st thing he's thinking about it honestly would make me feel like he's not happy nd really wanna leave
And i dont want to be someone thats not happy and wanna leave like just go in relationship you will have disagreements u gotta deal with things the mature way if it ain't that serious why u wanna leave
Yeah... seems like a red flag. Maybe I'd try to maintain a friendship, but proceed with caution for anything romantic. I'd definitely take a short break for now.
The sad part is that he’s probably a great guy but has a few commitment issues. If he wants to get back with you and you decide to give him another shot then I suggest couples coinciding.
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I really liked him and I figured he has commitment issues and dealing with his mom being murdered 2 years ago. I’m tired of being pushed away over everything he can’t just talk it out I feel like I’m the issue. I let him go and blocked him on everything including his number
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Most people don't break up multiples times, but many do.
Sounds mike agers is an issue here
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No it’s not I been in that situation before He doesn’t deserve you. You deserve so much more. Keep moving forward.
Stop doing this to ur self he doesn't deserve you, he's gonna treat you however you allow. Please move on for your own good?
This is not a healthy relationship. I suggest moving on.
I dont think for everything breaking up should be the 1st thing he's thinking about it honestly would make me feel like he's not happy nd really wanna leave
And i dont want to be someone thats not happy and wanna leave like just go in relationship you will have disagreements u gotta deal with things the mature way if it ain't that serious why u wanna leave
Yeah... seems like a red flag. Maybe I'd try to maintain a friendship, but proceed with caution for anything romantic. I'd definitely take a short break for now.
He doesn’t sound like a good match for you, block and move on
No. It's constant failure in the relationship.
If you can't make it work together, how in hell will you make it work apart?
Only if both are fucked up. Mature people either fix the problem or break up.
It’s hard to fix a problem when the other person runs away pretty much
Both need to want to fix the problem.
Clearly
I’m not dumb anyways look at my updated I’m all set with the opinions it’s overwhelming and we’re over
I think it's best if you was to move on sounds like someone getting tired of someone
The sad part is that he’s probably a great guy but has a few commitment issues. If he wants to get back with you and you decide to give him another shot then I suggest couples coinciding.
I really liked him and I figured he has commitment issues and dealing with his mom being murdered 2 years ago. I’m tired of being pushed away over everything he can’t just talk it out I feel like I’m the issue. I let him go and blocked him on everything including his number
You’re not the issue and what you did was very strong and couragous!
Its normal as in its common but not normal as in its healthy... I'd break up with him permanently and block him. Whats childish is his behavior.
It's not natural, this is NOT a good relationship tbh. You should cut it off asap bc if he's doing this now just imagine if you two were married
Ok no it's not good it's toxic. Once it fine if they are genuine after that no.
That's not a good strategy for dealing with problems. Tell him next time he breaks up with you it's over. If you have problems, talk it out.
Not normal but it happens and sometimes it's a control game which is unfair and nasty
No, nope, nah, hell no. It's not normal nor healthy.
Nope, been there if someone keeps doing that then they aren't right for you.
Honestly if he breaks up with you multiple times that means he is still thinking about you so either he is clingy or he isn't really over you.
Yeap.. Exactly
Yeap
I would just block him and leave it alone
Wow... how are you... doing?
I'm ok
Okay then do you mind if we talk privately
Ya go for it
Okay then I guess we should talk then on WhatsApp...
I would move on. If he truly loves you, he wouldn't break up with you. In my eyes he's just playing games with your feelings.