I ONLY want to date younger girls like 10 years younger than myself - is this doable or are my restrictions on my dating life bad? (Page 2)
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As a 30-35-year-old, are you one of the stragglers with issues? Because that will impact your ability to date any woman. If you find younger women more physically attractive or positive that’s normal, but if you’re that fixated on them it seems like you’d dump them once they get “too old”. That’s what makes your age requirement so troubling.
If you meet me then it is not doable because I only date guys my age or younger.
All my friends are same, can’t understand why some girls like older men. I think it is better if they stick with girls their age.
If an older man asks me out, I will vomit.
because older than means they have mature mind and have experience for that may b
I don’t care about experience. What’s the better than learning together?
Ya but... In that situation every girl want experience person on that.
@kumarvarma
No we like to grow WITH our partners. Not get a second father.
Ya... But present max of girls and boys have experienced in that.. some of persons only don't have experience
It's more than likely - if one wanted to ignore your silly little generalizations - that 18-25 year olds are just mature enough for you not to be called out as a pervert but not mature enough to realize you're a little bit pathetic.
This is actually a pattern I notice with young, naïve girls, usually in their late teens, dating much older men. I've seen it time and time again.
I actually know of a 25-year-old guy in my town who is dating a barely 18-year-old (and got with her while she was still 17), and he's an extremely emotionally immature bullshitter who talks a big talk. Women his age do not fall for his bullshit, but teenagers are so impressionable that they do. He also cannot relate to other adults and only hangs around teenagers. He's constantly bragging on himself and acting like he's better and smarter than everyone else, and while other adults realize he is all talk and see his stupid actions (i. e. losing or quitting multiple entry level jobs to sit at home and play video games for months, still hanging out with high schoolers, getting himself in financial messes, extremely rude to others for no reason, etc.), teenagers just take his word for it that he's great. Therefore, he chases teens because 1) he's extremely emotionally immature and cannot relate to adults his own age, and 2) these girls don't have enough life experience to realize he's really a pathetic loser who is just all talk. I think young girls also get a kick out of an older guy liking them because they're under the false impression that it must mean they're really mature for their age, when really it's just that the guy is extremely immature.
"My theory is that the best girls get snapped up between 18 and 25" uhh... it's not a "theory," it's the truth most of the time. But you may have a difficult time actually getting what you want, because, well... we all want that. We all want what you want. Which means there's not enough to go around.
If younger is your preference, it depends on your age as to whether or not you should seek girls and women ten years younger. If you are 40 it is acceptable. If you are 20, it is not acceptable.
Smart pretty girls should get married between the age of 18 to 25 because, after age 25, their market value starts dropping rapidly.
It shouldn't matter if most people think you're dating preference is bad. As long as it's legal, it's more a matter of what you prefer and if the person you meet is on board with it. Do what makes you happy, because in the end you're life choices are all on you.
Whether you will actually succeed in getting girls that age to notice you depends on your immediate environment. As you grow older, if you stick to your stated age specifications, you may have to be increasingly careful about their motives---and yours.
Im 33 and my ex was 18 and my current girlfriend is 23. Before that it was 21 and before that 19. Yeah do not date older girls, they basically suck in every single way in my opinion. No such thing as an older girl thats a catch. Date a few younger girls and you will never go back.
Lol I see lots of exes in your future. You age too 🤷♀️
@VIVANT so? Girls like older men. won't change a thing.
Most don’t. Most relationships don’t have a huge age gap
Point being people get older so if you have to constantly go young, you’ll end up alone. Which is ok if that is what you want... But nothing to boast about.
@VIVANT dont tell me my lived experience. Being 33 its way easier to get an 18 year old girl than it is at 21. And i was pretty popular at younger ages too.
It doesn't matter, you have to find someone you are compatible with. If she is the same age, older, or younger, you will have the same issue.
I’m 21 and dated a guy who was 30. It was not fun. Dad jokes 24/7. Always giving me a lecture like he was my Dad. I always heard sex was great with an older guy, and my current boyfriend is 4 years older than me, but the sex was BAD. I really did like him but all the factors in consideration with the age gap just killed it for me.
Was he at least respectful?
A 30 year old is far from being old enough to be father of 21 year old.
It's depending upon u and ur boy friend.. at the sex time ur place of environment also important for moving long time... Try best place with no disturbance and then work on it both of u.. and also do that some Tim he will after some u have to do that ur flexible positions
@Vivaldi I never said he was old enough to be my father? But he was a father and I believed because he saw me as younger he believed it was best to treat me as a child rather than a grown woman which I found to be very annoying
@kumarvarma I am not dating this man anymore and am very happy I’m not
It is stupid.
21 is not a child and 30 is not old.
That's ur wish. i did with my girlfriend so many times.. enjoyed every time hours of time.. because plac is important and privacy also important
A 30 year old still isn’t too off especially considering teen parents were a thing and let’s not forget people parent still are in their 30’s so yes a 30 year old could easily resemble our parents or young aunts and uncles.
@Vivaldi never said I was a child and I never said he was old but 9 years is a huge age gap. Check yourself.
After 20, 9 years isn't too much.
After all, he is not 50 and you are 20.
and there’s a HUGE difference in a 50 year old and 20 year old wtf that’s literally my dads age. Gtfo stop trying to convince yourself creepy ass behavior is fine when it’s really not.
If I came home telling my dad A man his age wants me to be with him you bet your ass he’s gonna chase his ass down. Sickening af nobody with good parents would ever allow this disgusting shit to happen.
With me*
@noone89
What the fuck? She is acting like 9 year difference is like 30 year difference.
There is nothing absurd with 9 years.
I dated a 20 year old when I was 28 years old.
The relationship lasted for 1 year.
Take your bullshit away from me.
It is weird 😬 sorry there’s not justifications
@noone89
How is it weird?
When she was 40, I would be 48 if we got married.
We were planning to marry but we broke up after 1 year. All her family knew me. His dad didn't chase my as down like you said your father would, even we live in Turkey, not in Canada.
The maturity level between a 20 year old and a 28-30+ year old is not the same as a 40 year old grown af person and another 40+
they could start dating in their 30’s and that’s when I would say it’s not a big deal because there’s not an obvious difference and power dynamic that clearly would happen.
My dads protective of me he’d never just allow a grown ass sicko come trying to act like we’re the same and take advantage of me while I’m clearly still young.
@noone89
20 year old is no child. It is an adult age. Sorry
Sir you’re not tricking anyone 😳 just stop you can’t date college freshmen or fresh out of highschool people. Yes you are a weirdo who’s clearly disturbed.
@noone89
A 20 year old is an adult. And a 28 year old is an adult.
And the age difference is 8 so nobody is anybody's father or mother age.
2 aduts who had 8 years of age difference. Simple.
You’re trying to act like a 20 year old a new adult is the same as an adult with tons of experience already. No, you’re wrong it’s creepy af and I’d vomit in my mouth. Nobody in my family would approve of some thing like that unless they are two grown on the same level adults and that’s only 30+ period.
A 28 year old could easily take advantage of a 20 year old let’s not act like that’s not the case because it is one age is definitely extremely different than the other.
A 28 year old is literally 2 years away from being a whole 30 year old wtf 🤮 and a 23 year old and 30 year old is definitely wrong wrong wrong!
@noone89
How? Seriously?
You are no longer a teenager. Try to accept that fact.
If you are still a teenager at 20, you will be a teenager at your 30 as well. After 20, it is not the age that will get you more grown up.
20 is an adult age. Accept it or not.
Yuckkkkkkk im a 19 year old and my cousin is 20 and 💯 both of us are still new to fucking everything just stop you’re a grown ass adult trying to manipulate young adults into dating you. We’re not stupid we steer clear of grown ass people still because HELLO !!!
You’re just sick sorry
@noone89
It is not about being new to fucking.
You could be 30 and still a virgin if you are not married and religious. According to both Christinaity and Islam, sex before marriage is a big sin.
However, I am an agnostic myself. I and my girlfriend never had sex because she was waiting for marriage. She wouldn't do it without marriage. And I never dated any other girl in my life.
I am far from being experienced in relationship. Being 30 doesn't make me experienced or anything
New to fucking? Sikeee. You know good and well I’m talking about life. We are not grown like a 28 year old almost 30 year old. The fact that your main concern is fucking sex though is exactly why we stay away from grown ass adults you’re sick in the fucking head and are doing it for every single wrong reason. You chasing after younger people is sickening and no it’s not innocent.
You’re a disgusting piece of crap, this is the shit I’m talking about.
@noone89
What do I know good about?
I only had one girlfriend in my life and we never had sex. What do I know good?
Yeah I bet you have TONs and TONs of life experience you’re right 😬
@noone89
I didn't have any fucking life experience.
It doesn't happen with just age. Sorry.
Ahh you were the one who wanted to mention what you were new to and I am guilty now. Funny.
I dont have a life experience or anything. This doesn't happen with just age. Get this though your head.
Plus I can show you 2 people I know. One is 23 and other is 32. But both look the same age.
You won't even understand if the 30 year old is the younger looking. There are people in their early 20s but very little hair on their head and look a lot older.
And the 20 year old is still younger barely entering life.
Only a stupid girl would give you the time of day and if she is that stupid and bitchy for going out with someone like you then she deserves to be used and thrown to the gutter on her 26th birthday.
Or like, those girls just didn't find a decent guy. But I understand your point too, a lot of single guys over 30 are losers most the time too who have to take advantage of daddy issues lol
@CodyMckiver lol
@CodyMckiver somebody Is defensive lol
Tiajoka shut the fuck up you ugly bitch!
"Its a Great Idea - I wish I took that advice "
So you don't have a choice that works for me but that is the closest. My wife is 14 years younger than me. We started dating when she was 21. So it is doable. And the relationships can last.
Nothing wrong with that. Here's the thing... men your age tend to be attracted to younger women, and younger women tend to be attracted to older men, men your age, because they tend to be more mature and stable and have an established career and income. It's good for men your age, and bad for women your age.
You may be able to, but it seems like a strange restriction to me
Mhhh, not good or bad idea. It's what you are into. It only reduces a bit the chances to find a partner in comparison to those who don't have age restrictions.
I'm 37 but many say I look 22. I think you just haven't met women with good skin😉
You’d be surprised how many women in their mid 20s want an older man because his maturity level is far different (should be) from the men her own age.
to each there own. provided all parties involved are of legal age and consent to relationship / intimacy.
Do you have enough money for these 20 year old girls? That will directly determine your chances of success.