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I slept with just twenty men before my boyfriend. My darling has left me for such a simple thing. Why did he do this? (Page 2)
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Once you have had more then 5 maybe 10 max sexual partners. Your more or less marked as a player/slut. Goes both ways really.
I think when a woman has a high number of sexual partners than himself, it messes with his ego.
It is because...
What men prefer and what they can afford to have are two different things.
@MzAsh Nope, because it's not like we are going to die if we don't get what we want.
Of course not. Just learn to deal with it.
@MzAsh There is nothing to deal with. If a woman does not have the standards I'm looking for, I just move on. Just as I expect women to do the same with the men that don't meet there's.
Well that’s good then. It’s just that a lot of guys have a hard time doing that without turning into a miserable incel or mgtow.
@MzAsh Being miserable and hating is a waste of time. But maybe that's easy for me to say since I've not been divorced, or had any major issues. I see life as great, regardless of whether I get what I want, or not.
Damn well I hope more people learn to think like that.
Because some people value exclusivity and sharing the most special experiences with the person you love. Learning that someone just throws those experiences around just makes them feel devalued.
If you lie to him and he finds put the truth you risk losing him. Just be honest with people and find someone thats not so judgmental
A common "meme" is that one adjust a girl's "count" by multiplying by 4, and a blokes by dividing. If he assumed that, he might well have been overwhelmed.
I can add to that... I once read that a woman will not count encounters that she wishes she hadn't had and men will count the encounters they wish they had.
honestly some guys dont want to know the number. others are looking for a excuse. this was a excuse.
He probably can't handle twenty other men have been inside you and he feels like 21.
That's lying
I would only call you a whore if you slept with 20 men to some personal gain, whether it be money or status, or whatever.
Well did you actually have sex with them or just slept with them?
I guess I wouldn’t blame him. Unless if not then it’s okay...
Your past is a part of who u are. He doesn’t want who you are. Deal with it. Shudda thought twice before u rode the carousal
That's what you get for not closing your damn legs. You're such a slut. 😷
You are a bitch! How many guys have you done or are you too fat and ugly to get a guy?
Bitch, you're so dumb. I had 3 boyfriends and I only slept with one. I learn to keep my legs closed because some guys ain't shit.
You probably slept with lots of guys that's why you are talking shit.
That's kinda a high number. And im. betting onl uh a quarter of the were your s. o.
yeah he did well. You don't settle down with a whore.
The truth didn't work, resorting to a lie won't either. Ditch the relationship search and just keep sleeping around. Less hassle.
Because you are a whore. And of course a person can be judged by their past, in fact, its one of the most important factors
For real I could understand if it was 21 but only 20 come on now.
He's an insecure drama queen. He probably has a similar amount of encounters but is a hypocrite that you do. That, or he's jealous that you got more sex than he ever will. Either way it's his problem
At least now you know that this isn't the information you want to share with people. Better luck next time.
Some men allow their women be fucked by other men and still love them. Yet ur ex got angry because of ur past lol he wasn't worth it.
He should have been grateful you acquired that experience. At least I assumed it was good wholesome expanding of your envelope. ... no pun intended, . much...
"A person cannot be judged by his past."
You just were.
That's a lot. I usually sa ybtge number should no more than half your age
Depending on your age but 20 is quite a lot. I would do the same well depending on your age.
Jealousy and that fact that your basically used up by a ton of dudes
Some men can't handle it when a woman's sex count is higher than theirs.
all women's sex count is higher. honesty is almost nonexistent
How do you know for certain that's why he left you?
It largely comes down to their own insecurities.
It is a lot but if I was already with you and you actually told me the truth then I would not leave you but maybe recommend a STD test
Next time just say 5
I bet only half admitted how many guys they were with
Your right he ain't the one for you if he is judging your past I'm pretty sure he gets a past to
He is smart. He left you because you are a filthy whore.
Because he's an idiot.
You can't play moral janitor and act like you deserve something better than you deserve.
Cuz he is rating you a whore
I pray for that poor man!
I don't think thats just a simple thing.
He's based and redpilled.
So you're a dude right?
Guys don't want to date whores...
He deemed that too high. Some guys won't.
Gee, only 20? How fickle of him.
Can't handle a bad bitch. His loss babe!
Troll
Girls don't say where we've been
Plenty do.
@RudeBoy718 you think they do
I personally seen it
@RudeBoy718 okay
Frankly neither should bring it up. ... and LexyisSexy23 is right, “You think they do...” This is so very true. Which again, is why this should never be a subject. Either you like one another or you don’t. This isn’t a checklist and there aren’t score keepers.
@MannMitAntworten don't ask don't tell
Bingo, LexyisSexy23.
I'd dump your who're ass too...
Update: yes I meant it.
If you act like a whore then you're a whore.
Not hard to understand
Sounds like he wasn't happy with being 21
Nice troll is a nice troll
lol, such a trolling question. B+ for effort
No don't just anything your past is just the past
He left you for sleeping with 20 men? Shit!
Why, wasn't that enough?
@Daniela1982 the past is the past. Who knows how many women he slept with.
The point is, for both male and female, after you sleep with so many is it any surprise that someone who was used to a buffet is going to settle for one dish? When you screw everybody you want nobody.
@Daniela1982 there is a difference from lust to love. Just because you had a buffet doesn't mean you can never be satisfied in a one course meal.
Did you also sleep with women. are you bi?
What a troll.
Maybe just trust issues
Maybe he desires to wait until marriage for sex.
Cuz you lied you slept with at least 30-60
He's an idiot.
When you meet a new guy, don't lie, don't apologize, don't explain. If he asks, you could just say "I would rather not say". But you do not want to be with a guy who can't handle the truth.
What can you ask? Better for you.
And you even have the balls to ask this?
He a jerk
Just 20? Thats a lot of dicks lol
He is an asshole
You're a slut is why
Nah, she is just trolling - that is what anons do.