
Have you ever been in one sided love?


All of them ended up one-sided by the time we broke up, but I don't think I've been in any serious, really long-term ones where it was one-sided.
It always felt like we were falling for each other at the same time, like the fact that she was falling for me was making me fall for her, and the fact that I was falling for her was making her fall for me. We "reinforced" each other's feelings, and often to the point where it's like we were going to jinx each other almost simultaneously wanting to express when we started feeling really serious about each other.
I'm also the type where I kind of need a girl to fall for me and show her affections to me to fall for her, and also the girls I clicked with most seemed the same like they needed me to fall for them and show affections to them to fall for me. Given this sort of way of falling for each other, all my serious LTRs felt like we fell for each other peculiarly around the exact same time... no one ever far ahead of the other in terms of feelings.
LOL yes every girl I been with was one sided love , the shit a guy has to do to keep a girls interest is insane. but we do it cuz we want her by our side , so yes it’s always one sided lol why I am staying single until I find a girl that isn’t one sided , I guess I will be single for the rest of my life lol
More than I care to admit...
It usually goes like this:
Girl likes guy. Guy winds up: friendzoning, sisterzoning, rejecting, ghosting, or breaking said girl's heart.
Girl is now bitter and alone. It sure would be nice to find a guy that actually WANTS to be with me, but I think I'm asking too much, lol
@Cynicaldreamer Yup thats whats happening with me too lol
@DailyFairy Oh no! Sorry to hear you're in the same boat. One day we're going to find a guy that does want us!
I hope, lol
Yall'll find your stuff... Sorry to hear that even happens... Maybe they were just looking for a quick fix
Yes and he still loved his ex and talked shit about me to her. I gave birth to his child and he left me when our child was only 3 weeks old. It hurts because I'm reminded by him daily with our child.
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Yea and it absolutely sucks. Best thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to completely cut ties. BUT for that to work, you must also wash away (mentally) any emotions regarding that person. Your goal is to feel NOTHING about that person. Not sadness, nor desire, and definitely not love or vengeful-anger... just nothing. Picture a wave crashing on the beach and as it rolls out it takes whatever emotion you’re feeling with it, leaving just freshly wet sand behind... total calm and blissful satisfaction are your rewards for diligence application of the above. Good luck!!
how long does that take?
i cut ties with some girl like a month or 2 ago and still miss her :(
Yes, that is why i broke up with my last girlfriend , i felt all she wanted was do sexual stuff like foreplay all the time. If i didn't finger her , she threatened to do it to herself
Like she touched my penis and i couldn't get hard but as of now , i have no problem
getting myself off and it's really amazing , so i don't know why things was that way
Now this neighbor girl came down one day, she rubbed up and down my penis and
it felt amazing kind of wish she went further and i got turned on but she was no
girlfriend so don't know what to think?
Yeah, he was only sexually attracted to me, not romantically. Glad I realized what was going on before it was too late! It was hard for me to think that he was not as good of a person as I thought he was
I have one person I have a crush on except I made him angry because he thought I was into him and I explained to him that i was not. So yeah I have not found love yet
Not in truth. But on ocassion I have felt like it due to me being very comitted once in a relationship, and when my affections aren't matched it feels once sided, even though the relationship hasn't by any means been one of unrequited love.
Yes. For several years. I told her how I felt and everytime we would start to get close she would stop talking to me and then reappear with a boyfriend.
I think most people have. And the feeling of loss without actually having it, is very intense. Your heart breaks and your world chatters. But then, after the storm, the sun comes up again.
Yes. for like a year and a half. one day i was like i gotta stop this because its toxic and just making me a sad desperate-looking person.
I'll be "that guy" and say there is no such thing as a "one-sided" love, because love does not have to be mutual.
I have a crush on a guy that is taken, so I think that counts. He's leaving school in two months and I will never see him again. That will be the best way to forget about him. Wish me luck guys.
I have, and I did things to myself to try and suppress my feelings, the pain only caused me to resent her.
I guess it can't happen to me lol. To much focus on myself.
Yup and it was horrible, the ex got comfortable in the relationship and didn’t try anymore.
Yes. I feel in love with someone who did not feel the same way, and if she did or does, never let me know that.
I think it was my case :/. I remember I wanted us to do things to make us know each other better, and she always use to set walls.
I felt we were more friends than actual partners.
Yes I have, and it is not healthy. The best thing to do is remove yourself from the situation. It's happier to be alone land to be in a relationship that is one-sided
Yea and it was so sad... i wanted to kill myself :(
Yes. I pined for a romance with a woman so sweet you'd Think her an angel. And she was a lesbian. Eh. Life happens
Yes and I ended it because he couldn’t reciprocate back to me.
Yes. You should only be with someone who likes you back.
Why? Cause it's easier 🤣
@DiegoO Yeah.
Yep I didn't realize it at the time I had my love blinders on and she said yes to marriage then left me for someone else
Yes, once, I thought it was Love , but I was just her doormat and a meal ticket!
Yes once and seeing that person with someone else really hurts
Yesss... that's very painful trust me it hurts deep inside
One sided crushes have always been the story of my life. Sad!
Kinda, like experimenting stuff, just to see what happens
Not me, but a few girls have been with me. I know its kinda bad but couldn't help it...
Yes I thought and felt one way and found out the hard way she did not
Only once but when I realized she was using me, I left her high and dry without a notice.
Yes, you can be annoying as you want, just don't be a thief
I thought so, until I learned that love isn't real. I'm so glad to know this fact now. Emotions make things messy.
Yes, but I smartened up and cut them out of my life.
For sure. I fall for girls easier than a lot of people
I have only been in one sided love. Be it office colleague, neighbour or girl in a train
No, but I’ve had experienced an one-sided crush.
Yes, for a few months and then I ended it.
Yes, I have. Every time, it feels like.
Yes and it's a horrible feeling.
Yes, it still hurts even now.
No, but i was someone's one sided love interest
Nope I have many sided love. Lol
Story of my life. LOL!
That's my life in a nutshell lol.
At times I felt like that with my first wife...
All the damn time... I am right now..
All the time. i had many one sided crushes.
People always want what they can't have
Yes. Once upon a time...
Since I was born.
Yes I was in one sided love
Yes I was
Yeah :( I mean who hasn't
Sure. Who hasn't?
No I've never been in any kind of love.
Yes.
Unfortunately yes.
Yes plenty of times
Yupp
Yes.. i
Many times
Yes I'm sure i was.
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