All of them ended up one-sided by the time we broke up, but I don't think I've been in any serious, really long-term ones where it was one-sided.
It always felt like we were falling for each other at the same time, like the fact that she was falling for me was making me fall for her, and the fact that I was falling for her was making her fall for me. We "reinforced" each other's feelings, and often to the point where it's like we were going to jinx each other almost simultaneously wanting to express when we started feeling really serious about each other.
I'm also the type where I kind of need a girl to fall for me and show her affections to me to fall for her, and also the girls I clicked with most seemed the same like they needed me to fall for them and show affections to them to fall for me. Given this sort of way of falling for each other, all my serious LTRs felt like we fell for each other peculiarly around the exact same time... no one ever far ahead of the other in terms of feelings.
LOL yes every girl I been with was one sided love , the shit a guy has to do to keep a girls interest is insane. but we do it cuz we want her by our side , so yes it’s always one sided lol why I am staying single until I find a girl that isn’t one sided , I guess I will be single for the rest of my life lol
Yes and he still loved his ex and talked shit about me to her. I gave birth to his child and he left me when our child was only 3 weeks old. It hurts because I'm reminded by him daily with our child.
Yea and it absolutely sucks. Best thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to completely cut ties. BUT for that to work, you must also wash away (mentally) any emotions regarding that person. Your goal is to feel NOTHING about that person. Not sadness, nor desire, and definitely not love or vengeful-anger... just nothing. Picture a wave crashing on the beach and as it rolls out it takes whatever emotion you’re feeling with it, leaving just freshly wet sand behind... total calm and blissful satisfaction are your rewards for diligence application of the above. Good luck!!
Yes, that is why i broke up with my last girlfriend , i felt all she wanted was do sexual stuff like foreplay all the time. If i didn't finger her , she threatened to do it to herself Like she touched my penis and i couldn't get hard but as of now , i have no problem getting myself off and it's really amazing , so i don't know why things was that way Now this neighbor girl came down one day, she rubbed up and down my penis and it felt amazing kind of wish she went further and i got turned on but she was no girlfriend so don't know what to think?
Yeah, he was only sexually attracted to me, not romantically. Glad I realized what was going on before it was too late! It was hard for me to think that he was not as good of a person as I thought he was
I have one person I have a crush on except I made him angry because he thought I was into him and I explained to him that i was not. So yeah I have not found love yet
Not in truth. But on ocassion I have felt like it due to me being very comitted once in a relationship, and when my affections aren't matched it feels once sided, even though the relationship hasn't by any means been one of unrequited love.
Yes. For several years. I told her how I felt and everytime we would start to get close she would stop talking to me and then reappear with a boyfriend.
I think most people have. And the feeling of loss without actually having it, is very intense. Your heart breaks and your world chatters. But then, after the storm, the sun comes up again.
I have a crush on a guy that is taken, so I think that counts. He's leaving school in two months and I will never see him again. That will be the best way to forget about him. Wish me luck guys.
Yes I have, and it is not healthy. The best thing to do is remove yourself from the situation. It's happier to be alone land to be in a relationship that is one-sided
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