Have you ever been in a one sided relationship?

[Justneedtokno]

At this point, I think it’s just kind of normal for myself to get into these things or easier to stay

[TsundereMatrix]

I’ve been in two in middle school. I dated my friend’s brother for 2 weeks. I always invited him out to things but he never wanted to. I broke up with him because he just liked the idea of having a girlfriend and didn’t actually want to do anything with me. He asked me out again but I rejected him. I saw him a few years ago and there’s no bad blood between us. The other was with a guy I sort of liked. My friend set us up and agreed to date me. He wanted nothing to do with me. He took my kindness as being creepy towards him which was weird to me. Our relationship lasted 3 days. During those 3 days, if people asked if we were dating he would deny it because I was considered “uncool” in school. That was the end of that. To this day, he still treats me like I’m a creepy person even though I did nothing to him even though he’s married with children.

[ShellyB]

Yes and I have been on both sides, both are bad, I would rather be single. Luckily I am not in a relationship like that now.

[ShellyB]

Two or three years after the relationship where it was one sided in his favor, we had broken up and I was in a new way better relationship and I was getting past it it, when the Billie Eilish song Happier Than Ever came on, I think it was new or anyway I didn’t know the song, and I unexpectedly started crying and I played it like ten times in a row, mainly the second half. It is almost word for word what our relationship was like, I might have written it if I could write songs.

[Justneedtokno]

That is really great song and I am happy for you to prioritize yourself. I’m pretty sure it was very difficult to do so.

[Finchie40]

Yes a few times , that’s why they turned into my ex , I don’t stay with girls’ that only think of themselves that have no dignity or respect for anyone but themselves. I only date girls’ that give the same way they want to receive. If a girl starts treating me like I am a convenience, she will be my convenience as well , until I meet someone else. Love only grows when 2 people choose each other and make each other their top priority , if you no longer have that with your partner , kick them to the curb where they belong and move on. Life is to short to be strung around by someone that only thinks of themselves. Love is out there when you find the right person that chooses you the same way you choose them , don’t waste your time on someone that only thinks of themselves

[AviatorTom]

No, I did have a first date with a woman once thst obviously looked one-sided, and didn't have a second date. A relationship requires give and take by both partners.

[AI Opinion]

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[DishLady]

Yeah the last few years of my marriage.

[naartjie]

Yes. A few times. The one that really messed me up was for 2 years and he’d say all these super sweet things to me and do all these good things but then after 2 years, girl he fr told me “yeah just as friends though” … not even joking. I was so in love with this guy too. Ended in 2022 and he’s stalking me no after his relationship failed tho cause he knows he messed up and I’m a good person
All the guys who did similar things all do now so

[Billlewis]

I’m honestly only interested in a very one sided, one dimensional relationship, in which the sole purpose of the arrangement is to provide as much pleasure and satisfaction for the woman as possible.

[lightbulb27]

This happens and if grt doneone willing to work or they mesh well then is good. Else you aee pickimg wrong guys.

[exitseven]

I had a long distance relationship. She put very little effort into the relationship. I spent a whole month in the hospital and she could not even send me a crappy get well card.

[Miristheiss]

No.

I have gone out with girls that did not seem that interested. I just never asked them out again.

[Nikki1989]

Yes, but not for long. I am quick to drop people if I see red flags.

[seeyounexttuesday]

Yes, I’m married to Ana de armas. She doesn’t know it, yet.

[Joshydavid25]

It didn't start off that way, but it definitely quickly became that.. Unfortunately..

[Kelly6]

@Justneedtokno one side relationship? do you mean one way love?

[Justneedtokno]

Yes, often called the one sided relationship or just unrequited love meaning of person can pull all their heart into someone and not getting nothing back from it

[Kelly6]

@Justneedtokno
i guess not.

[Ironic_Method]

Yes, but that was also the arrangement at the time.

[nawtee_me]

How is it one sided for you?

[Justneedtokno]

I think when I take interest in someone, I become very clingy or loose focus of a lot of things tiny bit obsessive like wanting to feed them or wanting to do things with them wanting to include them and incorporate them in my life, but I often don’t think of what they want to do or how they wanna liveso it becomes very one side or very quickly

[nawtee_me]

The girl I am talking with now is on the other side of the world. I am 11 hours behind her. We video chat a few times a day. She video chats with me while she is eating or doing family stuff. I video chat with her while I am driving to work. She watches the drive and for me being a part of her life and her a part of mine is important.
I think what you do is a good thing depending on the guy. I hope you find the guy that appreciate that about you. I would….

[Anonymous]

Yes, and I got out of it as soon as I possibly could.

[MemeSupreme]

yeah it's how you know how to look out for em

[Dargil]

Aren't they all?

[Ms_Facesitter]

No :) I'll try to keep it that way

[Luopio27]

How do you define one sided relationship?

[LiamJHayden]

Yes, as the recipient.

[jahaims]

Nah, I'm not a moron

[Professor-college]

Yes when i was much younger

[eagle1951]

more one

[KittygosMeoWW]

Yes…..