Why do guys want to remain friends after dating?

Anonymous
So this has been a recurring theme in my dating life, whether I saw someone for 2-3 dates or up to 3 months, whenever it ends up not working out, the guy always wants to stay friends. The first couple of times this happened I figured they were just saying they wanted to be friends to be nice but didn't actually mean it (ofcourse). But then these guys actually kept in contact with me and genuinely want to meet up as friends, which I have done quite a bit and it seems there's a genuine friendship there.

I just don't get it.
Most people I date it just doesn't work out, also because I'm picky and refuse to settle but sometimes it does hurt, but it seems the friendzone is the zone for me with these guys?

Any guys (or girls) care to shed some light on why this keeps happening?
Why do guys want to remain friends after dating?
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