Why and how do people lose feelings in a relationship?

[mills__]

I have seen people breaking up due to one of the person in the relationship losing feelings for the other. I have never been in a relationship myself since I have always been afraid of such things. And I just want to what cause this to happen and if there is any way to revive the relationship if that ever happened.

[In_Trance]

This misconception is that feelings are lost; the reality is, they were never really there. You thought they were, you just didn't have enough information to know any better

[boggboss]

People grow and change with that comes the ability to change what u want out of life or a partner or the person no longer being what u wanted

[mills__]

Isn't that scary though? One day you just wake up and realize oh I don't love them anymore.

[boggboss]

I don't think it happens just like that more like over time it happens with some people not realising the change is happening but actions and behaviours would reflect that

[Desire-for-Greatness]

A lot of times it's because they're bored of each other.

Imagine someone being in a relationship and having sex with a partner in their early teenage years.

Then they get married in their 30s. Tell me what's left for marriage if they've don it all a decade before marriage?

What's the point of marriage if you're gonna have sex before marriage and live with the person for years before you get married?

Pre-marital relationships take away from marriage and diminish it to a mere temporary legal contract.

[Bella_94]

In my case there was a few problems before the break up, but it was a build up of them, I also moved house, and it was the realisation that we were just on different paths in life, we wanted different things; it was that that made me realise I didn't want to work on the relationship and I just lost feelings for him

[RLovesD7792Always]

what you're referring to is rekindling the relationship and rekindling the spark. and there's lots of ways to do it but the main crucial thing is to rebuild that trust that was lost over time and to be supportive and be there for one another and to remember why you fell in love with that person in the first place and remembering all the good memories you had with that person

[Iron_Man]

People are very wishy-washy especially younger people
They're very immature don't know what they've gotten themselves into

[R3DthatDude]

The infatuation time has expired and it’s no longer exciting to want them now that they have them

[Meatunnel69]

Its like death by a thousand cuts, not any one thing ruins a relationship.

[Smirnoff23]

People change through time there is a chance but both have to be willing to change for eachother

[Anonymous]

You slowly realise they arn’t into the same things you are in and out of the bedroom (hobbies, etc)

[loveslongnails]

They didn't "catch them" well enough, I guess.