What's the least attractive thing about you and are you doing anything to change it?

[Anonymous]

Physical or personality wise

[Anonymous]

My most unattractive physical trait in my eyes is the birth mark on my leg. It looks like a big purple bruise and is dented in, so it looks like I have a massive batch of cellulite. It's only in that one spot, about the size of my fist and I am super self conscious about it. My least attractive trait personality wise is probably how insecure I am. I need a lot of reassurance due to this. doesn't matter who you are or what you are to me, I think you secretly hate me and just dont want to hurt my feelings. I think it stems from daddy issues if I am being 100% honest.

[Cynicaldreamer]

I'm stubborn and don't let many people in my life.

... I see no problem with being that way, so I'm not changing one thing about myself, lol.

I don't trust others because people have a tendency to hurt and disappoint me the moment I let my guard down, or when they claim that they're "different from others." Meh.

[Paul09]

What about evolving yourself? Fu"k the rest?

[Stellargasm]

I have an underbite, I had breathing issues as a kid and had my tonsils out but continued breathing through my mouth which caused everything to come in wrong. I wore braces and head gear at night but it still didn’t work. I think the Only way to fix it now is to surgically break my jaw and shorten it. I absolutely hate the way it looks and wish there was an easier way to fix it. The surgery besides being pretty invasive is about $15,000 or more and is deemed cosmetic so Insurance won’t cover it.

[Yugen]

Insecurity was most likely way up on the list of things that make me less attractive than I could be and yes I'm trying to change it by focusing on the things I know I'm good for and trying to limit the ones I know aren't good for my physical health and mental health.

[jennifer_bloom]

My least attractive physical trait I think are my upper arms - and my least attractive moral quality or personal quality is that I get furious when my family disrespects me and have disowned most of my family for hating on me for not being rich

[TonyTheGuid0]

Are they white?

[jennifer_bloom]

@TonyTheGuid0 No they are Chinese - I have 8 professors in my family and I'm the only person in my family and extended family who makes less than $99,000 a year.

[ChefPapiChulo]

99k a year isn’t rich

[Paul09]

Wow, I'd be super happy if I could make 50k. im sorry, but fuck your family, all they care is about status, money and things, and don't give a dam about anyone else.

[aWes0MeNeSs]

My body is in just average condition/fitness at the moment and I'm working to get it in shape.

[KaylaJoy]

I think my least attractive physical quality is that I’m underweight and thus too skinny. The only way that I gain weight is when I work out a lot, so I’m planning to get back into working out so that I can gain some muscle weight.
I think my least attractive personality trait is that I compare myself too much to others and find myself lacking far too often- resulting in me being ultra competitive and worried about what others think of me.

[StephenCF]

Physically, I hate my cheeks and hairline but I dunno how I’ll ever fix those 😅 Personally, I’d say my conversational skills could be improved (I struggle to keep chatting after so long, maybe because I’m an introvert I’m used to being silent) 🤷🏻‍♂️

[311WasAnInsideJam]

Well, I'm already a 5 out of 10 tops, and my personality brings that shit down about another 3.

I'm sort of a cunt.

And I've learned to accept my flaws so I'm not doing anything about it

[Spiffy_and_Tails]

Physically, I guess it could be my sides are uneven. My right side has an hourglass curve, and my left side is straight.

Personality wise, I'm bad at intentionality. And yes I'm working to get better at that.

[Regmorus]

I don't care about small things - it has a lot of different applications. I am not doing anything to change it. Maybe it isn't time yet, maybe I won't do ever because I don't want to and am in general fine with me being that way.

[scotcheggs]

i’d say since last year April i’ve been having personality issues. i can't find myself. i keep changing how i act and being inconsistent which i’d say isn’t very attractive because i end up doing stupid things

[Clarity01]

physically: I'm short and skinny
personality wise: i'm shy

I'm trying to eat more meat (still can't seem to gain weight) and I'm trying to get closer to my acquaintances (working out pretty well)

[NatalieKeller95]

shortness isn't unattractive for us girls though

[NatalieKeller95]

I mean it's not a bad thing that we're short I'm only 5'1

[Anonymous]

I just love love love those pictures. She is gorgeous and yet self effecting and funny.
Me, I’m arrogant... but I have earned the right as I am much more successful in most areas of life that the majority of people, especially when taken in total, then I’m clearly superior. Lol, I mean it deep down.

[Opinion Owner]

Self-effacing

[jaybee281]

Yea for me we're talking personality wise.. Commitment issues arrogance and sometimes making promises i don't keep (i didn't say i can't because i could i just don't)

[Lanaaa_]

I'm shy when I meet with new people and I really don't like to be like that... It makes them think wrong things about me like "ohh what a quiet and shy girl" but that's not really me normally I'm so talkative

[Clarity01]

saame

[Lanaaa_]

@Clarity01 🙌

[Solstraale]

I somehow always annoy other people when they meet me for the first time. People rarly wants to get to know me and find me irrelevant and I dont know why. But Im trying to change and I think about why this is?

[serious]

I am happy with who I am and what I am and also with how I look. However, yes at some point I would want to have abs.

[Aislin9]

Feisty or spirited at times but it's unattractive to the people that I want to stay away, so there's that.

[JackieJaii]

My skin. I have eczema and stretch marks and I moisterize a lot to keep my skin nice and smooth. The stretch marks are here to stay so I've learned to live with em.

[desperatelyhungry]

Between my weight and my acne scars, I’m changing my weight but I don't know if I’ll ever be able to afford laser removal though

[Lilifhhhp]

Are you doing a specific diet? I wanna lose few pounds too

[lifelearner011]

I've come to terms to accept myself unconditionally of how I look. Yet I'd like to be back on track working out more. I look slim yet I'd like to build some muscle.

[FatChickFedUp]

Well, I'm obese. I'm making healthier choices and started my journey. :) I hope to be healthy and happy in no time.

[AD240pCharlie]

Physically, I'd say my legs.
Personality wise, maybe my complete recklessness and never really thinking before acting. I have gotten a lot better at that, though, but it still causes a lot of problems for me.

[abdel636]

I think it's my being unexpected sometimes. I spend long hours doing my daily activities on my own. I think it'd take a very special one to keep up with that and still love me. I haven't found that one yet.

[Hunter7754]

My least attractive thing about me is that I'm naturally more emotional so I do my best to be as stoic as possible and to push away any emotions as much as I can. Its difficult at times but I've gotten a lot better at it over the years.

[VanityFair748]

I feel you. Same here 😅

[Hunter7754]

@VanityFair748 its worse if you're a guy. Only acceptable emotion is anger

[VanityFair748]

Yea, people think that if you're man you're emotionless and if you show emotions then you are not man anymore. Then make fun of women who are showing their emotions and call them histerics. I think you shouldn't care about anything and embrace your feelings cause this is who you are and you can't change it.

[Hunter7754]

@VanityFair748 Id rather not to be honest. Most of the time when I tried to be vulnerable, a lot of girls would assume I'm gay or lose respect for me.

[VanityFair748]

woah, they were trash then.

[NatalieKeller95]

are you a ♋?

[Hunter7754]

@NatalieKeller95 no im leo

[NatalieKeller95]

Leo's got them powerful vocal cords, I'm fire sign also I'm Sagittarius

[newlysingleca]

My nose and my weight. My nose I will do nothing about and I am working out to make myself heathier and lost weight.

[ecfresh]

Keep going, you can get there and be healthy!

[JustRollTheDice]

I'm a really bad nail biter, trying to stop but it's really difficult (been doing it since I was little

[winterfox10]

I'm overweight and probably come across like a disagreeable know-it-all. I've gotten better about not asserting my opinions where no one asked for them, and I'm losing wieght.

[Mikeilito]

My nuts and yes I am!! What is wrong yiu ask. They are codependent they won’t stop clinging to my legs! Lol😭

[DeeDeeDeVour]

I've got belly/mid-section fat that I've been struggling to eliminate.

[ovie_obvs]

Self love. I have wayyyy too much of it. Bc there is nothing I love more than myself hehe

[nopedydoo]

my stomach. im trying to eat healthier and workout to flatten it

[hsshannah96]

I can’t change a lot of things about me that other people dislike

[SereChiba]

My undereyes. And personality wise, how hard it is for me to forgive/let go of things

[archiz]

Physically my toes
Can't do anthng about them
Personality, I have to say procrastinating
Mehh🤷🏿‍♀️

[Yads_Is_Back]

I have a temper and am very stubborn. And no not really lol

[humanearth]

Must have Irish blood in you, (just poking fun)

[AcidT0y]

I'm pretty mean and sarcastic a lot of the time. I'm not currently trying to do anything about it. Maybe I will eventually if it starts becoming a real problem.

[jaybee281]

Same here but i don't see them as a problem

[foxygirl4ever]

My hands at my age are old lady hands and my weight

[jayden888]

Physically:
My thin wrists (6" around)
Short height (5'7")

Personality:
I wish I was smarter (in programming)
I wish I was funnier

[Paul09]

People easily get under my skin, and stress me out. I'm trying hard to change that. I have lowish confidence, was trying to change that too, till all this happened.

[7771999]

Physically, it might be my face. Depends on who you are I guess.


Personality wise. Probably my procrastination and sometimes being overly talkative.

[QueenOfBaku]

What is wrong with being talkative? It's a good thing

[7771999]

Some people don't seem to like it a whole lot 😅

[QueenOfBaku]

Talkative people are great

[7771999]

I'm glad you think so 🤗

[QueenOfBaku]

🤗🤗

[Anonymous]

I'm kinda fat, and I have mental issues. I'm trying to get better tho and trying to get in shape! Wish me luck

[kassnoir]

My negativity and quick temper. I've been trying yoga for my temper, and for my negativity, I try to write good things on my journal whenever i feel negative. It somehow makes me feel better afterwards.. :)

[cth96190]

The least attractive thing about me is my age. I cannot do anything about that.

[emmily2396]

There are lots of thing attractive and unattractive about me. I don't think I will change that

[humanearth]

Same as photo, when I smile I think I look goofy. The reason I don't smile in photographs

[ecfresh]

Overweight, yes I am losing it

[meesegoMoo]

Me too! Any luck on your end?

[ecfresh]

Around 50 pounds so far, on my way. Hbu?

[meesegoMoo]

Not quite 15 for me, but I've not been taking it that seriously. It's hard to try to lose weight and build muscle at the same time, so until the last couple weeks I've been working more on getting stronger than losing weight.

50 is a huge number! How long did that take? That's an achievement many try for but few grasp.

[ecfresh]

About 6 months. Keep it going bro!

[carebear33]

Goodluck!

[ecfresh]

Ty Miss Bear, #yolo so being healthy is important

[R3DthatDude]

I give up to easily in relationships, ironically I hate when people do that 😂

[Twalli]

I am half bald due to being malnourished and it won't grow back or continue on. Because of that I almost always wear a baseball cap in public.

[Anonymous]

I have hypopigmentation on my lower back. Its like a big patch of white on my caramel skin. My body is great. Fit hourglass. But my skin is terrible.

[Dewski73]

My history! When People find you much out about me I drug addiction arrest record they throw me in the loser pile even though I have a successful business and I’m sober

[carebear33]

Fuck them. Well done.

[Anonymous]

I cannot speak directly to the people when it is necessary.

[Bman4907]

I'm overweight, so I'm trying to eat right and exercise.

[moonpie89]

I have a big forehead. I try to hide with it with my hair

[lolilola]

Hard for me to forgive, forget, let go and move on. Very annoying.

[ousrat]

Physically : my stomach cus fat and me legs cus mosquito bites

Personality: I complain , talk and overthink too much

[bulletbob555]

My stomach is out of perportion. Doing try to lose weight.

[Furuok]

I embrace my lovely beautiful passionate self. I feel sorry for those who only observe the outside.

[Mrsao]

Me in general I'm a complete mechanical aritifical fail

[Agem123]

I have this problem with anger sometimes and say things I don't mean.

[Anonymous]

Physically- I hate my height and hair

Personality- I dont know, but it's better than everyone else's.

[blkzmb777]

Maybe my vaping and no I'm totally cool with being lame like that lol

[Anonymous]

My attitude and tone of voice. It's a shitty realization that im like this. Yes, im changing it and fucking titties it's so hard to break the cycle! But I can do it