Guys, I am a 31 year single mom of three, my son is 16, daughters are 12 and 15, do you prefer to date a single mom?

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Just after my son was born, it was so tough for me to date, now that I am a tad bid older and have one tween and two teenagers, older men 15+ years have been asking me out a lot..

Drumlin2001 · Accepted Answer

I started to date a single mom, she had 3 younger kids, didn't have a lot of spare time. Eventually she decided she didn't have time for a relationship. As much as it was more difficult i wasn't put off by her kids. I thought we really clicked.
Your kids are older, should be easier with scheduling time, personally it wouldn't be a factor for me. I'd have to work dating around caring for my son (5months currently) who i'd be sharing custody for.

Hepy82 · Accepted Answer

Nope, unfortunately at my age finding a woman of a similar age who hasn't got kids is quite problematic. I've tried chatting to childless women 10years younger but they just seem to be far to materialistic for my liking. I've slowly come to the conclusion that my time for a relationship has well and truly passed..

Apope16 · Answer

I love dating single women as well. Currently dating them. But... your kids are pretty old. It means you had like three kids in your teens? If I am 31 i'd want to be raising young kids. Also... with the amount of kids you have.. it would make it harder for me if I wanted to have sex with you and have biological kids of my own. I'd want a smaller number like 1 to start at... but 3... that means you really are looking for a guy who can't have kids or doesn't want more.

AynonOMouse · Answer

No, but you could try looking for single fathers. Maybe they would be interested. Most single guys that want t o create a family are unlikely to be seriously interested, so if some do show interest, be cautious for a while to be sure they aren't just trying to use you and leave. I think looking for a single father would be your best bet for something serious and lasting. Good luck. :)

hellacray · Answer

Haha your kids are at around the age where they should be going to college.

There's no way in hell am I gonna be going out with a single mom with kids in their teen years.

I'm not going to be funding someone else's kids college fund.

Good luck finding a sucker that's willing to put up with that.

chriscdi · Answer

nah i wouldn't get into a relationship with a single mother, i like milfs dont get me wrong but in the position im in now, i am not finacially stable to even take care of myself, i can forget about 3 kids but if i was, i would, nothing wrong with mothers and their kids or anything, im sure there's guys out there that would, mostly the ones that want serious relationships, im sure there's some out there that are willing to date single mothers

cheapshotbob · Answer

i wpuld date a mom like you but moms are so stand offish , so i avoid the problems but just going for non moms because single moms are just to unpredictable and judgmental. it may be for the kids there being like that but its difficult.

Avicenna · Answer

That's quite typical for single moms to be asked out by older guys and for them to be interested in older guys who can contribute financially. Guys your age are going to want a family of their own.

Honestly, I'd say take what you can get.

wolfunknown · Answer

If I genuinely like/love a girl, It doesn't matter if she is older than me or younger than me or if she is a single mom.

pigoat · Answer

I'm older then you yet you have so much more life experience than me Getting a girlfriend will be tough because I'm an old guy with a young kids experience

zagor · Answer

With three kids, the older guys might be your best choice. I personally wouldn't go for someone with 3 kids, TBH.

Stellargasm · Answer

I don’t know if I prefer to but I’d be open to it, especially with a hot milf like you 😉

theCobbler · Answer

Well , single yes indeed, otherwise... an upset S0. ! lol However, I dont mind dating as single parent ( Female) , I'd prefer her not to have children at home, but I understand , & okay with it !

Caunsos · Answer

I think you are very sexy and willing date single mother. My biggest deal right is finding someone to have a baby with. I assume your done having kids.

Iron_Man · Answer

You are a single mom you just have 3 kids.  Wow you were like 15 years old when you had your first baby, how did you go to school like that? Who, paid for all those kids?

Anonymous · Answer

Not me, but they are getting old enough it would be less of an "issue". It's likely just a coincidence. They wouldn't know you have 3 children until they talk to you right?

blkzmb777 · Answer

I think of stability and responsibility and confidence in knowledge of what they want and require. I prefer women with children because "in my experience" they tend to be more mature less selfish and honestly more faithful.. but that's just me

genericname85 · Answer

i don't judge single moms. but i prefer not to date them, cause i really don't want other guys children in my life.

AD240pCharlie · Answer

I guess that would depend on whether or not she's willing to have more kids as I do plan to have kids myself in the future.

Anonymous · Answer

Guys won’t usually date a single mom with really young kids but now that your kids are older you will get more opportunities and with men that have grown kids already

Tomsta · Answer

So you has your first kid at 15? No i wouldn't date a single mother

chris_987 · Answer

Nope but if a women like you threw herself at me I might have to consider it.

Yellovv · Answer

Yes, I don't know why but your kind of woman is allways hot for me..

Anonymous · Answer

No One “prefers” a single mom. Will we fuck one... sure but its not worth the headache for anything else.

Anonymous · Answer

Does it annoy you that older men are trying to date you?

Anonymous · Answer

I would have you as a fuck buddy, but I would never seriously date a single-mother.

Slim57 · Answer

No most of us prefer no kids unless our own

MrTaboo · Answer

Are the daughters available too

Nawawee · Answer

If all single moms look like you then yes

Thatsamazing · Answer

No thanks

Anonymous · Answer

I like my women with round breasts.

simplelikeme · Answer

Absolutely

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