Is a dirty house a dealbreaker?

[Anonymous]

[jennifer_bloom]

It usually is but if i think I can change them I might stick around - for example - maybe it’s their first time owning their own property and they haven’t had time to clean or haven’t learned to yet - also not a deal breaker if the house is a little dirty but not too dirty and they are willing to let me clean things they don’t want to clean themselves

[Mellifluous_]

A dirty house itself doesn't bother me, since it can be cleaned. But it says a lot about the person living in the dirty house. So that may be a deal breaker. But then again, it's not impossible to fix bad habits, so if the person was willing to try and be more organized and clean, id see it as counterproductive not to give them a chance.

[Danbar95]

If its the first few times meeting and it's always like that, than yeah. Shows they don't care enough to clean up for you and even fake being a little organized

[laPrincesitaRoxi]

Depends how dirty like if it’s dirty in like a they forgot to clean way than it’s fine but if it’s like stuff piled up that looks like there hasn’t been any cleaning done in a long time than yes they might not have it together and also your brain can’t really function as properly in clutter that’s just psychologically a fact.

[Nikki1989]

It can be for me.

[hellacray]

Well how dirty we talking?

[In_Trance]

absolutely