Dating

Is this behaviour reasonable?

Has a women my hair has to be kept clean and up neat and in public I can’t look a certain way I need to be clean clothes kept (which I do) it’s was going to rain so I brought umbrella me carrying umbrella is bad he gets mad tells me put it back inside the fact that every women has some type of card discount (forgot what’s it’s called) has a women it bothers him I dont

but my boyfriend is allowed to be broke and has no money it’s okay for him to not have his life in order but I have to have mind he’s got a 20 year old son and his son cannot pass me in life
Is this behaviour reasonable?
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